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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want this girl to date me! how do I ask her though?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hiii my name is Tony and i need some help pleas, i am 17 years old from UK when i look at this web and i think that you are the one to help me :D This is the problem, i had fancy a girl for about half a year now and i plan to ask her out on Valentine day, i bought her a card b... (104 words)

I hit her, and now she cant forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife said its over because i hit her i truly regret it but its done and i just want to know if shes serious ... (25 words)

How can I improve my negative thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling very stressed, negative and angry lately. I think I may have pinpointed the areas of my life that may need improvement. My faith to my religion and my family. I feel unappreciated and unloved. I've felt so lonely before that I think I just blocked off all ... (353 words)

Is it weired to call your Baby, the same name as your EX.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I was just wondering-- my boyfriend and I are having a baby boy due this March, and my absolute favorite name that i have picked out just happens to be the name of this guy i used to hook up with... i want that name so bad but it's kind of been bugging me... is it weird to... (105 words)

Everything still reminds me of her and I dream about her all the time. It still hurts to have lost her. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Was with a girl for 2.5 years. We had lots of ups and downs. She had a problem lying(sometimes for my better) and i had some times where i got anger and treated her like shit. We truly split back in May when i missed a important event of hers(long story) Well all summer i ... (529 words)

Which of these two guys should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend, Jack, who i have known since freshman year of high school. We were really close and best friends even after he had to move before our senior year. Not long before he moved, he told me that he was in love with me but i was scared to start a relationship with him ... (283 words)

Is dumping my boyfriend the solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, Well im 16 and I know for a fact that im attracted to older men, but theres nothing I can really do about it at this time in my life. I am still attracted to guys my own age, in fact, I have a boyfriend that I have been seeing since september. The only problem is that ... (461 words)

My b/f's friend is being nasty. Who should I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my life is completely screwed up right now! Well..this is the story! my boyfriends bff (ive told u about her) well shes being a pain in the butt saying that im fat and ugly and all that rude stuff! well the one thing that made me mad was that she said to me that sahe did my ... (88 words)

Why does she torment me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago, she's now been going out with another guy for about 3 weeks. I don't know if it's a rebound, she saw a different guy for a couple of days before, and that was definitely a rebound. But this one seems more serious. Anyway, w... (152 words)

Can love work 2nd time round?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am good friends with a woman in which we used to have a relationship until last fall. When the relationship ended we both agreed that we would like to remain friends. I wasn't sure how well this would work, but our friendship has turned out better then I expected. In ... (301 words)

Is this verging on rape?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I'm in Year 11 at school, and one of the boys who I've like for a while is apparently into me. I would do anything for him to like me, and we are quite physical anyway. We have intimate hugs a lot. (He's always been a player.) However, lately, he has been trying to rub me and f... (169 words)

Why do I take this out on my Parents?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - dear cupid i am a 17 years of age and currently have a phobia of not being able to defend my self and getting scared of people and the dark. this happened since i got stabbed and has gotten worser to the fact that my hands become paralaysed when im about to fight someone, ... (103 words)

Complicated story - where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there. i have a problem. well you see, i met this girl in college last september and at the time she was with someone. we got on very well, too well. its a year and a half on and we're preparing to go uni in spetember. shes not with him anymore. ive asked her out. it got all ... (198 words)

Should I butt out and let them get on with it? I don't want to lose a good friend.

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17 January 2008 (F) - Over the weekend me and my friends went out to a party and met these boys from Long Island. Us girls live in Connecticut which is about a hour and a half drive from where the boys live. We all had a fun time and eventually me, my sister, and my best friend Angie took a liking ... (530 words)

He says he will never go back to her, but I can't get his ex out of my head, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am extremely jealous of my boyfriends ex; well, not so much his ex, but, just the fact that he has been married already and has a daughter. He says he married the right girl at the time and doesn't regret it. They still get along and their families are close. He says he ... (143 words)

I'm 13 and pregnant. How do I run this by my family?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well..I am thirteen years old ..I am pregnant..I dont know how to tell my friends and especially family...Im not all that tight with my family...But we are getting alot of support from my boyfriends side of the family..I just dont know if i will get any fom mine..I don't know ... (98 words)

How can I get to accept that there's no future in this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - OMG I am a mess. I have know this lovely woman for several months but both she and I are in long term relationships of our own. My problem is I Can't get her out of my head and see her several times a week. She has said no to a relationship beyond friendship but if I don'... (130 words)

