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writes:hello everyone. I hope your holiday was good. so anyway I am hanging out with my new girl next saturday night, and we are probably going to have sex. She has had sex twice, and enjoyed it, but hasn't had any orgams. I have been with 4 women, two of who had around double digit orgasms just from penetration, 1 who had a few from penetration, and 1 whose clit I needed to finger and suck for about 25 minutes. I am looking for a way I can give her an orgasm, or maybe even more, easily, and it will likely be through clitoral stimulation, mostly, according to you guys.however, One of my ex's told me about a "female climax enhancing" gel that her and her bf were using, like i guess before she was lucky to barely have an orgasm or two, but now shes having over 5 "screaers" in one round. To use it, you put a bunch on your finger, and massage in into the clit. I am thinking of putting this on her clit, and then fingering, and possibly tonguing, her to get her aroused and wet, and then penetrating her. I was wondering if this is a good strategy.Also, will I come across as unusual or perverted if I tell her that I have this gel that is supposed to make you have orgasms easier if I put it on your clit?thanks
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Sex should be consensual in all forms. You should not put something on her if she does not allow you to, meaning, you should talk to her and tell her there is something you want to try out. Let her see it or read about it, this is her body and you should really respect that!
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