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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Arousal problems since the break up with the ex, although I love my new boyfriend! What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help. i used to be really horny all the time and used to be able to feel really intense when being fingered or touched or something. im only 18 and since breaking up with my ex and getin with someone else iv nt been able to get horny at all. my new boyfriend tries ... (158 words)

She doesn't seem interested - have I done something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i've met this girl after knowing her for like 8 months. She is beautiful and i love everything about her but im finding it hard not to seem obsessive, i know i have come across as it already as i notice the things she say arent as normal as per usual. I believe that ... (104 words)

How do I get him to see things my way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now, but it's been off and on since the beginning. As of now, I haven't seen him since before the holidays. Last year, he avoided me for a long time because he hadn't gotten me a Christmas gift, and I'm wondering if that's whats ... (261 words)

Could my boyfriend be a paedophile (or an ephebophile)?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) - I'm afraid I might be dating a peadophile. My boyfriend (nealry 20) is attracted Hannah Monatna who is 15, and I am so grossed out I can't even kiss him let alone make love to him. He makes jokes about him being an ebophile to his friends online (he doesn't know I look at ... (233 words)

He's married, we have a baby together, he's not stringing me along is he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a 2 month old daughter, I love my childs father with all my heart and I want us to be a family. However, he is married. His wife called me the day after I had my child, and told me that they were still together and he was living under her roof, which is the opposite of ... (197 words)

Scared about Sex for the first time. Can you help?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi me and my boyfriend have decided we want to have sex, but i have never been fingered or used a tampon before so i'm scared it will hurt alot i tried to use a tampon the other day but i'm not sure what hole to insert in so can someone please tell me how you know which hole ... (96 words)

I like a man, but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

- I've recently met a man who I really like. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. We met at a bar and kissed and then texted each other alot which lead to him coming over to my place to get to know each other better. We chatted alot and we had a kiss goodbye. I was ... (182 words)

Do you think she's cheating on me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and in love with my 17 year old girlfriend we have been dating for 8 months. She has been acting really suspicious never wanted to talk to me on the phone, yelling at me for worrying about her, she never calls me anymore,and when people tell me she is cheating on me i ... (126 words)

I've had enough of being the other man in her life. How should I react when I see her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Lil bit of advise/support needed. I have posted before but need more replies for peace of mind! I have become the other man in a relationship and it has gotten messy. Didnt mean for it to happen nor her and emotions got involved (I know). I will never do th... (898 words)

I want to date my borthers friend, but how do you think he'll react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i wonder if anyone can help me. i have know my brothers best friend for over 10years now he is nearly 18 and i am almost 16. i have always had this feeling that there was something between us as he would always make time 2 come and c me n talk 2 me, and always stick up 4 me ... (152 words)

I am ready to commit to someone. How will I find the right girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My situation is probably fairly commonplace. I was with a girl from Spain for nearly 4 years. We met in boston, at the New England conservatory of Music (we're both musicians). About a year and a half ago we broke up. The circumstances were a bit stran... (403 words)

How do you know when you love someone or should throw in the towel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know when you love someone, when you need to throw in the towl, and how u know you love someone else instead? i used to be very madly in love with a man.then things got boring and routine and we'd argue over stupid things all the time. i got quite unhappy in the r... (217 words)

My step mom told my GF horrible lies and now she has left me because of them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Guys this is my problem and why even now I think she will never call and gone for good, no way back.help! Basically 6-7 weeks ago gf left out of blue, she was with me everyday for 6 years, and here Saturday seemed normal. came round on Sunday and `said can’t do this any more... (1176 words)

I'm accidentally pregnant and the baby's father doesn't want to know. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a great delimma and need advice. About a month ago I found out that I was expecting. This came to a total surprise for I was on the pill (I recently found out that my taking the Z-Pak for my sinus infection neutralized the birth control). Needless to say at the age of ... (322 words)

Should I let him go or hold on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy.. i met this guy on my holiday to Tunisia in june. i came home to realise i fell in love with this guy.I might be going back this summer and i know theres a chance he wont still be working there! I Really love him and he is all i have been able to think about since i ... (108 words)

I don't trust him because I don't think he is fully commited to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years. I am 23 and my partner is 22. We broke up last year for 8 months but where in contact again during the break-up after around 3 months. I started a relationship with somebody else and my ex started asking me out again. I wanted to be ... (863 words)

