A
female
age
30-35,
*aining Tears
writes:Well i guess that proves im ugly........this guy that i really really like moved to bainville and he was supposed to answer my question about goin back out with me........and he didnt tell me anything about him moving!!!! And what i dont get is that his sister and other family is still here........god!!!! no-one ever wants to date me.......ive had my heart broken so many times but this is the worst of them all......there was sumthing special about him......but i dont no what...........what am i going to do!?!?!?! Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, fishdish +, writes (3 January 2008):
 if you can't forget this guy who supposedly ran from town from you, you could always try calling him and say you wanted to know where he's went off to because you're concerned and care about him. then you'll get your explanation. Nobody leaves town because of someone's ugliness.He may have had school issues and was sent away to get himself fixed, or maybe rehab. However, your CHOICE to make yourself into the victim not only shows how self-concerned you are, it sounds like you need to work on your confidence and how you feel about yourself. all men have all different tastes. you win some, you lose some, you probably are losing many that are entranced by you that you don't even know about because you are consuming yourself with self-pity. I understand it's a hard time for you and I sound extremely unsympathetic, but I promise making yourself happy is a much more attractive quality than beating oneself, don't you think?
A
female
reader, Oblivia  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Oh, I'm sorry, you really sound very sad! But you know what, it doesn't at all prove that you are ugly. It seems as if this had something to do only with him and nothing at all with you. Do you know why he had to move away on his own?
I know this might not feel like any console at all, but it really is true that broken hearts heal with time. The recipe is to let yourself cry just as much as you need and to have your friends over to spend time with you and eat lots of ice cream or what else that is your favourite. It can also help to write down everything you feel in a book, like a diary.
Best of luck to you!
...............................
|
