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Is it over before it began?

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Question - (2 January 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I recently ran into my ex boyfriend of 12 years ago. The only other time we ever saw each other was a few years ago when we met up and visited for one night. We are both married with families but decided to meet up a few times. The last time things got a little steamy with a short make out session. We both decided we would like to meet again soon and that it would only be for "fun." I had called him to initiate the last few meetings but we left it at him being the one to call this time. He hasn't called....

Basically I just wonder if he will and if not, should I since we left it at him calling me this time? I would like to meet again if not for anything else just to hang out, we always did have great chemistry and I just don't want our little "thing" to end just yet.....HELP!

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (3 January 2008):

eddie agony auntWhy would you seek advice about the best way to do something rotten? Why not try to figure out where your marriage went wrong?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (3 January 2008):

eddie agony auntWhy would you seek advice about the best way to do something rotten? Why not try to figure out where your marriage went wrong?

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A female reader, Sparkly_Stars United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2008):

Sparkly_Stars agony auntWell, to be honest I think you really need to sit down and wonder how you would feel if your husband was having 'steamy make-out sessions' with someone else behind your back. Its about time you realised what is most important to you in life.. and I really do hope that whats most important to you is your kids and your family.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

quit having an affair! don't you think this would kill your husband and kids, either devoirce him or go for ther other! can't have your cake and eat it two!

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (3 January 2008):

dearkelja agony auntYou are both married. If you've been initiating things and you left it up to him to initiate the next "outing" then I think you should leave well enough alone. My guess is that he was not comfortable with the passion of the last meeting and to avoid going further or damaging his marriage he is doing the respectful thing and avoiding contact with you. I'm sorry this probably isn't what you wanted to hear.

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