I kissed my ex, and now I cant get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello:) im pretty new to this but here goes... and im 17 by the way... Me an this boy lets call him james, well we use to be together around exactly a year ago. Well when we broke up we ended on really bad terms, our relationship wasnt perfect, now i look back i think i was pr... (215 words)

Is it too soon to say we are in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi There, My girlfrind and I are going out now for 5months and we are really inlove with each other and we are sleeping together, tell me did we move too fast and is it too soon for us to be inlove... coz i know deeply in my heart that I am inlove with Her, I'd die for her. and ... (117 words)

In love with my 'friend with benefits'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think i'm in love with my friend w/ benefits.... What should i do? He is also my boss!!... (20 words)

I am in love with my sister-in-law and I don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound really bad…but I have been in love with my wife’s sister for the past six years. I have only been married for five years and I got married for the wrong reasons. I am completely miserable. My sister in-law and I are very close and she knows that I like ... (145 words)

I have a conscience - so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , got a love letter from a guy already in a relationship with someone else but has been a long - term admirer saying that " he thinks we are on the same wavelength " , and finished the letter with" don't forget the happy ending " . I like him a lot , but do h... (84 words)

Am I unique?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend keeps telling me i am unique because i can not seem to "cum" for a man. He says every other woman can except me, and it's starting to get irritating! can anyone recommend any way i can try to do this without feeling or looking like an idiot?... (50 words)

Shpould I call the cops?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to go about asking this, or even what I'm asking exactly. This guy (who is 26) has been talking to me online for a few years now, I usually ignore him because he annoys me and is a pervert. After I stopped talking to him on facebook, he made a fake one and ... (228 words)

Do I have commitment issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

- I've just started seeing this girl. She is a great girl, all my friends and family say she's a good catch. Yet for some reason I'm questioning the relationship. It's only been a few weeks but I'm having doubts about being in a relationship. I don't think it helps that I have no ... (118 words)

Is it normal to be afraid of smelling 'down there'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a really embarassing question...but i am a virgin and have not gone that far with a guy. i'm starting to talk to a guy that i really like and lately we have gotten closer. i know eventually we will fool around or have sex, but i'm nervous. i want to do it, i'm just ... (86 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to settle down about her diet issues??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 14, so is my girlfriend. she is 5 foot tall. and she way's about 115 pound's. she is thin. but she think's she is heavy. i tell her all the time that she is not. and it makes no difference to me how heavy she is. but she wont stop. she is trieng to get on diet pill... (109 words)

My girlfriend lives at campus and has nine males as roommates, I don't know what to think and do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl for about two and a half years now. It has been a great relationship for the most part. We have helped each other through hard times in both our lives. However, there is five and a half year age difference between us. When I first started dating ... (474 words)

If you've just finished, but he says he loves you, is having sex with him the right thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If you were seeing some one for quite a while and total in love but still a virgin and really thought he was the one to do it with... however you have just recently finished because of certain circumstances but he told you he still loved you... is having sex the right thing to ... (69 words)

Is it normal for 'doggy fashion' to hurt like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

3 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for over a year now, and have recently started having sex. Don't get me wrong, I love it. But I've began to have a problem. He wants doggy all the time... He has this way of making sure we do it, and I try to move around into positions where he ... (111 words)

It feels like my boobs have grown. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my fiance have been trying to get pregnant for 7 months. From September the longest Finish to start again for my period has been 25 days, it's been 34 days since my last period ended. This is so confusing and frustrating! I have had no symptoms at all! No perio... (205 words)

Does my ex like me? We are best friends now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have recently become best friends this year. he lives across the street from me so we hang out a alot, just like when we dated. He's generally a very touchy feely and flirty guy, but recently he's gone on overload. When we watch tv or movies he always cuddles w... (127 words)

My boyfriend has a urine fetish. I feel confused about our sex life.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, This is going to sound so crazy...and I am completely embarassed to ask it but...Well, here it goes. My boyfriend and have been dating for almost a year now and we are very much in love...Also, he and I are highly sexually active. He has been more sexually... (140 words)

How can I stop being jealous of his sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

3 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. He wasn't a virgin and I knew it. It was a nice first time, way better than I expected. However, I always grew up with this fantasy of losing it with anoter virgin. I thought it'd make things more special, giving something so spe... (240 words)

Is there any danger of me contracting an STI?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend today for the first time. (We were both virgins before). I'm happy about it, except from one thing. We didn't use protection because it wasn't really planned. If I go and get the morning after pill tomorrow, should I be okay? I am aware that you c... (205 words)