I'm tired of waiting for her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been very close friends with a girl for about 8 months now. she has always flirted and i thought nothing of it until last month whilst over her house we kissed, an achievement for someone of her poor confidence. the next time i went to hers we kissed again and i told her ... (144 words)

Politics is coming between us. What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age - Help! I’m in a little trouble here with my wife and politics. I’m a republican and conservative and I plan on voting for a republican candidate in the primaries and eventually the November vote. My wife is a strong supporter of a certain candidate on the democrat side, and ... (404 words)

Is this normal or am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

- hi i just wanted some advice my friend of 15 years, we are both in our 20s. the other day she mentioned she had been seeing a counseller (as she has a few problems with her past and depression etc)and that the counseller had told her that she should ask her friends (ie: me) ... (133 words)

Did I miscarry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right this is pretty worring because i think i might have miscarried without knowing that i was pregnant. I was having a really really heavy period to the extent where i put a tampon in and within 15 minutes i felt that it had come through so i went to the toilet and in my... (153 words)

I asked him if he'd like me to be thinner, and now I can't stand for him to see me naked. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend. and he loves me too and wud never hurt me. We're both people who think looks don't matter in each other (but criticise our own looks constantly). He calls me beautiful but i think it's that 'i don't love you cos ur beautiful, ur beautiful cos i love ... (293 words)

Am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all ok so here is the thing im 26 and going out with a 23 year old , i really like him and found myself falling for him , the thing is im scared as in the past ive had really bad relationships where my ex have been abusive to me , now this bf knows about this and has... (236 words)

How do I find a single guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there something wrong with me I just can not understand why I only seem to find guys that already have girlfriends attractive. How can i find a guy that seems attractive to me yet single too? ... (38 words)

I fell for my doctor, then he went cold on me, I still obsessed with him, how can I figure out what was going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been a couple of years since I saw him last but I still think about him from time to time and wonder why he treated me as so. I was pregnant with my 3rd child. ( We lost my 1st when I was 6m. pregnant due to a severe abnormality)He treated me and took care of me different ... (500 words)

At the moment I want to be his friend rather than his partner. Am I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to tell mt bf that i want a break. It may sound easy but the situtation that surrounds it is difficult. My bf is into his third week of quitting drugs and alcohol. He has been violent but not towards me and has threatened to kill himself. I love him so much and ... (196 words)

Do girls generally go for the tall guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6148 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 22, a short fellow (about 4'3). i really like to have a nice relationship. but none have really ever worked out the way i had hoped. currently i am in love with a girl i know also likes me but keeps turning down my proposal with the excuse that she has a guy. sometimes i ... (108 words)

How can I be like everyone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i dont know where to start really. I am a 19 year old girl, perfect life at uni, perfect boyfriend. I should be so happy. I live with 4 lovley girls. However, i hate who i am. I know it sounds ridiculous. I know im quite a nice person but i dont have any 'banter'. I was ... (177 words)

My right breast is larger than my left - is this normal?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

17 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I've noticed that my right breast is bigger than my left one. Is this normal? It's not looads bigger, but quite a fair bit. I read a story in a magazine once about a girl needing surgery because one was significantly bigger, and now I'm getting worried. It's not ... (71 words)

How do I deal with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a kind of complicated problem, but I'll try to shorten it up.... I am in a long distance relationship currently with an amazing guy. Problem is, I still feel threatened by his ex gf. We met in the summer while he was still dating her, and I had no idea his ex even exis... (714 words)

How should I go about making our relationship something more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots of each other, cos our fami... (285 words)

What can I do about my feelings for my lesbian boss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a straight woman. had boyfriends before and ive always liked guys. until one day, i realized that im inlove with my lesbian boss. but im just "gay" for her. okay call me a lesbian too because i really really like my boss. the thing is, my lesbian boss is not "out" in the ... (277 words)

How can I stop my crush on a manager at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im falling in love with a manager at work im 18 shes 23-25 and it hurt. I think about her as i wakeup and last thing before i sleep i try so hard not to i know itll be a stupid crush secondly it wouldn't happen and i wouldn't do that to her family yet i still yearn for her and ... (130 words)

I thought going participating in a lap dancing session would be fun with my husband, now I'm jealous, how can I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my husband and i have been married a couple of years and have recently had a new baby(4months). it was a significant birthday for him at the weekend and he asked if we could go to a pole dancing club, i said yes, though inside felt alittle hesitant, but i had openly exp... (402 words)

