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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can’t seem to get the courage to tell her how I feel, as I got hurt in the past for doing this.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I have known this girl for quite a while. I’ve started to have feelings for her, but I don’t know how to tell her. I can’t seem to get the courage because last time I let someone know I liked them I got hurt. I’ve tried writing notes but I just can’t make the words co... (68 words)

My boyfriend lied about watching porn. Now I can't trust him. What should I do to make things better?

This question has 70 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a better relationship than many. Except for one thing... Right now we finally have a place of our own. But we were in a long distance relationship for about 1.5 years in the middle of that. During this time i found out ... (268 words)

I feel so lonely and feel as though we a drifting apart.Am I being stupid or do you think spliting up would be for the best thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year. we were both working when we first started dating. after a couple of months he lost his job, a month later i had to give mine up due to some problems at home. since then we both found it hard to get back into work. i got so used to ... (268 words)

Your general thoughts of the uncircumcised penis?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 17 years old and i am affraid that my penis is too small. it only measures 5.5 inches when errect. please help???? Also i was wondering what people thought about circumsized penises? by the way im circumsized.... (40 words)

She only tolerates the missionary position, saying almost all others hurt. Can this be corrected?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have regular sex, averaging once a day. When we do, she prefers a very strict missionary position. She says she has comfort/sensitivity issues and it hurts her in almost every other position. Are there any women who have felt this way? What did you do to ... (64 words)

Could it be depression? The past two years seem to have mounted up, I don't know where I'm standing.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. i always rely on this site to help me with minor problems but recently so much as been mounting up and it has turned into one big problem. here it is.....: first of all: i dont know whether i have depression or not but i go through these horrendous mood swings. ... (445 words)

My boyfriend gets angry if I ask for us to move in together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, I am 25 and he is 30- still living at home with his mum. He does hate living with her and Im never invited over there. Have slept there once. He stays at my place about 3 times a week, but then likes his own space and friends for ... (105 words)

Am I being a bitch by saying mean things about her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 14 and i really like this boy but he claims too love another girl. we have meet once and he said i was good looking and i am a nice girl. i thought i would go on the girl "he claims love" myspace to see what she looks like shes not ugly but she is not pretty either i ... (104 words)

She's depressed and doesn't want me with her. What should I do as I know she's not thinking clearly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am with my girl friend for 3 years and now i want to marry her, but she says she is not ready and she needs some time. I have left my parents, my country everything for her just to be with her. Since last 12years she was taking depression tablets and since August she gave up. ... (172 words)

My boyfriend of 6 years has stopped taking my calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi can someone help me, i am in desperate need of an answer. My boyfriend of nearly six years has for the past week stopped answering my calls and wont give me a reason why! ive text him, phoned him and left voice messages but no reply. I know nothing has happened to him coz ... (136 words)

Do I need to be on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya.i have used this site before and it has been a great help. I'm 18 and me and my ex ended last august and remained friends,i got with someone new and he wanted me back i said no and then when i split up from the new person he wanted me back again,it has always been an o... (262 words)

I'm 13 and seeing a 22 year old guy, my Mum's gone mental

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need a lot of help i've been going out this 22 year old he says he really like me and i like him my mum found out yesterday and is punishing me by the way i'm 13. I need a way to convince her i haven't had sex yet please help!!!!... (53 words)

My boyfriend has gotten another girl pregnant during our break, how do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend got another girl prenant when we fell out how do i cope we have 3 kids together... (19 words)

My husband and I are drifting apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 14 years. We are both re-married with children from our previous marriages. Over the past few years our relationship has been going downhill fast. We hardly communicate anymore, there is absolutely no intimacy between u... (395 words)

Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty he sits on the table facing me a... (199 words)

My ex best friend fancies my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive known this lad since i was about 4 years old. weve been close all the time. even dated at one point. i do fancy him. and i used too love him. but that faded when we fell out for 6 months. the problem is one of my exbestmates fancies him aswell. her and a couple of her ... (242 words)

My best friend is always out with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi id like some advice from some1 who doesnt know me.i have a daughter who is nearly two years old and have recently had to stop her father seeing her due to him always letting her down and some other stuff. the problem is that my best friend goes out with my daughters father... (261 words)

I don't think he loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a man for just under two years. I love this man deeply but our sex life has ruined it for me. I feel that he doesnt love me he doesnt try an i have just gave up. I truly love him and cry all day but i am not happy an i cant go on like this. We ... (112 words)

My ex is engaged but I think I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 26 year old female, when i was 17 years old i started dating a boy, we were together almost two years, became *engaged*, but then at one point broke up....we have since moved to diffrent states and our lives have gone on, i got married and divorced and he has dated ... (167 words)