How can I get my family out of the house for a while?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I get my parents and brothers out of the house for a few hours while I invite my girlfriend round? My mum has said before that if I wanted to bring a gf round then to ask her and she'll disappear for a while but theres no way she'll do that without giving me tonnes o... (76 words)

How do I get out of this bad spot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

- Happy new year and I need help. I was going out with this guy for quite a long time..two years and it seemed he was losing interest in me. I was at the campus pub one night and he hit on a friend of mine right in front of me but she told him where to go as she was my friend..or ... (244 words)

I pushed her to open up to me, so she dumped me; her friend says she likes me but finds it hard to be close to someone because of her past. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (M) age - I was in a long distance relationship for 6 months,i admit i went much to fast i really fell for her,we are both middle aged and early on Ann told me she issues with feelings and expressing herself,her mother gave her away when she was 12 and her husband died, one night i push... (107 words)

Should I fight for her or let her go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and it was a long distants relationship. She was always kind of insecure and I never knew why...I never really gave her a reason to be. We had always planned to get married and settle down eventually...a few months back she asked me ... (337 words)

I'm a virgin with spots. Will this put the boys off me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 yr old girl and i have been single for around a year now. i feel its the right time to get a boyfreind but there are non anywere and i feel none will like me because i am a virgin and i have spots which i feel put them off me. i dont have many freinds and no male ones ... (84 words)

How do I avoid being branded a homosexual stalker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im in love with my best friend, i dont want to talk to him about it, i'm scared incase i loose a friend and be branded a stalker or somthing he's 16 and so am i, the confusing thing about it is he kissed me a few weeks ago and from then he's acted like nothings happened. i can ... (100 words)

Is he going too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i just started dating a friend of mine and it was great how we really liked each other and got together =) but everything seems to suddenly have changed. He's my friend and he knows how i've felt about things moving really quickly in past relationships... but he's already doing ... (198 words)

He's torn between us - what if he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid...I don't know what to do. I've been seeing this man for about 6 months. He pursued me for almost 2 1/2 years and I finally gave in. I have fallen in love with him and he tells me he loves me. He was divorced about 3 years ago. He and his ex-wife had a very ... (214 words)

I've given him reasons not to trust me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I hate to admit, though, that I've given him reasons not to. Well, I lied to him. He had asked about an uncomfortable topic from my past and I blatantly lied to him about the matter like 3 times. I just didn't want to talk about the subject, and... (382 words)

Why doesn't porn come with a 'How to get over it' manual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I just need a little guidance and avice. My boyfriend of 7 years has (in my eyes, and his) been unfaithfull, We lived together, and after a blazing row we decided it was best i move out back to my mums.I did. We didnt see eachother for atleast a month or so and... (555 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me but she says nothing was wrong in our relationship, what can I do to understand why this happened?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in december with somebody from work. As you can understand i was pretty shocked by this and am still hurting now. I asked her why she did this and she said that she didnt know why. I asked her if there was anything wrong i... (105 words)

If I get pregnant, should I tell my mum or is it better having an abortion without telling her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only Problem Was That When He Pulled Out ... (111 words)

I'm falling for her sister who's called Betty lol!! Any thoughts?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a mojor dilemma! Me and a close friend started dating in may 07, short and tall of it, it didnt work out and we split on really good terms after four months! During this time i got to being really friendly with her sister who i also knew from school and who was at the ... (213 words)

How do I choose between two girls, and how do I let down the one from overseas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been single for a few years. I've never been the type of person that needed to be in a relationship to define me or my happiness. I do find that when I'm in a relationship, though, I like it to be passionate, intense, and full speed. I just think anything less isn't worth ... (418 words)

My cousin and I are both single. How do I tell him I love him, and dare I risk doing so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with my cousin who is three years older than me. I had heard that he loves me too. So when recently he came to our home he acted exceptionally friendly with me only. He touched my hand, kissed it too. Even i started loving him since that day. We used to sit up ... (201 words)

Would I be a fool to risk being hurt by him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, im really sorry for posting this problem Again..(and again and again) However new details have emerged. Ok so my boyfriend of over 2yrs sent a msg to a girl sayin "she cant be more unreal than you.ha are you setting me up.ha" I know this coz he sent it to me by ... (288 words)

Do I have a right to feel that he's not satisfied with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for a year and a half now and we have a very good sex life but yesterday i caught him looking at porn and it really hurt me and made me feel that i am not satisfying enough for him and that our sex life isnt satisfying enough for him. it really made me ... (104 words)

