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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She acts like we are a couple, holding hands, cuddling. It would be great if we'd be together, but she already has a bf!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend from uni who i've known for just over a year. She started with her boyfriend about the same time I met her, didn't bother me to start with, I wasn't really attacted to her. During this time she tried to kiss me but I turned away. We've spent a LOT of time toge... (170 words)

We had sex and he declares he likes me but does not want a relationship. How is this possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy had sex with me and says he likes me, but he doesn't want to have a relationship with me... somethings not right here. Is this possible?... (30 words)

I have realised I love my ex but he is a friend of my boyfriend's so he would not cause him discomfort. Any future for us in these circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am going out with somebody currently he is good friends with my ex i just recently realised i think i love my ex and i dont think i like my boyfriend in tht way :S i was the one to break up with him. people say he still likes me still but he would never do anything t... (87 words)

Did I do something wrong or are we just growing apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 13, and I really like this guy I've known him since I was in kindergarden, but I don't know if he likes me, even as a friend anymore. We used to be to txt all the time but ever since my 13th. birthday he's been acting wierd. I had a huge pool party( for my b-day.) ... (166 words)

My brother is addicted to grafitti and refuses to see the problem. What can be done before he tears the family apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Not technically a relationship question... but advice would be appreciatied as I just don't know what to do. My little brother, 14, is addicted to graffiti. Completely addicted- to the point he can't last a day without going out and tagging, even though he has been arres... (426 words)

He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax...... (45 words)

Should I tell the ex wife how I feel, although she is presently in a relationship? I never felt that I stopped loving her, even living 5 yrs with another woman.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was with a lovely girl for 10 years. We met through work, moved in together, then we bought our first home together and 8 years into the relationship we got married. We were very close and shared everything. I really thought we were going to be together forever. About a y... (1029 words)

Why did she need to keep this from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been in a relationship with each other for three years and only got engaged a while ago. Recently she confessed to me, out of the blues, that on one occasion two years ago, she had allowed a friend of hers to fondle her sexually, and had even deliberately ... (162 words)

Boredom during sex - am I normal to feel this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i think i am not normal help...while having sex with my boyfriend i always just want him to cum and finish fast i am always getting bored and i feel he takes forever to cum...and veryyyyyyyyyyyyy rarely do i cum..why is this... (42 words)

How are my parents likely to take the fact I'm dating a girl who is pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How will my parents react to me dating someone who is pregnant with another persons child. Im 18 and i really do love her. And i will help her with the kid as much as i can once it born while im still in school and treat it like my own. Ive been treated badly by my step father ... (108 words)

Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure and made me feel good about ... (126 words)

Why is he stringing me along? Is he using me or just being a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i really like this boy put it all on paper we are a perfect match but he likes this other girl he put in his msn addie "u can search th world but you can never find a girl like mine" i am heatbroken. but the thing is he says i am good looking he has seen me in person and he... (86 words)

Why won't he say "I Love You" ???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm a 24 year old Portuguese girl and I work and live in Milan, Italy. I've been in an excellent relationship with an Italian man. He's intelligent, fun, tender and dedicates all his time to me. Things go very well - we travel a lot, we know each other's family a... (163 words)

Is there any way to boost my confidence and actually talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have getting over a lad who has a girlfriend for a while now. I still find him attractive but im doing all the things to stop me thinking about him which is gd :). Well, i have recently started noticing another lad in one of my college lessons. I sometimes catch hi... (181 words)

Will any boy ever like me, as I am overweight? Also, can you suggest ways to lose weight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and im heavely overweight and i no i am the docters have told me as well im trying 2 lose weight atm but i still im very annoyed cos ive never had a bf and never evern kissed some1 im 16 in aug and it feels really stupid that at nearly 16 i've done nothing 0 i no i'... (137 words)

Should I be offended???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was talking to my friend about this boy who i meet who she knows and she said that he will say i am ugly should i be offended by what she said too me?... (35 words)

My bf is distant with me...what can I say without upsetting him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating an ex boyfriend for the third time last week, I haven't seen him at all this week with me being at college and him not, and when I arranged to meet him he never came and saw me. I have a friend thats really close to him and she and him are always together... (111 words)

Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i also had this other mate who w... (130 words)

I need to boost my confidence!! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going on holiday with my friends to cornwall to celebrate finishing our GCSES this July I am really worried, becuase although in some ways I can't wait, I am dreading going on the beach and everyone seeing me in a bikini. I am a size 8 and not technically fat/... (144 words)

Why won't she just tell me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

- Recently my ex called me and told me she was pregnant by me. I was shocked, even though we did have sex months before then. I proceeded to do the right thing as I still loved her and wanted us to be a family. I started making preperations to buy a house and start the ball to ... (240 words)

Ways to make him ejaculate, except for oral and actual intercourse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend, and we've been together not long, but we have done quite a lot. It's been great, but for some reason, I can't make him actually cum. It's really bothering me. I can get him hard and everything but I can't get him all the way, and I was just wondering if ... (98 words)

Why two condoms???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks.... (52 words)

Why isn't he so affectionate now that he's home from iraq?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is currently deployed to Iraq. He recently came home for his two weeks R and R. When he was in Iraq, he talked pretty affectionately to me when we got to talk. But, while he was home he was not his usual affectionate self. He was very affectionate towards his ... (125 words)

Dumped my ex for being too clingy...Now want him back....and I'm being the clingy one! AAAH!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i'm only 17...still young and still have my whole life ahead of me...i know! ...but right now theres only one person i want to be sharing my life with. My ex. We went to primary school together and then re united when we were 15/16. we were together for just 3 months and ... (260 words)

Why won't he get it together already?!?!?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi. My ex boyfriend and I are still in touch, well we are sort of friends- or trying to be. I still care about him, we were together for two and a half years and broke up in October of last year. I know it is not any of my business anymore, but it still irritates me to see him ... (173 words)

My boyfriend is overweighted and since I think we might start having sex soon I want to be prepared, what is the most comfortable positions for us regarding he is much heavier than me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of a strange question but something I'm curious about. Started seeing a guy. He's not massively obese but he is overweight. I don't mind that though cos he's such a lovely guy and he makes me laugh loads. We've been getting closer lately and more intimate, and ... (159 words)

We fell in love and everything seemed fine, then one day he just left. He refuses to talk to me and I don't know what went wrong, how can I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I were very close for a long time and one day we felt in love.. We started dating and things were great after that.. We had ups and downs like any other relationships.. One day he just left.. I don't know what went wrong.. He refuses to talk to me.. It's like he ... (106 words)

I started my period in August but since I haven't come on, what is going on? Should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hii ok well august 06 started my period and now it is january 08 and i havent come on since! i dont know if its anything to be worried about but what do i do... (38 words)

I found the perfect guy, but soon he goes away to college. My friends say I should brake up, but I can't, what shall I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well I really need help here. I'm dating this guy and he's a 2 years older than me. I'm a sophmore and he's a senior. We where good friends, and did alot of the same stuff like with church and sports. Well he finaly asked me out on a date. It was just a tipickle date. ... (303 words)

I'm in love with a player and wanted to make him jealous so I lied about giving oral to a friend. He flew off the handle and now I don\t know what to do to make him like me again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - There's this lad who I've liked for over 2 years. He liked me for one of them, but we never went out we just had a few kisses in private. He's a player and all my friends have told me to get over him, but I really feel strongly for him. I might even love the loser. I always ... (227 words)

Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and i've been doing my best to move ... (160 words)

How can I get to know my interest better? Do you think he likes me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) age 30-35 - ok theres this boy who i really like hes in the year above and i see him around school and once a week at an orchestra club at that orchestra, i have to sit right over the other side of the room from him because i play a totally different instrument. my friend who knows ... (147 words)

How can I be happy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've had a bit of a bad day: Today I felt chest pains as I woke up in the morning (people have informed me this is a sign of stress). Then later in college I began to feel very sharp pains when I sat up straight. I found out yesterday my tutor forgot to send o... (433 words)

How do you know if your husband is gay??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know if your husband is gay? we have recently got back together, but when we split up alot of people has asked me was there any chance he was gay, i have heard that gay guys had approach him in the past. The time we broke up i asked him and he was very defensive and ... (126 words)

