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writes: I am an 18 year old girl who has been dating another girl for a little over 2 1/2 years. I love her with all my heart...she is my everything. But recently i found out she and an old friend of hers made moves on eachother. It had turned me on if anything and something almost went down. The thought of a threesome spiked my interest. The next day she pretty much told me that she doesnt wanna have a threesome...and why would i wanna turn on another guy...and all that crap. But its not like that at all. I dont even like guys at all. I just figured it would be fun to try once. I told her nothing will change my love for her. Now i am really bummed out for some reason, was really looking forward to it. what should i do? how can i make her interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): People are always being re-socialized throughout life. We adopt different veiws as we grow. If you want to have a 3-some you have to exploit her weak views on the subject. This requires extreme attentiveness and is a selfish aproach because it often also requires deception and pressure. You have to weigh your feelings for her against your needs for a 3-some.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (2 January 2008):
Pick me! Pick me! There's nothing hotter for a straight guy than to be the meat in the middle of a lesbo sandwich. LOL.
Seriously. If she's not interested, she's not interested. Let it drop . . . if she means that much to you.
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