Does he tell her he's ending it because she's got BO?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has just started seeing a girl. Nothing much has happened yet but the couple times they've got close, she has spelt of BO. He says it's a total turn-off and is going to end it but doesn't know if he should tell her the truth of why. He's asked me, 'as a girl', if... (98 words)

Will a butt plug damage me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age - hi there, i would like to know what damage can be done to the anus if a butt plug is inserted and is kept there for 4-5 hrs a day every day... (32 words)

I got naughty with my ex on webcam while my boyfriend slept

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I got naughty with my ex on webcam. My boyfriend was asleep in the other room at the time and I feel really bad about it but I don't want to stop. I don't want to be a lying cheat but I just can't help myself. My ex wants to be with me again and he told me this abo... (108 words)

I am a runner up in a beauty competition, how do I tell my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I entered a Beauty competition not thinking realistically and also thinking negatively about myself. I have just found out that I have made it through to the oxford finals and havent told any of my family members its so soon and I need to get there and I have no one to cover fo... (84 words)

Did she really love me or was I a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my girlfriend, we were together for nearly a year and i moved half way accross the country bringing my children with me to live with her. She became very low in confidence and wouldnt trust me at all and this led to arguments. I love this woman with all my heart ... (189 words)

My daughter thinks she is one week pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi everyone, i need help, i need advice., my daughter was only 16 and i found out she is positive" she is 1 week pregnant" i can not accept it specialy she still in her high school so i told her i can not accept it and her boyfriend was only 17 didnt even finish the high sch... (179 words)

Was it an orgasm or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I lost my virginity 6 months ago and I've always masturbated me. The first time I had sex I felt a big pressure, like an orgasm, but not the regular one I always got every time I masturbate, however I'd like to know if that was really an orgasm and if it wasn't what can ... (77 words)

I'm a Mum of 2 and finding it hard to make friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya im from manchester england and im a mum of two and im 22 years old the problem is that i find it hard to make friends, i pretty much just stay at home all the time and look after them as my partner works full time......only my little boy starts school this week full time ... (130 words)

I don't know what to do anymore and I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well where to start, first of all my name is "Boggie" i live in new york Im in college for audio engineering and i will be graduating in the summer. I have a part time job working to make enough money to pay for bills and basically im surfing the wave here in NYC with m... (489 words)

He was full on, then totally cold, now wants to try again, do I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy late October last year and we really hit it off. He was gorgeous, made me laugh and we swapped numbers. Really thought I'd met a really nice genuine guy. We spoke for hours on the phone most nights and really just clicked. He sent me text messages most days ... (309 words)

Will my girlfriend be upset if I use the same ring I gave to my ex wife to propose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me. The engagement ring I intend to give to her is a Family heirloom. My father gave it to my mother. The ring is lovely and I'm sure she would like it. However, I have been married before and used the ring to propose to my now ex-wife. I am ... (87 words)

We're good together but the kids are a problem. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age - Hiya. I could do with some advice please. I am 44 and was going out with my partner for five years, we decided to move in together, as he lives in Northern Ireland and I live in Southern Ireland, So I moved to Northern Ireland along with my 14 year old son, Things were not... (338 words)

Will he be scared of me now that I've dished out some of his own medicine back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex has been controlling me, emotionally, verbally and sometimes physically abusing me for a very long time and never once did i stand up to him really. i now have took enough and i have humiliated him and disclosed something to some people who know him that he would never ... (136 words)

I find older men really sexy...is this normal?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I'm almost quite worried about myself. In the past few years Ive noticed I always get the hots for elder men. I dont mean old pensiors! But like men in their 30s and 40s, and I don't like anyone near my age at all. I just find older men really sexy...is this normal? ... (376 words)

I feel like I'm back to competing with other women for the man I'm in love with.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like I'm back to competing with other women for the man I'm deeply in love with. It's so physical, my heart feels like it's constantly breaking, and then healing when I see him, and then hurting again. We were great once, but then he moved away from the relationship bec... (131 words)

Is there a correlation between the amount of ejaculation and the intensity of orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Does the amount of ejaculate correlate with how good the orgasm is? My boyfriend sometimes ejaculates much more than other times. And from his facial expression, it seems to me that he enjoyed it much more when there was more cum. Is there a correlation between the amou... (62 words)

How can someone say they love you, and want to spend their life with you, but they are annoyed by almost everything you do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How can someone say they love you, and want to spend their life with you, but they are annoyed by almost everything you do?....I don't really think I'm an annoying person in general. I have great friends, and in previous romantic relationships, this was never a problem. But my ... (116 words)