I feel so alone, and like nobody pays attention to me. I can't stop crying. What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

10 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Recently, I've started feeling depressed quite a lot. Just a few nights ago, I couldn't stop crying, and I didn't see the point in my life. I'm in a relationship with a really great guy, but when we argue, or something comes between us, then I just start crying again and nobo... (119 words)

She cheated on me and I forgave her, but I think that she still likes him more than me. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! I have been with my girlfriend over a year now and we just had a relationship crisis. She cheated on me with some guy and told me about it. A know that she is sorry and would go back in time and not do it if she could and I love her very much. But there is one problem. ... (171 words)

He doesn't seem to believe that I love him. I feel like we're falling apart! Can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 15 months. I feel like we're falling apart, and it's breaking my heart. We're desperately in love, but he takes everything so much to heart, and it's making me feel I can never do anything right. I'm blaming myself for everything, even though sometimes... (176 words)

What can I do for a romantic night in that won't cost a fortune?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

- Hi, I am having a few problems with my partner at the moment, so in order to show him I love him I was to arrage a romantic night in... I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what I could do that wouldn't cost a fortune thanks... (55 words)

I'm bored with him. Should we just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My dilemma is the following. I'm around my 20's, my BF is my same age, and we are each other's first love and relationship. Seriously. We've been together for 2 and a half year now. And we are not the kind of person that would just go around flirting and stuff when younger. The ... (210 words)

What do women need to hear?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I really need your help here women! I know we men love to hear few things during sex such as moaning of the woman, complimenting our tool size, or how good it feels inside....but what about women? What do women love to hear during sex? I would love to hear from women here.... (91 words)

My b/f's in prison. Do I accept it's over between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - been with bf for 13 years i cheated on him which i deeply regret hes in prison he rings me 3x a day comes home on a weekend he tells me he doesnt luv me and hes using me til something better comes along but yet he still does things for me and hes always asking when he rings ... (81 words)

With a great guy, but he has anger issues and is paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Help, In May i came out of a 5 year relationship because he takes drugs i tried to make it work but it didn't no matter how hard i tried. When we finished i swore i would never get serious with anyone again. Then i met this lad he has everything i want and things are p... (137 words)

We broke up and she said not to contact her, but she hasn't contacted me either

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ADVICE PLEASE? can someone tell me what you think, gf finished with me and for 6 weeks sent letters,emails,flowers but no reply as she said don't contact her when broke up. now for 2 weeks, weeks 7 and 8 have not contacted her, do you think she will ever contact me to see how i ... (107 words)

What's happened to my wife's sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello ive been with my wife 9 years now. for around 6 years our sex life was amazing but once we had kids her sex drive just went. i mean gone nothing. yes we have had sex many times over the years sence we had kids weve tryed every sort of kink toy drug you name it but noth... (249 words)

We had a threesome and want to do it again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age - Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women that my wife works with. w... (190 words)

My partner sent a message to a girl on a dating site and I cant get past it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've found out my partner has joined an internet dating site, he has said it was just a bit of fun and did it when we went through a bad patch and hasn't been on-line for a while which ties in with what his profile tells me. I've forgiven him but how do I forget the message he ... (86 words)

21 with a little girl and pregnant with twins. Help!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi its me again im the 21 year old with a little girl who has just found out im pregnant and was not sure what to do keep it or get rid of it well i went for my scan yesterday and found out its twins im having so im not going to be a 21 year old with 2 kids im going to be a 21 ... (105 words)

Contraceptive questions - any Doctors out there to answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii well i just wanted 2 ask everyone, especially the doctors on this site.. im on the contraceptive implant and i will be coming off it in september.. I dont have regular periods and when i do have a period it could last a month etc.. I will go onto the mini-pill straig... (161 words)

How can I stop him sending pictures on his phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years keeps texting other girls. He has pictures of them and dirty messages which he sends and they send. He does not know I have seen them.....this time. I confronted him few months ago about them and he promised he would stop and said he did not know why ... (178 words)

Which is hotter - blonde or brunette?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A bit of a survey here... Are girls hotter as blondes? or brunettes? I would love to know your personal preferance... thnx xoxo ... (46 words)

