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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How should I react to my girlfriends actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. Ive been with this girl for about a month now, and we are each others' first relationship. A friend hooked us up after she found out we had been liking each other for about 3 months. We are the same age We REALLY like each other, and everyone comments on how ... (138 words)

Can getting a girlfriend make you bad at sports?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if it is true that sometimes when people get a girlfriend they start to get worse at sports? I was wondering because I really like this girl, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out because I've always heard that girl friends make your sports worse. I really ... (68 words)

My ex broke up with me today. What does she mean by what she said?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - right my ex split up with me today, by txt basically. saying shes not happy an needs to sort her head out, an needs to do this for herself. i dont know what she means by this. can u help?... (40 words)

He spent mone at a strip club, I dumped his butt, now he wont speak to me, what is going on with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after finding out he spent a large amount of money at a strip club without telling me. I told him not to call me until he wanted to be honest about how he spent the money. He didn't call me for five days and just went out of ... (178 words)

I'm having no luck with guys, should I give this guy who comes into my workplace my number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I just have a quick question. I havent had a boyfriend in over a year and i havent been asked for my number from any guy in that space of time either. I think my probalem is that i feel kind of lonely and i just would love to meet a really nice guy. The question might ... (197 words)

My ex is moving in near me and coming to work where I do. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP ME. my ex bf is moving 3 doors down from me. not only have i not seen him for 4 years, everytime someone mentions his name, my heart flutters. the other thing is that he got a job the same place i work, now i have to deal with him everyday!!! i live with my bf and love him... (70 words)

I've liked him for 11 months. Do I tell him or forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

- Dear Cupid. i have the biggest crush on my best guy friend. well, im not sure if its a crush. im 15 going on 16. and i've liked him for 11 months! He's a really flirty guy and i'm too scared to tell him. Firstly, we used to be extremely close, but now we hardly speak on t... (160 words)

Henpecked part 2...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, Our group of friends meet up every week, once a week to a local pub for seveal years now. We all enjoyed having a few drinks and listen to local music acts. We have always welcomed our single friend's new love interests. Now it seems that one of our ... (286 words)

He wants anal sex, I don't as it sounds really bad, am I overreacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants me to try anal sex. I have never done it and for some reason can't bring myself to do it. anyone have any words of wisdom. am I overreacting or is is as bad as it sounds.... (40 words)

He's really wild, me not so much, but I'm willing to try anything, any ideas on something I can do to spice up our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing someone for awhile and we have experimented a little in the bedroom. I enjoy it, but he is a little more experienced (and wilder) than I am. He always talks about surprising him sometime when I come over. I know he is talking about surprising him in the ... (119 words)

How do I ask this girl out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my issue: When I go to the gym, I run across this girl whom I find attractive. She looks me in the eyes really strongly (or at least thats the impression I have) and I know I'm a decent looking dude, so I don't think its in my imagination. Well obvio... (300 words)

A long distance marriage, but he's a poor communicator, how can I get him to open up to me, or is there no hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get my husband to open up? We are apart and most of our conversations are over the internet. Though I can't get him to open up I will ask him about what he would like to do or go on vacation? he says as long as I am with you! I ask him to tell me something sexy? I ... (195 words)

Does this sound like love????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! So I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I know we're in love, but I just want some outside advice because I don't really have any other relationships to compare it to. We tell each other "I love you" about 20 times a day. It feels like I ... (245 words)

Wetness, is it normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok quick question! is it normal to get wet when a guy touches me? and its not even in a sexual way. i think this is the reason i am still a virgin cause i am embarrassed about this!! please someone answer this "silly" question! thanks too!!... (47 words)

My boyfriend puts his mates and alcohol before me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really love my boyfriend but he puts alcohol before everything else. I get treat differently infront of his friends but I can't live without him, I get so hurt and I don't know what to do.... (37 words)

Why does he keep talking about his exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wont stop mentioning his ex girlfriends,he remembers the exact day he asked them out and the day he broke up with them,although he doesnt even remember our anniversaries, its making me feel unwanted,is it him with the problem or is just my jealousy?... (45 words)

How do I get myself a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a question. How to get a good girlfriend. I am 30 years old from India and now want to settle my life. Actually my problem is that i am not a romantic type person. Therefore, Please suggest me some good ideas. I want a true girlfriend not a fake one. Is there an... (67 words)

Does my body sound normal for a 16 year old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and have been looking at my self in the mirror and saw something, my left side of the stomach seems to be a bit inner than my right and also my left chest/man boob (have lost weight but still their) seems to be upper than my right, this happ... (152 words)