Guys, what sort of ideas spring to mind when you think of your fantasy oral?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I need your opinion guys, what's you're dream blow job? It can be anything, literally. Just, what sort of ideas spring to mind when you think of your fantasy blow job?... (31 words)

I lost my sex drive after the hysterectomy, what can be done about this? - my relationship is very unstable at the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going to be 35 in about 2 months and had a hysterectomy about 3 years ago and lost all my sex drive. my boyfriend of 10 years is really getting old with not wanting to do it anymore i could go for ever and he really wants to leave me over it and i need to know what i c... (99 words)

We want to move in together, but he won't fix up his house to sell it, is there a bigger probem here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (28) and I (29) have been together for 3 years and have talked seriously about selling our own houses and buying a house together. I've been looking at the market and we decided he'd put his house on the market this spring to kick the process off. However, his ... (259 words)

What are the best Adult dating/ sex personal sites for REAL results, and are some of them scams?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am recently broken up from a girl I loved very much, and Im living the single life. But I don't really want a relationship, and I'm really just looking for a few hookups in my area. So I joined 2 sex personal sites, www.hornymatches.com, and www.amateurmatches.com. I was ... (143 words)

I slept with my mate while drunken, now she won't even speak to me! Ideas to solve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i got drunk at a party once and slept with my mate and she now wont even talk to me i dont love her but i want to talk it over with her how do i get her to just listen for like 5 mins?... (51 words)

After sex, she dumped me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is so crazy!!Sorry its so long I started at a new school about 3/4 months ago and instantly became really good friends with a girl Anyways, she told me she was Bi, And i told her i was too It was great, on new years she had a party and we made out sober and dr... (309 words)

She's demanding too much from me...I need more "me' time. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now. I would say its a serious relationship, not a casual one. We see each other after work 4 out of 5 weekdays, and most of the day on Saturdays. I usually don’t see her on Sundays. She lives very close to where I work so ... (257 words)

Is my husband gone for good? After his affair we attempted to save our marriage and he never gave me any cause to think he was not happy, on the contrary...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age - apologies first as this is a bit of a long one! I have been married for 20 years this year and on the 2nd January my husband informed me he was not happy and had not been so for the last year and wanted to leave. The background to this is 6 months ago he had an affair with a ... (528 words)

Sex hurts! We've tried everything! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and I am a virgin. More so, I am a virgin who just got engaged. I really want to have sex and so does my man - not that hes pressuring me at all. The problem is every time I try it hurts too much... i've used copious amounts of lube and even the doctors say its ... (176 words)

Are there any creams or remedies that dimiss the hurt during the "first night"?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

I'm 15 and my boyfriend planned for us to reenact porn scenes...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to see me squirt I need help my boyfriend is 18 and likes us to watch porn together then reenact it he got his best mate to join so we could reenact this scene with two boys one girl help please Gina ... (79 words)

Will he speak his mind, possibly making me feel rejected?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i started talking to this boy, i know him but he doesnt know me, he is like the boy all the girls like. and he's seen pictures of me but not the real me, and everyone says i look different in pictures. ive tried telling him but he wont listen, im going up to see him this week.. ... (98 words)

I think I'm pregnant, but boyfriend wants nothing to do with baby, what can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i'm pregnant but my boyfriend wants nothing to do with the situation at all. He doesn't even want his mother to know and they're really close! I've tryed to talk to him about it and he just doesn't say anything. He just knows that he doesn't want to be a father just ... (275 words)

What do guys look for in girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What do guys look in girls? ive never had a boyfriend as im not very pretty. Also how do you know if a guy does fancy you?... (27 words)

If she is unhappy with her current boyfriend as said, why are they still together whereas she flirts with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - well I met this chic through my cousin. I knew she had a boyfriend, and wasn't trying to holla. we started texting just friendly at first. after about a month we started texting all day and night. the conversation changed over into flirting and eventually we started sharing our ... (90 words)

I'm 19 and want to be with him. He has a kid and I'm okay with being a step-mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 years old.When I was 14 (he was 16) I had a crush on this guy and he really liked me too.But we were both extremely popular and rumors started pouring out til we eventually didn't talk to each other (because of pride)until 11 months ago.Meanwhile,after we stopped talking ... (266 words)

How do you take a pregnancy test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This sounds totally stupid, but how do you take a pregnancy test? I'm just curious, and feel so embarrassed that I don't know. Do you pee on it?... (29 words)

I want a baby, why do I feel this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