What do you do when your life is going all wrong but you cover it up and act like everything is okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do when your life is going all wrong but to cover it up you fake a smile and act like its all, all right? see i have this boyfriend named Dylan hes suppost to be my love and everything but hes always agreeing with Joe. see Joe always says something bad about me or ... (152 words)

Am I overreacting or do I just need to trust him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So, my boyfriend of one year is going out of town to take a test. While he is up there his friend who lives nearby may come visit him. The problem is she is a woman. He told me about it and I appreciated that but I asked if she knew he was dating someone. He said he told her he ... (155 words)

He like her, she has a bf. But I like him..so where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like a guy a met but we're not close. but he really likes my friend. and recently my friend got a boyfriend and the guy got jealous and now he has a girlfriend. i don't know if this is because he's trying to get back at my friend or not. But now, i'm stuck in the mid... (83 words)

The trauma of losing her is really affecting my life, my work.. How can I know whether she is telling me the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl i had known sometime back after a long time of missing link. some how we got to know each other better and remained friends for about a month. Everything that went on between us clearly told me we were in love so i decided to propose love to her. To my surprise, ... (151 words)

Ex bf trouble..I'm thinking of him too much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well...my ex and i were together for a number of years but slip up nearly 2 years ago, ive been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year now and im really happy with him. But i still think about my ex, even though when we were together he cheated a lot and destoyed my self ... (120 words)

The past few times we were supposed to meet up he's come up with excuses! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a long distance relationship (I'm in England he's in Scotland) for the past 4 1/2 years. We haven't met up as much as I would like and sometimes this has taken it's toll and we've fallen out for a few days. The past few times he's has supposed to meet up he's com... (259 words)

Two weeks ago he suddenly stopped talking to me, not replying to any messages I sent. Is it me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I started working with this guy twelve months ago (although he has since left the company two months ago) and we hit it off straight away. Im 23, he's 41 but we have the same interests and the same wicked sense of humour. Even after he left working with us we have stayed in ... (219 words)

Can men and women really just be friends even though they've been together in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - can men and women really just be friends even though they've been together in the past, my boyfriend of 10 years has quite a few girly friends who he keeps in touch with and my point is that the majority of these women have been his girlfriends and I've never met them, so how ... (61 words)

Grounded for 3 weeks because I spent the nigh at my bf's house...Now he's taking it out on me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months have told each other that we love each other. We have only been going out for 3 months but we were seeing each other for 3 monthe befor hand. I stayed at his house the other night but my mum and dad dont approve of this and my twin sister told ... (169 words)

BF of a year doesn't love me or think he ever can and prefers his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK a shorter version of my 'boring' one...my bf loved me once many months ago but doesn't now and doesn't think he ever can - or anyone else supposedly - yet having been with me over a year still prefers his ex (who dumped him). He's a good bf, but only to a point, after which ... (65 words)

Should I contact an old gf, after 15 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age - I've started thinking a lot recently about an ex-girlfriend. The relationship ended 15 years ago and was a brief but very intense thing (i'm 44 now). I'm now considering contacting her (how are you, how's life going, nice kids etc etc), but am not sure a) as i I've found her ... (99 words)

I still like him, but I made him feel that I don't care but I do...a lot. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am fat. there is this guy whom i like but he doesnt like me. he knows that i like him.....he was very nice to me about it but he changed(somethings happened but i dont want to tell them). he sent back a message from my friend for me that i should find someone else. i ... (143 words)

How can I get rid of this spot?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am thinking of mayb takin it further with my boyfriend. I am ready to have sex but there is one thing that is pulling me back and that is i have a stubble down below. Is there anyway i can get a clean shave with out waxing as i am allergic to the wax. the first time i shaved ... (113 words)

Did I make a mistake by not telling him I am a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, ive recently had my first kind of relationship but it only lasted 3 weeks the guy i was kind of seeing was a lot older then me and more exprienced he had 3 children,anyway i stayed round his house about 4 times and really wanted to have sex but was not sure where ... (167 words)

What colour is cum - clear or white?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was giving my boyfriend a blow job and then finished the job with a hand job. He came but the cum was clear but i thought that is was white. Am i wrong?? This was my first time i had seen come so i might be wrong. Please help. ... (50 words)

How do I 'burn' the past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It was my first love 6 years back, we were crazily inlove with each other. After a year things became distant and disturbed. One fine day he called it off...but after some discussions, we decided, we will try our best. But then things turned for the worse, he started taking me ... (124 words)

