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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Very confused over my sexual orientation...help me sort this out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old male. All of my sexual encounters have been with men. However after these encounters I feel the need to take super long showers or baths ( 5 hours or more each. All the time after every encounter. I have scrubbed my skin raw a few times. I brush my teeth ... (112 words)

Should I date my cousn's friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well I really need help here. I really like my cousin's best friend. He likes me too, and we go to school together. My cousin goes to a different school. My cousin has his friend over every weekend, and I always come over to hang out with his sister. My cousin hates when Me ... (186 words)

Why is she acting the way she is? It has me very confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm just wondering why this girl is acting the way she is... We hooked up at her house a month or so ago, we were both drunk and it was our first time meeting, and since we've kept in contact. Never really getting into huge conversations, just short conversati... (344 words)

He has a new gf and they are lovey dovey in front of me..should I switch seminar groups?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

- Hi everyone. I broke up with my boyfriend and he left me for another girl in my seminar group here on campus. Whenever I am there they are lovey dovey in front of me and I am still having trouble dealing with it. I have been trying my best to ignore them but it is still kinda ... (80 words)

Why is he STILL contacting me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - I hadn't heard from my ex fiance since christmas eve, after I told him for the thirtieth time very sternly to not contact me, and then just today I got a text from him asking where a certain restaurant was that he forgot how to get to, also saying that he is sorry for bugging ... (157 words)

Why do guys say the sweetest things when a girl starts to walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound like a really stupid question, but I was just wondering why it seems that guys always say the sweetest things when a girl starts to walk away? I've noticed this a lot with this guy at school. I'll be talking to him about my boyfriend or just something I ... (145 words)

I'm annoyed with my mom. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

- I'm so annoyed. My mum phoned me tonight at half 9pm. I'm 14 and she wouldn't let me stay out any later. She wouldn't let me sleep at my friends house. She has annoyed me so much I'm going to ignore her until she lets me stay out later. All my other friends get to stay out ... (75 words)

Is it to early to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well me and my bf have been going out for just over 3weeks now, we were always really close before hand anyway. we went to the cinema together last week and yea sat in the back row etc. he kept kissing me etc. and touching my breasts, i was also wearing a skirt with tig... (133 words)

Why do I feel sick during sex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

- Hello... i am really confused at the moment. me and my fiance have been sleeping together for 4 months ( he's 18 and im 17 almost 18) and we have never had problems. but lately ive been having a problem. i've skipped a period so i took a pregnancy test and it came back negati... (144 words)

I Love him and I always will. - My english teacher

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a average and very mature 14 years old. Due to the fact I have had to grow up a lot quicker than others due to family errors. I have suddenly lost all sense of maturity and all common sense full stop. I am in love with my English teacher as he treats me like a person. He ... (174 words)

Why is my life going down hill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 and my life is going down hill first 1.i am a very old (i am 14) 2. my best friend of 10 years is on the edge of moving to canada 3.i have lost my very expensive ipod 4.my sister is a druggie 5.the boy i like is madly in love with another girl 6. i am falling out w... (109 words)

How should I advise him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i really dont know what to tell my best friend as i have never been asked advice on anything like this before!!! I have two best friends (both guys) one of whom is gay and came out about a year ago. Well my gay best friend (we'll call him greg) told me about a month ag... (281 words)

Was this the right thing to do?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I caught my 12 year old niece smoking cigarettes with her friend. I was going to tell her mom, as I was bringing her home she said that if she gave me a blowjob can I forget about it? We pulled down a back road and she sucked me off in my car, She spit it out into a napkin.Th... (91 words)

How can I NOT freak him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently went on a blind date with a guy, and we really hit it off. We have met up about four times now, and slept together. I like him but I'm scared in case it is just a bit of a laugh for him, in which case I don't want to continue seeing him. Although he has said he ... (135 words)

I don't know if she likes me in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like this girl and have done for months now, i have had sex with her, i took her virginity, and were good mates, but i like her more than just mates i really really like her. but i don't know if she likes me in that way? how can you help me?... (54 words)

Is love over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately I have been real irritable with him frustrated angry for know apparent reason and everything he does makes me mad even when he is being nice.I don't know what to do i just want to know why i am this way now.... (43 words)

