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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend keeps running between me and his ex, when he has problems with me he runs to her and vice verse. I told him to get lost as three is a crowd and i deserve better, do you think i made the right choice, i love and miss him too much for words
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): girl I'm in the same situation an I don't kno how 2 move pn bcuz I love him so muxh despite what he does...i hope i'll soon b strong like u but trust me u definitely made the right choice...he's not worth u!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto everyone who responded, Thanks a million for the words of wisdom. i appreciate this more than you'll ever knowLove y'all
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reader, elsie  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 yes darling you definetly made the right choice here.he was a coward and sorry but these sort of men will always run to someone else when the going gets tough!shes convenient and obviously still likes him.my fella does the same and i get angry with him and her when really im angry with myself for not being able to end it?im in the same set up myself and it kills you and they dont change.i wish id got out sooner and only wish i had your guts.i feel its coming to an end anyway with my fella.youll soon be glad that you didnt waste years of your life on this loser.once a loser always a loser.you did the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the enlightenment, it is not easy but thanks for the honesty.
I do still have my dignity though i'm still mad coz i asked a straight question about this situation and the dude lied straight to my face.
Thanks for the great advise
Love,
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Well, making a decision as saying goodbye to someone you love is really difficult... but there was really nothing more you could do and still have your dignity!
This guy is only toying with the two of you and as long as you let him do it, he will. You deserve to be with someone who will stay in difficult situations and make them better. Difficulties in a relationship are a chance to grow as a couple and to have a more stable relationship, if he doesn't know that or if he prefers to be only in the good times, then you have no future with him.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): You definitely made the right choice. If there are problems in a relationship they should be worked out with those two people and nobody else. She isn't exactly a disinterested party is she.
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