She cannot feel pleasure if she gets very lubricated? How to give her an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i cant give my girlfriend an orgasm whats going on? During sex my girlfriend gets to wet and shes stop feeling me? help me please... (26 words)

My first love left me after 3 yrs, saying she doesn't want lesbian relationships any longer. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a lesbian relation-ship for 3yrs , and 3days ago , she told she doesnt want to be with me becuz she say its not right , she doesnt want to be with girls anymore ,she want to live her life the right way , and she said thats nothing i can do or say to change her mind , ... (112 words)

How can I make sure he gets the hint, and me to be less nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend a month now and its getting to the stage where we are starting to gett into sexual stuff. We havent had sex and dont plan to for at least another few months yet. I have had sex before and done everything with my ex. My boyfriend is a bit older an... (154 words)

Engagement in South Africa. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am from the United States and my boyfriend is from South Africa. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married in 2 to 3 1/2 years because at this point in time, we are financially unable to get married at this point. He says that in South Africa (he's from JoBurg), you ... (114 words)

What gives guys the most pleasure in foreplay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

10 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'd love to give my boyfriend great foreplay, to get him excited for whats coming next. But I want him to enjoy the foreplay a lot too, and not just the sex. I feel he might only be doing it, with the intentions of getting it over quickly, so we can start having sex. What c... (71 words)

What did his gesture mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if i am being paranoid, that's why i need you guys to help me out please!! I was chilling out with my boyfriend at his friend's place. At one point i was playing with the dog when i heard my guy tell his friend, 'I had a----- that's why i slept so well last night.' ... (141 words)

I dumped him over his smoking. Was I being too harsh?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend made a big song and dance about quitting smoking because i'm very anti it. He said things along the lines of: you're my inspiration for quitting, i quit for you, etc. All lovey dovey stuff. But then a few weeks later we're at his mate's house, my boyfriend lights ... (114 words)

Do you think it's ok for me to let my wife have another guy as her best friend??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 and my wife is 28. My wife and a good friend of mine (male friend) are good friends. I think it would be safe to say that they are best friends (which is totally okay by me). My friends say I'm crazy to "be okay" with this. I disagree, but need other opinions. M... (145 words)

The 'space' my gf wants is doing my head in...how do I cope??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend 'needs space', 'a break'. Were not living together or see each other as often due to commitments. She can't cut down hers. There is no-one else apparently and so work and stress I guess is a factor. 'Space' can be days, weeks, months. I just wanna call and say... (68 words)

Should I take the course with all the cute guys on or should I go with the guaranteed A??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This may sound like a stupid question but I just started school and at one of my classes there is this really cute guy I saw. He saw me too. I know he likes me too. Anyways, there was cute guys in the entire class. I was smitten. The only problem is that I don't really l... (218 words)

I love my bf but just cant forget the guy from work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 28 and am in a 9 year relationship with the father of my children. We've had our ups and downs throughout the relationship, mostly downs with him not knowing if he wanted to be with me and the kids, and stuff like that. He's left me several times and always expresse... (1227 words)

The whole school knows I love my teacher but every time I try and get over her it doesn't seem to work.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really really love my teacher. Im almost 15 and shes married and 26. I have loved her since Feb 2007. Everytime i try to get over her it makes it even harder, and i was so convinced that she liked me that i told her how i felt and i acted on it and now the whole school knows, ... (101 words)

How can I get her back once shes cleared her head??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of several months has decided to take a break and needs some space. I was a rebound guy and we moved pretty fast, so this makes sense to me. But I am still interested, and wonder what I should do in the intern and how I might get her back once she's cleared her ... (57 words)

Should I ask this other girl out now that my current relationship is ending??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl which i like and im pretty sure she likes me as well, but theres a problem with this. I have a girlfriend....sort of. Me and my girlfriend are together right now, its nearing the end, we are talking about where we are going and if we should end it or not a... (137 words)

Is my being a bit overweight affecting our sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need tips for girl on top sex! My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year and I really want to try to shake things up in the bedroom. I know he would enjoy some sex with me on top, as would I, but every time we try we can't seem to get the angle right and he ... (101 words)