Why won't she leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend always gets back together with her boyfriend, she is in highschool, so is he, but he threatened her under a false name, i've tried to tell her that she shouldn't be with him, she has "dumped" him but i'm really sure she still has feelings for him, i've told her h... (73 words)

I want him to beg.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I really need some advice. My boyfriend treated me bad. I am willing to forgive him this time though!! As long as he learns from it. The only thing wrecking my head is im the 1 contacting him and asking to meet up. He isn't crawling or begging me to get back with ... (96 words)

Can a woman feel when condom split?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this questions for experienced women mainly.. when using a condom can cum get out the bottom of the condom and can u feel it if a condom splits and can u feel cum comeing out into you..... (38 words)

He disrespects me and I hit him, Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this is my third post regarding my fiance...He gets upset over everything...says i reject him for ex...new years day morning...he called to see if i wanted to come over for breakfast. i told him i wasn't hungry but that id see him soon (in about 1 hour after i got ready) ... (581 words)

I have some questions about the pill....can anybody help??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a couple of questions about the pill, what are the side effects of taking the pill? What does it prevent and stop and how can i get it? If you ran out how do u get more does it cost to buy them?? ... (45 words)

13 and I feel I maybe pregant...can anybody help with advice on where I can be tested and what to say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I've had sex twice this month today and last week on Sunday i think or maybe 2 weeks ago Sunday. I have recently been feeling more tired and i've had belly ache nearly everyday and certain smells when i walk into food shops it makes me feel sick when i'm eating. I'm ok, ... (298 words)

She says I'm her first but friends say she has been with others...and now our sex life has slowed down it bothers me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age - My wife and I have been together for 20 years. When we first started to date in high school I was told by friends that she had been with a least 2 other guy's sexually. It never bothered me until just recently when our sex life started to slow way down. I never ask her unti... (118 words)

We are trying to enjoy our final months together but I am not always sure how he feels.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now with a man who is a fair bit older than me. He's my best friend, my first boyfriend and I am very much in love with him and am always trying to show how much he means to me. But, being a fairly un-confident person, I am not a... (243 words)

My bf keeps asking for sex but I don't know what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, My bf keeps asking me for sex, should i say yes or no? I am 13 and don't know what to do.... helppppp... (26 words)

Should we meet on neutral ground or should I just walk away??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year broke up with me a week ago. I feel 50/50 about it. Relief because we had been living together and it wasn't working, I feel happier back at home with my family. Sad because he was lovely to me, and I miss him, and it's hard to break the routine.... (314 words)

I really don't want to be alone living so far away from home but we argue everyday.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, he has cheated twice but i forgave him. We moved hundreds of miles away from all our friends and family to start a fresh. But when we got here i was real depressed - i missed my home, and he w... (228 words)

Where best to propose? Paris or restaurant on Valentine's day?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age - I can't decide which of the two events I should use to propose to my girl friend. I originally planned to propose to her on valentine's day in the same Italian restaurant we had our first date. I have the ring and I have made arrangement at the restaurant. Now we are going to ... (125 words)

She dumped me out of the blue after I tried to finger her...do you think there is any hope for the future??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend dumped me on Monday, after a month, she said that she didn't feel the same way as when we started dating, it just completely came out of nowhere and I was devastated. I was sure that we would last longer than that and i thought that it was love. I'm confused... (267 words)

What is the best way to get a girls number??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and i like this girl thats sits next to me in Spanish class. I talk to her a little more every time i see her. So i want to get her number but i don't really know how. What is the best and easiest way to get a girls number? ... (56 words)

If I get back with my ex how could I deal with facing his family again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just before New Year I came back from holiday and I had just, so I thought - finished my period. The evening I first saw my boyfriend after I came back, we tried to have sex but I managed to get blood all over his red sheets. His family were at home at the time and I told h... (243 words)

Is there anything we can do to stop her taking drugs and get out of this bad relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

- I am 18 years old and my 18 year old friend has been with her bf who is also 18, for about 5-6months now. This is kind of unusual for her because she usually goes from guy to guy and they have always been guys who treat her soooooooo badly. This guy she is now dating, I never ... (373 words)