Shoud I just try to forget him or will he realise what he lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - im 38 he's 36. met last april. he has a 3 year old son that i got on with brilliantly. the childs mother is the problem and caused lots of trouble as she doesn't want him to move on. it all got too much after 6 months and he bailed out. i was devastated. i text his ex to tell ... (464 words)

He wants to be friends but I'm confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend said when we split lets just be friends, well that was nearly 2 months ago ive not heard from him since and only really seen him from driving around he doesnt even go to the place where i meet him.why did he say that to me if he doesnt want to? help please help ... (62 words)

He rubs his body on me and is generally very gross. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy has been flirting with me ever since school started. Hes confusing because he is flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my shoulder and says '' hey, check this out! '' and zips down my sweater ... (109 words)

Do I still love my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 14 I dated "jerome"... this lasted about a year and a half on and off ALOT.. it was an awful relationship but we had our good emotional times. We both understand eachother more then anyone in the world.. I coudl never be more comfortable around anyone else. SO we ... (272 words)

How do I get him all to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Recently I met a friend of a friend. I'd spoken to him over msn a few times but never met him in person. When i did though we really got along. But later that evening, at his party, my friend told me that he's pretty much in love with another girl. But she is just using ... (81 words)

Does it hurt a guy when he loses his virginity?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2695 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok something has been bothering me or annoying me for some time now my friend was asking me when guys loose the viginity does it hurt please tell me ... (29 words)

23, 6 weeks together and now I could be pregnant. Will it work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - O.k...I have been dating a great guy for about 6 weeks, and after I didn't get my period (I haven't had one since we've been together) we realized that I am most likely pregnant. I am going to find out for sure this weekend. I am just having some concerns because of the fact ... (274 words)

This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to my husband and never looke... (257 words)

She's got herpes. What are the risks to my health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

- My ex girlfriend just found out that she has Vaginal Herpes. She got it from her current,(soon to be ex) boyfriend. So i'm in a bit of a pickle. We have for a while now been talking about seeing each other again and since I split with my girl too it started looking like it ... (216 words)

My family broke up, now they're all back. It's causing me big problems. How do I cope with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm sorry, this might be a bit long... A few years ago, when I was 13, my family started breaking up, slowly but surely. I didn't know it at the time, but my parents were having problems as my dad kept getting us into debt and lying about it. Their marriage wasn't strong, ... (400 words)

How do I play it cool?

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17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i've met this girl, and i think shes beautiful and really nice, and id really like to get to know her, ive seen her once or twice after meeting her originally, and now im becoming a lot more paranoid, although not as much as i'd usually be with a girl because i know ... (145 words)

What is in her mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6150 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Our relationship is about one and half years,though we are known to each other for last 8 years.Problem is,she had past two relationships before me.She still have contacts with them and talk almost regularly with one of them.Thats not a problem for me.I cant understand why she ... (76 words)

How can I get along with his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here's the deal.. I'm having family problems at home, and i'm about to move 250 miles away from everything, it's going to be hard to start a new life as i don't have any qualifications or a job (yet). So i'm going to live with my boyfriend and his parents for a ... (289 words)

Should I be worried that he 'slept' with another woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend went on a trip with his friends and they were camping in tents. he slept in a tent with one other guy and one girl. i wasnt on the trip because i was on a trip with my own friends. anyway while on the trip the other guy and the girl in his tent had sex a lot whil... (134 words)

Do I have a realistic plan?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm 16, and yes sexually active. I'm on birth control, and were having unprotected sex, but he pulls out. My bf is 21. I graduate in a year and a half, when I'm seventeen. If I do happen to get pregnant I have it all planned out.. Just because my grandma, mother, and sister ... (220 words)

Would a girl know that I like her with this kind of xmas gift?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Were co-workers and we've known each other for about 5 months now. Hung out couple of times and seem to start a good friendship. I'm so into this girl but i just cannot read her. She seems to appreciate little things i give her once in a while, but this time i wanted to see ... (127 words)

She broke up with me and now doesn't speak to me. Whats going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend of about three months told me about a week ago that she wanted to "take a break" because she needed to focus on her schoolwork, and that there's some problems at home. I come to school the next day (Friday), and she doesn't say hi to me nor anything else all ... (136 words)

I don't know about our future together. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for a year and 8 months, but like 5 months ago he moved back to New Orleans. Ever since then I'v been upset because I've been hurt too many times in the past and afraid to get hurt again and we're starting to argue over the smallest things. ... (258 words)

Is there such a thing as too much sex in a relationship even if we both really enjoy it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can too much sex in a relationship ever be bad? My boyfriend and I used to have sex an average amount but recently it has become more frequent. I'm scared our relationship will become merely based on sex... Is that a possibility? Can there ever be too much sex? We are both ... (77 words)

First love, but we don't say I love you...

