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writes:I'm trying to find ways to get my wife horned up and wanting sex by leaving sex dvd's laying around my room. I have a nice variety and she is home alone on weekends but she doesn't seem interested. I was thinking male masturbation dvd's? Does anyone think that might spark her interest?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Women don't like to see other guys penises or watch masturbation videos. There is porn directed by women that is more romantic and there are animated sex videos that women like better that live porn, possibly because it is a total fantasy and escape.
If you just leave the DVD's, I not sure that she will get the hint or be in the mood. BUT, if you leave a hot bubble bath with candles and a two glasses of wine WITH all the DVD's, then you might get lucky. Cheers!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 A female mind does not work that way like a male mind.For her to want sex, you will have to woo and romance her and help her out with her workload . This shows your love, care and concern for her.She will respond better to this kind of love.
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reader, rcn +, writes (3 January 2008):
 If you're trying to spark a guy's interest it would work. Most guys, their ready without the movies. To spark her interest you need to put yourself in her shoes. Women think differently than guys. We're ready most of the time, they seem to like the romance, feeling as if their the special girl in your life.
I remember hearing a comedian not long ago that had it down. He said it's easier for him to just go to the closet and do it himself. Getting her in the mood costs too much. He has to do the flowers, schedule a romantic dinner, champaigne etc. just for her to begin getting in the mood.
I've talked to quite a few women than if their man expects to just jump in the sack and they'll be ready, they don't feel as if they are really that special, that they're there just for him to do his thing. If I were you, I'd try the romantic approach.
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reader, daletom +, writes (3 January 2008):
Are you kidding? I doubt that would spark her libido.All the information I've seen says that very few women are turned-on by the material you mentioned. If she was one of the exceptions, you should know by now! I suspect you'll have MUCH better luck by simply going away someplace, just the 2 of you, for a weekend. Or surprising her by doing most of the housework for a couple days. Or just sitting down and getting her to tell you - while you REALLY listen - why she isn't very interested in sex.
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