15 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I feel this odd need to be pregnant all the time. A baby is out of the question right now, but I so badly want one that I almost ache. I've never wanted anything more...Why do I feel this way? :(... (41 words)

I have a crush but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a huge crush on a guy i work with. problem is he has a girlfriend. we are pretty flirty with each other when we work together which is 5 days a week. other people we work with have even commented on our chemistry together. he has only been dating his gf for a short a... (225 words)

I'm feeling hurt and used after being rejected for a second time. How could he do this to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

- Hi I’m 19 and I have liked this guy at work since August. He's really good looking and a bit full of himself. He looks good but his personality sucks. Let’s say his name is John. From the first day I saw him I liked him, I was really drawn to him. Other girls at work liked him ... (667 words)

Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day? My friend and her boyfriend had just moved in together, and she had her "best friend" over 1 night and the best friend and the boyfriend had been drinking a lot. Well my friend tells me ... (423 words)

How do I let her know how I feel? She keeps giving me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well it goes like this,theres this female that i've known for about two to three months, and im very attracted to her, i love being around her, and when im not around her i think of her. now let me tell you that she's a tom boy but she's still a beautiful girl. well one of her ... (115 words)

Am I being used and being made a fool of? I love her but I can't cope with this, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 year old women who is in a relationship with a 26 year old woman. When we met she was in a relationship with a man for 3 years and they have a daughter and I was in a relationship with a woman for 3 years. Her relationship was very unhealthy ( he drank too much and ... (991 words)

When we were together it was mostly a sexual thing for him, but I still want to be with him...except he's with someone else now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age - What I want to say is more like adding to the question due to my recent experience. I felt that I rushed into a whirlwind relationship and after going out a few times we became intimate. After about a week he said that he only felt "connected" to me sexually. What does ... (129 words)

Did I say something wrong? What else was I supposed to say? I don't understand why she reacted like that.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey weird fight with my girlfriend the other day and I am so confused. what is the appropriate response in this sort of situation: We went to a party at a mutual friends house. One of the guys there brought along a new girlfriend to introduce to everyone. She looked jus... (163 words)

What happened years ago kills me inside and I just cant seem to get over it.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Where to start... I'm 26 y/o. I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 3 years. We started dating when we were 17. When we were 21, my husband (boyfriend at the time) starting acting strange and distant. I learned that he was becoming friendly with another ... (321 words)

He says he loves her but spends most of his time with me...does he want me or her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my on again off again bf of 8 years are having a baby together. I am currently 7 months pregnant. We got back together officially in the begining he moved in with me. Then when I was 5 months pregnant he broke up with me citing that he was in love with a girl he had ... (214 words)

I have met someone else...but I really couldnt cope with somebody breaking my heart right now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met a new girl recently who I am beginning to like. My last girlfriend hurt me so badly it really messed me up for a long time. With this girl - I think she likes me (she flirts alot and makes suggestions so at least I think she is attracted to me : whether it would ... (252 words)

I have feelings for my bestfriend but I always end up getting her back with my mate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have always liked my bestfriend. She's been my closest friend for almost 5 years now. 2 years ago she asked for one of my mates number and since then they have been together. They always fight and break-up and i always help to get them back on track which I kind of regret. ... (90 words)

She hates me and puts the whole family through hell! What is happening to my sister?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completely confused about this, I was wondering if someone can give me some ideas about why this is happening. Four years ago my sister had an abusive relationship and shortly afterwards she developed an eating disorder. She almost died from this and suffered from it... (1316 words)

I'm going mad! I love this other woman and I love my wife...help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age - Help Im going crazy Im a 47 year old married man with 4 kids. About 6 months ago I meet a lady shes 35 years old 3 kids I meet her at work her husband had just walked out on her and I was concerned about her there was nothing sexual about it I was genuinly worried about her. ... (170 words)

MArriage troublesI I need love 'preserver' to stay afloat, Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my wife from the time I graduated high school and I am turning 25 in April. We used to be the couple that everyone spoke about, we were both in great shape, we were very intimate and wild. Over the 7 years we have been together my wife has become very depressed. ... (314 words)

Is it okay to be 'just' friends with a guy who wants to date me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a boyf of 3 years who i love very much. but i have a male friend who i get along really well with, i dont have any romantic feelings for him but i know he does for me, but he knows i am with someone. we txt alot and see eachother on nights out etc. but never meet up ... (76 words)

What do I get my boyfriend for Valentines Day?

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

15 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - little bit early,but i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for valentines day! we have been dating for over 6 months now,will be 7 months by valentines day,do you think i should get him something romantic, or something else like ..dvds or cds? eee please help.thanks. :) x... (50 words)