I want to end this relationship but I feel guilty about it because it will mean she has to quit a good job and move back to her hometown, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, im stuck in a realy big muddle. ive been seeing this girl for 4 1/2 years and we live together. she moved away from her home town and settled 130 miles away with me and got a good job which she loves. i work away lots of the time so dont get to see her every day. any way ... (140 words)

Is God the reason my answers aren't being posted?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand. I've responded with reasonable answers to reasonable questions on this site and my answers are not being posted. Has anyone else had that problem? I've responded to some questions that are very meaningful to me becuase I've been in similar situations and I ... (214 words)

Am I being a crazy girlfriend or are my feelings justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For those of you that haven't read my previous question, I am a 25 year old white female who is dating a 19 year old black male. He treats me really good and we have good time together...but lately we have been fighting alot. In the beginning of the relationship we had problem ... (548 words)

I don't want to be involved with anyone using drugs, but I can't let him go either. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) age 26-29 - There Is A Boy In My Life At The Moment We Arent Going Out As Such But Are Really Close And He Has Asked Me To Staer Going Out With Him I Dont Know What To Do because He Promised Me He Wouldnt Smoke Skunk And Have Joints Or Bongs No More, Then A Couple Of Weeks Ago He C... (114 words)

I really liked him - what can I do to get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help i was kinda seeing this guy from college and we split up his decision. but i cant get over him i really liked him,what can i do to get over him?? he was my first relationship if you can call him that,and i dont find it easy to meet guys.all my mates have guys after th... (78 words)

He broke up as I did not respect my promise of visiting dating sites. Now he avoids me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone got any ideas how to get out of this sticky situation? After making a promise not to go on dating sites again,my boyfriend showed up suddenly whilst i was in a dating chatroom. He has caught me for the sixth time. He just walked out before christmas and it looks like ... (129 words)

Why do I suffer with bad BO?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

- I have a problem. a BO problem. I don't know why or how it has happened. I shower daily (under my armpits also) and i don't wear the same t-shirt for 2 days. what can it be then?... (38 words)

I have no idea how she feels. I want her to open up. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up two months ago. I still love her and she still wants to be friends. We text each other and things are friendly. But I want her back. But I don't want to pressure her and have kept my feelings quiet. I recently asked her if she was with someone else and she ... (111 words)

She got her period a couple of hours after we had sex. Any chance she could be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex a few nights ago, she got her period a couple of hours later and it ended roughly 96 hours later. Is there a chance she could get pregnant?... (35 words)

Will my mother get to find out I'm on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex back in August, I had the 72 hour pill and it worked and everything, I also went on THE pill for two months. However this is not the problem, my mum is taking me today for a tetanus jab, is there any chance my doctors will mention my pills i went on to her. she still ... (74 words)

Why did he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex dumped me for another guy, but then she told me that she got pregnant with his baby; she came down here to have an abortion, all he did then was text her once, didn't go to see her at all, and that's how she ended it with him. Two questions: 1) I want to get back with... (76 words)

Any ideas on how to shift this cold and fever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok two things here number 1) please help! number 2) what do you think ? Ok not a relationship question but i think i've got a head cold coming on i've had a head ache for two days had a fever n got a bit of a stuffy nose. Now this needs to go away or at least become unnoticable ... (195 words)

I've been asked to go swimming with his mum and dad. Is this a bit strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 an been with my boyfriend for nearly a year an a half. he recently asked if i would like to go swimming with him in the holidays and i said yes. now he tells me his mum and dad are coming too. is it just me or would anyone else find it awkward and a bit strange to g... (73 words)

I lost my virginity last week - could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity last week and at one point my boyfriend entered me without a condom but only for about 15 seconds, he also came near my vagina but I dont think any wennt on it... now my breasts are starting to feel sore and I 'feel' pregnant, I shouldnt start my period ... (92 words)

Can I trust that she won't cheat on me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey every1.I guess today i also need some advice.I've been dating this girl i regretfully love with all my heart.Everything was rosy in the beginning even when i moved to another town due to work. However,the past two months things changed.She called less,her 4n was off more... (177 words)

How do I act within this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya this is not much of a question but a problem that could be answered. I split with my bf the week before xmas and we were really close after 5 months and were getting with each other since january 07. we split he says because of all of the little arguments and because when ... (173 words)

I need a woman. How do I find one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

3 January 2008 (M)

age - how can i find a woman in my area fisrt to like me and then to get intimate. i respect all woman and need one. i have been alone for so long. the woman should be truthful and loyal. no lies and truly needs a relationship. ... (48 words)

I just don't know what to do. I feel like I've got nothing to live for any more.