He didn't ejaculate, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend pulled out before he was going to ejaculate and he had a condom on. He cleaned himself up and everything but a little while later we did it without a condom but only for at most 30 seconds and he wasn't near to ejaculating. Is it possible to get pregnant from ... (56 words)

I want to blindfold him and talk dirty. What do I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - Well the situation is that me and my boyfriend spend time together, but not much time alone together because of school, and work and we don't really have our own place. Well this week well tomorrow we finally have some time to be alone together. So i wanted this whole ... (107 words)

Am I Bi or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I am in my 20's now and I am a single mom. I love being with men (only been with 2 so I am not a hoe) but for a long time i have found myself attracted to women. I love the upper body but as far as the lower part I find it gross even mine. I am curious to kiss a girl but at ... (134 words)

How does a "late bloomer" become emotionally and intimately close with a man? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How does a 26 year old female become emotionally close and intimate with a man if have never done that before?Have always been busy with work, school, family, and guess a late bloomer! :)... (34 words)

Does having a baby affect your ability to have an orgasm?

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - To start off b4 i had my daughter i have never had an issue with having an orgasim. Does pregnancy affect your ability to orgasim? Ive had one a few times but it took a long time when b4 it didnt take much. How do i get things back to the way they use to be? Im not sure if this ... (82 words)

Is a break-up my only option?

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so....me and my boyfriend have been dating for just over 6 months. It went great at first, however we broke up about 2 weeks ago and got back together like a week later. Now for some reason....its like hes constantly mad. Hes also very distant and doesnt want to talk ... (236 words)

I am very worried about my PAP smear test results. Why do I have to go and see my doctor?

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and I just had my first pap smear a week ago. Today I got the letter with my results but it didnt give me any. I am very worried because it said that I have to make another apt to discuss the results with my doctor. Have any of you girls out there had this ... (163 words)

I want to let her know my feelings - but how?

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10 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I wrote here a some months ago asking how I could convince my mother to let me "see" my love again. (needless to say we mainly treated each other as "just friends") The answers I got told me I should try to talk to my mom and tell her that I'm heart broken without her. For ... (217 words)

My husband cheated and we divorced, but we want to try again, should we?

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help?? I got divorced last year after my husband had an affair, the whole break up was very painful as we had been together since I was 17 I am now 27 and only married for about 8 months. It nearly lead to me taking my own life I had a nervous breakdown. 2 years on I am ... (172 words)

I slept with him and now he's avoiding me, what's gone wrong?

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm a 20 yr old girl and i've recently met this guy who works at my gym. we went on 1 date on boxing day, which was great fun and a couple of days later i met his mum and stayed the night. we talk for hours and had a great time and I ended up sleeping with him that night. ... (184 words)

My fiance can't come through sex, he wants a blow job which I find revolting

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. I've been in a relationship of a little over a year now and engaged for a bit of it. But my finance can't cum during sex. he can cum using his hand fine, this bothers me a bit, but I have gotten over it to some extent. I still feel bad for being the only person getting ... (175 words)

My girlfriend gets her period and ignores me, why?

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10 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 14. ive had a gf for 3 months now and shes always been sweet to me. but she had her period yesterday and since then shes just been ignoring me for no reason. and on top of all of that we have our exams next week and her parents hate me so it puts more pressure on her. how ... (67 words)

I always hurt him and lie, but he's still here...I want us to be fixed.

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10 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with a wonderful guy for over a year now and have been living with him for about three months now. We have a wonderful realtionship. Well we did. There were a few times I lied to him. We broke up once for a day and then got back together, over someone at my work. I ... (273 words)

How do I justify my religion to a non Muslim when I don't believe it?

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10 January 2008 (F)

- hi, firstly if you are one of those closed minded people i do not want a reply because i;ve read a few questions regarding similar situations and some answers were down right rude! I'm a 22 year old born into a muslim family girl, born here in the uk etc... lived in my pare... (194 words)

My ex is so insecure and messes me about, how do I handle the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

10 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I went out with this lovely girl for a short time November 06 but after 6 days she panicked and wanted out of the relationship. She went out with another guy 2 weeks later which was hard for me but then dumped him 1 month later and went through a tough winter herself. We k... (288 words)