I'm having multiple orgasms, but not in the bedroom?? how can I control this its driving me crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have quite an embarassing problem,recently, almost every day, i have been having uncontrollable orgasms and i can have upto 5 a day without even doing anything and they last what seems like forever, this might be all well and good if i was home alone every single day,but ... (105 words)

How do I tell my mate I don't want her to come with us to get std tests?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my mate are going to GUM clinic next friday to get cheked out as one of the lads has something! but my friend says she wants 2 go too not to get checked out just to tag along, and me and my mates that is getting checked out said we arnt telling anyone of wre have ... (103 words)

Do I give my ex a third chance????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts My relationship with my has always been very on/off. We have both just graduated and she had previously broken up with before over the summer. I was totally destroyed and spent my whole summer trying desperatly to get over her. We got talking again and we got back tog... (257 words)

Should we be communicating daily in order to stay in sync or is this not a big deal? J

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and I am begining to worry about our lack of communication. We use to talk everyday but now we rarely talk on the phone. We don't live together and our schedules don't always cordinate but we don't see eachother for a span of ... (78 words)

My friend just told me his loves me, should I reciprocate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A coursemate of mine who has been a close friend for sometime now, just told me he is in love with me. Am so confused that i dont know what to tell him.Should i accept his proposal or not?... (39 words)

Is he too young for me? Will he let me down too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend I've had for 5 months has told me he likes me. We kissed the other night and I really like him - I got that lovely crazy lustful feeling :o) The only problem is, my last ex (who I lived with) was a few years younger than me. He turned out to be an immature, undepe... (205 words)

Why haven't I gotten my period in a week and half?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for about 3 months now and we have not had any luck. But this month when I was suppose to get my period it never came. Now I am about a week and half late. This morning I tried a home pregnancy test and it came out negative. Is ... (111 words)

Been single a while, advice on dating this guy please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been out of the dating scene a while, I work at a pub and have developed a friendship with one of the locals who is a regular (same age as me). We've been very chatty and friendly for about 5 months, we swapped numbers a while back and he's become quite a good friend. ... (169 words)

What does it mean if lesbians went "all the way"... what is that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when two women have sex or "go all the way" what exactly is the difference between foreplay and just fooling around as lesbians and having sex/going the whole way? if that makes sense like if two lesbians say "we went all the way last night" does that mean they gave ... (78 words)

I want to ask this girl at work out, but we've never talked, how do I approach her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you go about asking someone out you like but have never really talked to before? Im a kind of shy/quiet guy and theres a girl a really like that i work with, only problem is she works on a different department and iv never had the chance to really say anything to her. ... (208 words)

My boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's and it upsets me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help!!! my boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's (yes there are two and they both have boyfriends) and it really upsets me. I don't want to be the type of girlfriend that doesn't allow him to be friends with whoever he wants but the situation depresses me. we ... (299 words)

Pregnant , with my bf but why do I keep thinking of an ex bf who I was with for 9 years.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in my mid twenty's I have been with my b/f for little over a year and I am pregnant with his child but I still think a Lot about my ex which I was with for 9 years is it love or not? ... (46 words)

I've hooked up with a married man, I don't want him to leave his wife - an ex friend of mine, but it would be nice if I could see him more, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 26 year old girl in love with a 38 year old married man...for the last 2 years hes been married 15 years with a 12 year old daughter..the strange part is that i dont want him to leave his wife,its not about the money because i have enough,or the sex..i got married when i ... (169 words)

Whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. What's wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is kissing meant to feel good? I've ... (107 words)

BF of a year doesn't love me, wants to be with me yet fantasizes about other girls and idealises his ex...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is this. I'n my last year of uni, as is my bf who I have been with for just over a year, albeit with a couple of breakups, namely a couple of months ago when he split up with me after months of saying (supposedly not to get with other girls) but just to be single. ... (1645 words)

I am afraid of being alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I think this is a very normal problem but I am trying to work at keeping it all in perspective and any advice would be gratefully received! I am a 33 year old man who has been married (for 7 years) from age 21 and that finished 5 years back and then after almost a year alone I ... (220 words)

My husband constantly sways from being Mr. Superior to being Mr. Worthless..how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know why, but my husband constantly sways from Mr. Superior to Mr. Worthless and treats himself and other accordingly. Is there anything i or he can do to help regulate this behaviour? - Walking on eggshells... (42 words)