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum isnt lettin me and my ex get back together cause she think i will just get hurt again and i know she never liked him in the first place and the fact that it long distance doesnt help but the thing is it caused alot of prolems betweeen her and her bf and now i just feel ... (177 words)

She asked me in a hypothetical manner if I'd marry her. Any thoughts?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i am writng you guys cos i trust u.a while ago i wrote to you about a lady that was very close.she lives in glasgow and me in stoke.she is THE most amazing lady i have ever met.i'm 42 she 56.its only numbers.ok.yesterday. hypethetically, i think thats right,she opened up and i ... (120 words)

My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm 18!! I'm gettin fed up with her ... (136 words)

8 years down the drain in exchange for somebody she knew for a matter of weeks; she had been unfaithful on other occasion, before this. I'm so confused, thinking I did something wrong!

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to share my story with you all it is unique in its own way and i would very much appreciate any help and advice you can give me. Me and my ex were together for 7 years 6 months i am now 25 and she is now 23, we met when we were teenagers and we were each other's ... (1645 words)

Should I try this during masturbation?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only fourteen and have experimented with my fingers rubbing my clit. But I'm scared it will hurt if I put my fingers in my vagina. Any suggestions?... (30 words)

After his rejection and moving on to high school, I still cannot seem to forget him. Should I forget him?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys! Ok, I have a big and confusing problem. Ok, maybe not really but I really need advice. Ok, so there is this guy in my ex-school. As the teacher arranges our seating, he sat beside me for two terms which is 8months. Well, we have always enjoyed talking to each other ... (207 words)

How can I avoid getting bored?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For some reason, every time a guy likes me, and I like a guy back, the spark only goes on for a couple of weeks. After that, it just dies out. The more I see them, the more bored I get. How can I prevent this from happening? What can I do to have something to always talk ... (73 words)

His lying to me about watching porn has caused me much heartache and trust issues. Am I wasting time in this relation?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i have been together nearly 3 years. He was right into porn before i moved in. It caused a few issues and i talked to him about how uncomfortable it made me that he watched it behind my back. I thought he stopped. Countless times since, i have discovered that ... (122 words)

My best friend is unhappy in her marriage and her husband won't seek professional help, what can I do for them?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend is like a sister to me, and we have been close for nearly 20 years. She got married 4 years ago to who seemed to be the world's most perfect man. She recently disclosed that she has been hiding the fact that she is really unhappy in her marriage, and conf... (186 words)

Girls tell me I am good looking and nice but they never give me a chance!

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 10Th grader in high school i went to a small private middle school so i didn't have many social skill coming into high school i really wanted to meet a girl (my first girl) but two years later i've been rejected many times and i don't know wat i'm doing wrong. girls tell ... (85 words)

Does this guy like me or does he just want to get laid?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had an extreme attraction for this guy since 4th grade and I'm pretty sure he has been aware of this. We have been friends but there has always been this awkward thing between us when we are around each other. I catch him staring at me and sometimes I'm brave enough to ... (183 words)

I want to go on with my life, but I do not know how.

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok.i went out with my ex for five years, we have child together, bought a house together,live together obviously, i left him (for certain reasons). few weeks after i left him, he had another girlfriend, after a few months they got engaged, she's now pregnant too, during this ... (111 words)

I am obsessed with losing weight and have started to skip meals. Mother is against it, what should I do?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a usual question, but... I started skipping meals and chewing and spitting out food when I was 13 (I'm 15) and now all I can think about is losing weight. Just 10 lbs, though. My mom told me not to lose weight, and now my friends are too. What do I do?... (57 words)

Is a door worth breaking up for?

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3 January 2008 (F) - This guy I kissed New Year's called me last night and said he would call me today but hasn't. We were maybe going to hang out this week before he goes on a business trip on Friday. Anyway, he is my friend's friend, and at the party I guess my friend and her husband were fig... (287 words)

Do I want to know the details of my girlfriend's previous sexlife, or is it better to leave it be?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my girlfriend has told me that she fooled around with her ex-boyfriend (her boyfriend at the time), and I mean I want to know exactly how far they went together but not really sure how to ask or even to ask, I mean I really care about her and don't want anything to ... (157 words)

Are cold sores really that bad?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Are herpes something to be worried about. I posted a question yesterday about this girl I like who piked at the last minute when we were going to meet. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-keep-trying-or-should-i-leave.html Well last night she msged me saying that t... (144 words)

If I left sex movies within reach, would my wife (or most women) watch them? I'm trying to awake her sexual awareness.