How can I get over not talking when I am out with friends??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to have the same problem this year. I'm at a new school and i'm friends with all the popular girls and they are all really outgoing and i am when i'm around people not in that group. So last night i went out with a bunch of them and i found myself just listening t... (95 words)

Does the fact that my cd made her cry mean my ex isn't over me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. She's been with someone else for about 3 weeks and last night I gave her a compilation cd i made. I asked her if she'd listened and she txt back and said some of the songs made her cry. Does this mean she's not over me? Or ... (77 words)

The relationship has lost the 'buzz' it once had but he thinks things will be ok with time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone - can anyone help my situation. I've with this guy. We've been together nearly 5 years but have split up a couple of time within that time. We don't live together and have no kids together. The problem is that we split up last February (my decision) but got back... (189 words)

How do I build my confidence and become less irritating??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

- Are some of us meant to be alone all our lives? I'm 20 and I have had 1 or 2 girlfriends but they have only lasted a few weeks. I see other people with boyfriends and girlfriends and I think, they seem great together I wish I could have that. I know it sounds weird that at 20 ... (222 words)

I have met this great guy but I have to lie to my parents to go out with him and I don't want it to cause problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was hoping that I could get some advice on what to do in this situation. I am 18 years old, and going into my second year of uni. My parents, and especially my mother, are rather conservative, strict, and kinda old fashioned. My mother never let me have a boyfriend when I w... (275 words)

We have love but no passion, how can I get my gf to let us have sex??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year and a half now and we still haven't had sex. We both love each other and we're both virgins. She is quite happy to perform sexual acts on me and she lets me go down on her, but when it comes to either fingering her or ... (139 words)

His ex is making me self-conscious and driving me insane.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half. It has been a good relationship and he is probably my first real true love in life and he swears that I am the only one for him and he could not live without me. I've grown very insecure about this over the course o... (465 words)

He blanked me when he was playing football with his mates, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this lad and when we are alone or around my mates he acts nice and he says things like what he would do to me if we were alone and he says he likes me. BUT one night he invited me to watch him play football so i went and he completely blanked me out, i think its ... (74 words)

Why did I not get a response??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy gave me all the signs that he really liked me. I think he was going to ask me out, but I froze and acted distant. To make it right, I called him at work and asked for his e-mail. He gave me it, and checked it immediately while I was on the phone. (Although I had no... (80 words)

Are feelings subconsciously reciprocated..or...does it depend on the person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - I'm curious, when you like someone (making eye contact, smiling, brushing arms, etc), is it possible that they feel the same way about you as well?(We're both 17-18) I go to sports practice twice a week and I always look forward to it. Now I have even more to look forward ... (178 words)

Can I have womens opinions on how to deal with my ex please??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

- Its been a little over a month since my ex broke up with me. Yea, I still love her and want her back. But the pain is going away finally. I am going out and having fun. She is with a new guy too. But the thing is I don't think she expects me to move on. She calls me behind h... (255 words)

Our relationship would be ideal except for his six-year affair and now I am on the brink of ending it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age - I am in total desperation. I have been with my husband for 36 years and have 3 children all out of the home. We have had our ups and downs throughout our life but have always managed to overcome our problems. 6 years ago we bought a business which is a 24/7 type. I run ... (160 words)

I'm afraid people will laugh at me if I raise my hand in class.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid to raise my hand in class. Because people are going to laugh at me and say things behind my back. What should i do?... (26 words)

My boyfriend left hickeys on my body, that cannot be camouflaged!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok heres the thing my bf left 14 hickeys on diffrent parts of my body and all can not be covered and i don't know what to do please help ... (30 words)

I feel like she is a little bit extra than the normal 'hi'.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am a male and I train at a physical fitness place. There is this one particular girl who works there (at the front reception) and she is the type of person who always is very polite. However, I feel at times she is a little extra, like more than the usual "hi, are are ... (207 words)

I'm 15 and he's 20...is this ok??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 15 atm and I met a fantastic guy in the summer. He is 20. We have both had feelings for each other for about 10 months now and he wants us to have a relationship. He is a good person and he wont do anything with me until im 16 in feb 08 but then he will be 21. Is it ... (82 words)