How do I cope with working beside the man my wife cheated on me with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I cope with working beside the man my wife cheated on me with? Just found out my co-worker is the person my wife cheated with the first time, she never coped with my finding out so how do I cope with this now?... (45 words)

Dazed and confused--I feel sometimes not matter what I do for this man its never good enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I and my ex recently got back together and I feel like I am alive again. I’ve smiled more and every morning was like a brand new day because of the happiness he put back into my life. Last night however was a nightmare with him. A good friend of mine came down out of town for a ... (394 words)

My girlfriend is moving in with a guy (and 5 others) that she has kissed, in the past. I am concerned! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, my girlfriend of a year has recently moved to uni after a few months she kissed a guy who lives next to her in her halls, i let this go and forgave her but it happened again however she said she pulled away that time but i broke of our relationship and after a month we... (180 words)

I have a porn addiction and I need help getting through this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

- I am 20 and although I am single, I think I have a porn addiction. I have got the K9 web protection program seeing as that I couldn't reach a target of 1 week without porn (which lasted 1 day). Is there anything else I should to beat the addiction? More importantly will I b... (99 words)

He cheated on me and I can't forget it it! Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, My boyfriend and I are both happy and have been going out for 7months. Everything has been perfect for one thing.. Earlier in our relationship, when things were still a bit awkward, he went out one night, got drunk and kissed another girl. He told me immediately the next ... (217 words)

Who do I believe---him or his pregnant ex gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a tricky situation and I could do with some advice. I've been seeing a guy for around a month now, and we've got on so great, he's the best thing thats happened to me in ages and he feels the same way. Everything was going perfectly until I got an email from an ex ... (243 words)

Worried my gf's good looks will go down the tolilet! How do I tell her this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been seeing my girlfriend now for about 9 months, when we 1st met, she blew me away- nice personality, beautiful looks, a great smile and a lovely body. She has just started using the pill, I said I would use condoms but she wants to use the pill. The problem is, she ... (177 words)

I have all the qualities you would want in a friend and in an employee.So why am I having job problems?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In the past 7 years I've had the career from HELL. I would love to know if there are any of you out there who have had similar experiences. At the moment, I feel ashamed of myself and that this has all been my own fault somehow. After finishing school and completing a yea... (1558 words)

I want him back but not sure how to get him back,..any help is appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently ive been thinking of my ex bf ive not spoke or seen him since we split at the start of december last year,we where not together that long and he called it off,he was also my first bf.The thing is its getting worse like thinking of him more often then i thought i would ... (144 words)

How do you come to terms with the decisions you've made in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

- How do you come to terms with the decisions you've made in life? I got married at 19 because my mother died suddenly and I had no direction in my life. By age 23, I realized I had made a mistake. My husband and I had nothing in common. He was moody and withdrawn emotionally. ... (599 words)

Am I just a friend with benefits??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this girl for the past 3 months. We have had sex numerous times, she stays over my house, we go to dinners, movies etc Yet she says she only sees me as a friend. I really like her, what should I do?... (52 words)

My sister is ill and I help her a lot...but now, I'm terrified of losing my bf, due to all this baggage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 31yr old with a younger sis aged 29 who is HIV positive. She has 3 kids and i have none and we dont have parents.meaning I parent everyone. I am in a very seriuos and committed relationship. My problem is I have become so reliant on him in terms of asking him to help ... (245 words)

Is it fair to make her choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! I have a girlfriend of 2 years and I deeply love her. Recently we had a bit of a relationship breakdown and she went to a male friend of her and he used her weakness and kissed her and tried to have sex with her but she stopped him. Things are getting back to normal between ... (110 words)

For 35 years, I have loved my husband's best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age - I am totally in love with my husbands best friend. This has been going on for the past 35 years. He was in our wedding, but I even loved him several years before that. We have been intimate on many many occasions. He says he feels the same way I do. We may go for a few ... (385 words)

What makes a guy a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age - In the thread, "What makes you are Virgin?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-makes-you-are-virgin.html , a girl asked how "virgin" was defined for women. How about a FOLLOW-UP QUESTION: Girls, how do you define a virgin guy? Does he have to get it inside her? O... (118 words)

She doesn't want a relationship right now and just wants to be free. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now. we have had hard times but great times like any relationship. all the sudden on new years eve she tells me that she doesnt want a relationship right now and just wants to be free to do what she wants , but will want to get ... (98 words)

I told him I slept with a guy while we were on a break and he flipped! He doesn't want me now! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs on and off. I love him with all my heart and he means alot to me. The longest we've ever been apart has been one month, within that month I was dating another guy. The reason for our break up was because i found ... (216 words)