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17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im going out with this girl who i really do think is my first love..but we dont say i love you to eachother, ive said it before and it caught her offguard which made us take a week a way from eachother, so i learned the lesson to wait, dont get me wrong im all up for waiting ... (141 words)

Why doesn't he seem to want to be more than friends?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All well maybe some insightful people here can give me some insight.... I dated this man 4yrs ago for a short time it was a whirl wind romance that didnt work out. It was both our fault. we ended on bad terms. But years later we reconneted as friends. 2yrs afte... (320 words)

I like him, but he has a girlfriend. I feel guilty. Should I?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I feel really guilty like in bad guilty way...See I like this boy his name is Miguel and were friends he knows that I like him that way...He is pretty cool with it it doesn't seem to bother him..He has a girlfriend...Well today we were texting back and forth we were flirting ... (200 words)

Are my interests normal?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i know i probably already know the answer, but im gonna ask anyway. i look at porn sometimes wen i masturbate and i prefer looking at girls and girls rather then 'straight' sex, and i think about it too. i have a boyf and love him to pieces but i do like to fantasize about ... (78 words)

Do you think he's interested in me?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age - I'm attracted to a man who works in a different division at my agency. We get along great but I haven't yet decided how he feels about me. But one woman who works with him has told me a few times that he talks about me a lot in their office. Do you think that I might reasonably ... (93 words)

We love each other and want to be together, but our parents don't approve. What can we do?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and my boyfriend is 23. he lives in cali and i live in las vegas. we love each other and would want to be together and get married but our parents don't approve. we have tried everything to be together and i don't know what to do.... (50 words)

Do some girls enjoy emotionally hurting guys and using them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well she had recently been ignoring me and i had been wondering why she had been doing this. It was really upsetting me so i tried ignoring her to get her to realize how much it botherd me, nothing changed. Well i had till now been waiting for her since 1 month before sum... (265 words)

Will girls be attracted to me only because they know I've got a large penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright this problem arised about a year ago, i first noticed that i was quite large when i found an article on the internet about average sizes of an adult penis. Well i immediately measured myself out of curiosity because i didnt really care until then. Well lets just say i ... (294 words)

My man is a fratboy who treats me like dirt, is there any hope?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. He stopped hanging out with his Fraternity friends for a long time because they were bad influences and he was so nice to me. Now, he has started again and is emotionally abusing me!! He says he wants to be with me but wont ... (134 words)

Is it ok for a senior to date a sophmore??

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17 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like her a lot but the age diffrance has me a little worried and people at my school tend to call people cradle robbers etc when they date people who are not in the same grade. I really like her but I want to make sure its ok for me to date her. Im 18 she is 16 and is a ... (81 words)

She blows hot n cold. Is she interested or am I reading too much into it?

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17 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, This may seem like the run of the mill question however. I started this new job say 5weeks ago, and this girl started about 2 days after me, we have started to get on quite well etc. I drop her off home after work, and we have alot in common, When i'm at work I sometime... (138 words)

Do I leave mr nice guy to go back to my ex?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am so confused with me and my boyfriend. my ex boyfriend has started to like me, and he is the type of guy you can't resist crushing on. lately it hasn't felt right between me and my boyfriend (once i found out my ex liking me) my boyfrien is the sweetest guy and so nice to ... (121 words)

First time Brazillian bikini wax..any info tips?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i know this isnt really a relationship question but me and my friend are getting our first brizilian bikini wax on friday and i wanted to know if there is anything i should do to make it less painful or something. i also have really sensitive skin so im hoping i dont get ... (179 words)

They mean the world to me..and they're leaving. What can I give them before they go?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, On Sunday night, I found out that two of my closest friends, Kathleen and Jason (who is also my crush) are moving in about two weeks. The town they're moving to is about an hour and a half away from the one we all three live in right now. Naturally, I was abso... (212 words)

Could I be bi sexual?

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17 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and i have a boyfriend. I find men attractive and i like having sex with them. My sex life is quite normal for my age and im only interested in dating men and pulling men and i always have been. The only thing is, i get off more on women than i do on men and i ... (153 words)