Could an accident have caused this and would any of the drugs to cure it have side-effects??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - If a man in his late 30's is having problems getting an erection and starting to have less of a desire for sex, could this be from an accident he had many years ago? He fell and broke his back, had surgery where his back looks like a railroad track literally and he does have ... (189 words)

Could my gf get pregant if she used the shower after I masturbated??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a woman get pregnant if she walks into the shower after a guy masturbates in it (if both don't shower together and the guy doesn't penetrate the woman)-- say if a she takes a shower anywhere between 5-30 minutes later? I masturbated in the corner of the shower stall an... (95 words)

I can't stand the fact he had sex with his ex. Any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we are very much in love. I have a problem though. I can't help but get disgusted when I think about him having sex in the past with his then girlfriend. I've never met her...It was before we even knew each other but I st... (108 words)

What can you do when you just can't get over your ex??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay. So I'm getting over him, or trying. But there are some things that are making it impossible. One: I see him almost every day at the gym (he works there, and yes, working out does make you feel better post-break up, but not when he tries to flirt and pretend nothing ... (346 words)

How can I find someone who wants more than a drunken fumble??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting a bit fed up of meeting girls and nothing actually becoming of it, how do i know when a girl is actually interested and wants a bit more than a drunken fumble? How can i meet some one that i can have some good times with, i just seem to be going around in circles ... (84 words)

Is it possible for me to accept him (and his limits) but not get hurt in the end if he does not truly want a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and he likes me (I am not sure if he likes me for me, or just for sex). I want a relationship with him, but he doesn't want a relationship right now. Is it possible for me to do stuff with him but not get hurt in the end if he doesn't want to be with me?... (63 words)

Am I gay or am I just looking for stimulation with my husband away so much??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6163 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am female, mid 30s and am married but for the past 3 years have been attracted to women. Is it something that comes over you after you have a kid? My husband travels allot and when he's in town, wish he would go back. Within the past three years, 3 women in particul... (201 words)

I'm head over heels with this married man and am so scared and confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm talking to this guy, he's great the thing is he's married. He says he doesn't love her and that they don't sleep in the same room and you know the usual that all married men say =x. But, I want to believe him because he's amazing. He's makes me laugh, I was in this hor... (252 words)

Why would he keep coming back to me if we weren't meant to be??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age - I met a man 10 years ago who was already living with his partner. We started chatting for a few months then ended up in bed. His partner found out and then we didn't didn't see each other for a couple of years and then out of the blew in phoned me and wanted to meet. We... (632 words)

How can I make things better between me and my crush??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I am incredibly dumb! I finally started talking to the guy I've been crushing on- you know just small talk. He knew my ex, but I told him we broke up (because we did)and I see him at a bar a couple of weeks later. He started making stupid faces at me (he's kinda a ... (227 words)

My younger sister makes me horny, please help.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. I am 15 and i get really horny when i am around my younger sister who is 13. I really want to see her naked but never have. What should i do?... (35 words)

How can I show my teacher I am there for him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, There's this English teacher at my school (his name is Mr. Chumley;...but I rarely ever say it whenever I'm referring to him...lol). Mr. Chumley is pretty much everything BUT your typical teacher.He's really young (twenty-six), he's the lead singer and rhyth... (305 words)

How do you go from having a great relationship to backing off??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So to make this question short enough that people won't stop reading, I'll start like this. I've met this wonderful girl who I'm falling in love with. We have a great deal in common and find that everyday, we find something new in common. Heck, our birthdays are only 3 days a... (325 words)

I had sex with my friend and now I feel bad because I wanted him as just a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that i have known for 2 years. At first we were good friends. I didn't think nothing else of him.But 2 weeks ago i started liking him allot. I don't know what made me start liking him because i know he is a player. Anyways 2 days ago i ran away to his hous... (157 words)

I am falling out of love with my bf and want to break-up but he says if we do he will hurt himself. Please help, I feel trapped.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

12 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 14 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months 2 day. I really do love him but i'm not sure if we should stay together. he's really great but i feel like i'm falling out of love with him. He says he loves me but he has stopped doing the thin... (96 words)

I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

12 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and help out with the pregnancy ... (80 words)