We work together, we both had babies on the way. I think we are falling for each other, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am falling for a girl that I work with and I am not sure how to handle the situation. We started working at this place at the same time and went though training together, at first we were both seriously involved with other people and both had a baby on the way. Of course we ... (514 words)

I want to be friends with her again...how do I go about getting her to talk to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have been friends since kindergarten and although we dont hang around the same group of friends, we'd still always talk and hang out together throughout highschool. We've entered our first year and halfway through the first semester I met a guy who eventually ... (283 words)

How can you tell if your co-worker is interested without making an arse of yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a coworker and were good friends. we've gone out couple of times alone, and also with group of people. I buy little gifts for her time to time and recently have drawn her a painting. She seems to enjoy the gifts and is thankful but other than that she shows no ... (92 words)

Just want to tell everyone and the whole world....I'M IN LOVE!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im in love wooooooo! im aware this isnt a question but i wanted to tell the world =]... (28 words)

Can I get help with this poem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is always writing me poems telling me how much he loves me, and i thought that for valentines day i could write him a poem for a change,but im not to good at it,the poem i wrote below is what ive wrote and i wondered if you could help me by telling me if it is ok ... (210 words)

Part 2--Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is an addition to the question I posted yesterday, which can be seen here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/could-a-guy-have-sex-with-someone-and.html The girl that slept with my friend's boyfriend called me today and she said that since this happened, he has prop... (301 words)

He harrassed me at school, I reported him and he got suspended. Was I wrong to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. I really need advice. This boy who is in my class has been flirting with me for a while now since school started. and then he does gross, inapropriate stuff around me with words or physical contact. Ive held this in for 4 months and i told my mom and we ... (147 words)

He doesn't trust me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and i been together for a year and a half he cheated on me a couple of times when i was pregnant with his child and he lied we broke up then we got back together 3 months ago i told him i was gonna go somewhere but i didn't i came to my friends house now he thinks ... (101 words)

How do I deal with my Aunt (my Mom's sister)--she's coming onto my Dad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok..Well i am an 18 year old girl and i have this huge problem with half of my family!! my mothers sister has been drinking constantly to get attention from other men even though she is married. well recently she started hitting on my dad which has been causing problems between ... (122 words)

I'm off my meds and trying to cope...will I get better with time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope that someone out there can give me some advice. I feel like I'm going a little crazy and I just don't know what to do. I have recently come off of anti depressants (about 4 months ago) after being on them for around 9 years, I was initially prescribed them ... (503 words)

Pap smears...when should you have and do they hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

- A few questions about sex related stuff.... 1. Can you still catch and STD if you use a condom? I know if the condom breaks you could get pregnant, so does that mean an STD too? 2. When are you suppose to have a PAP Smear? Im very confused about this. I turned 18 in Augus... (122 words)

What should we do, as my date's live-in partner is very violent and she feels threatened to stay with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i have recently started seeing a girl who has a baby, but still lives with the babies dad,even though they are not going out anmore he wont leave (her house) and is controlling and very possessive of her, she told me today that she is afraid that he wil hurt her abd that he ... (105 words)

Will my jealousy ruin my relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an extremely jealous person, I'll admit it. I have been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I got a "great" idea to get him a dog for Valentine's Day. Now, he is already talking about all of the time he's going to spend with it and I'm getting jealous. I don't want ... (86 words)

So should I trust what he is saying..or just blow him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I dated for a little bit a couple of months ago......But, after we broke up we quit talking to one another.....But after he read my message that I sent him before we got together and it was just saying how much love and life I saw in his eyes when I ... (149 words)

I work at a school and am having feelings for this young male student. Advice is needed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I work in a school, and have been working with a 18 year old male student for a number of years. About five months ago I realized that I have strong feelings for him and what an awesome person he is. I have never told him how I felt (its my issue). About a month ago I found ... (162 words)

My husband told me to sleep with another man, I have and liked it,will we have problems?

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband, of two years,. has given me permission to have sex with other men. i did not ask him for this, he just told me it was ok one day while we were raking the yard (why, when we were raking the yard...wouldn't bed be a better place...but my husband marches to only ... (368 words)

I feel betrayed because of his watching porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

16 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend is bisexual. Which inst a big deal except he isn't faithful to our relationship. It's happened several times thought 5 years of being together. Every time he promises that he loves me and that it wont happen again. but in between the affairs or ... (114 words)