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3 January 2008 (M)

age - If I wanted my wife to watch more sex movies would she like male masturbation movies? If I left them out within reach, would she or most women watch them? I'm trying to get her sexual awareness up. Thanks... (39 words)

Am I wrong or getting mixed signals?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Maybe someone can help me with this one... I met this guy at work a few months ago, and when ever we see each other he winks at me and we chit chat with each other and thats it. Today, he comes up from behind and puts his hand on my back and slowly moves it up my back and when ... (173 words)

Is college the only thing keeping us together?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a student in college and date this guy who lives 9 hours away from me. At school we are INSEPARABLE, but whenever we have a break he rarely calls, rushes me off the phone, and is not supportive emotionally. Once we get to school we are fine. This really upsets me and makes ... (90 words)

Who gets the best orgasms - men or women?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im not sure if there is an actual answer to this, but do both sexes get the same amount of pleasure during sex? for example if they both reach their 'peak' orgasm. in other words, wat sex overall recieves more pleasure?... (42 words)

Could he only want me for sex or am I over-analysing?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and a guy started talking about 2 weeks ago, and are officially dating as of Jan. 1. I am 19 and he is 22. At first he was afraid of getting close to me because he has been hurt in the past, and I was also afriad of getting hurt. He assured me that if I just gave him a ... (234 words)

She likes me a lot, but did I jump in too quickly?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me recently and I've started seeing this girl who works in my local pub. On the first date we came back to mine and fooled around, as did we the second time (the next day!) Now I feel I have jumped in too fast and I'm not sure if I like ... (95 words)

I'm trying to get over her but I can't!

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that i like but she has a boyfriend so i'm trying to get over her. i tell myself i will but then i see her and i forget all that. how do i do it? ... (39 words)

Why doesn't she initiate contact with me?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! There is this girl who i worked with about 3yrs ago and she liked me alot (still does, so she says). And because of her getting over a tough break up and i started dating another girl at the time we never ended up together. Throughout the past years she has told me t... (127 words)

Single, and not enjoying it. How can I crave sex less?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I crave Sex less?? I haven't had Sex in nearly 8 months and I feel like everyone except me (former girlfriend included) is having it. I'm single, and not enjoying it. Has anybody else felt this way? What can I do?... (43 words)

How should I tell my mother he proposed to me?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 2 years. he is 13. We now know that we ant to be together forever. Just the other day he purposed to me and i said yes. My mom doesnt know. I want to tell her but dont know how. WHAT SHOULD I DO?... (59 words)

We were really close, then he started seeing someone else without even telling me, I have really strong feelings for him, what can I do??

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was txting this lad in august time for about 3month and we got realy realy close as we both liked eachother, it was all secret as my mam doesnt like him for reasons i wont go in to. he went out with his mates one weekend and met this lass that he never told me about, i knew ... (160 words)

He now says he has no feelings for me anymore - that I killed it all with my insecurities. Do I admit my defeat and let him go?

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met the man of my dreams, but was simply too afraid of expressing my true emotions due to lack of courage, fear of rejection and my insecurities. I asked him to go easy on me because I was so overwhelmed by his intensity, but he would not listen to what I was saying. Don´t ... (746 words)

Will the pain of the separation pass, does anyone feel (has felt) the same?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My Wife and i have been seperated for almost 2 years now, and i still miss her so much. i feel my life is just a wast of time as my dreams of a family of my own looks to have gone. I am running out of ideas to keep me going, is this normal? will the pain pass, does anyone o... (75 words)

I kissed somebody else to "get even" with my boyfriend, as we were all drunk. Now I feel confused.

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3 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well it all started when i kissed my friend at a party when i was really drunk. But he kissed my two other best friends the same night. So to get back at him i Kissed his best friend i never realised i liked him untill that night. Now me and him meet up at parties and kiss ... (197 words)

How can I make my girlfriend orgasm (faster)?

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3 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there My girlfriend and i have been togethere for 5months now, and we are having sex, but i can't seem to make her come, and i come so kwickly sometimes, sometimes when she comes, but she takes verrrrrrrrry long, is there anything i can do to make her cum quiker. Pleas... (59 words)