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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn? I was just wondering because my boyfriend watches porn all the time and lately I have had a hard time in bed because I am worried that I am not attractive enough because he'll be thinking of the porn girls and then loo... (74 words)

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant. What should we do?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend dated 3 years ago for a year. we were truley in love. Because of my family not being to fond of him we broke it off and i was depressed for along time. I never really got over him and he never got over me. We met up again and my family grew fond of him ... (227 words)

Did the guy I like have a one night stand or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. I like my flatmate at uni and recently, through a stupid mistake, he has found out that i like him. So now he nows how i feel. However, since he found out he has not backed off at all...like instead of starting to keep a slight distance, as would be expected, we have sort ... (397 words)

How will I know if she is cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys... Im going through the phase of i think my Girlfriend is cheating on me im not so sure i need your thoughts please!!! and its tricky! I live in derby and she lives in tamworth about 30 mins apart im 19 and shes 17 we met at a party and it was almost like love at f... (226 words)

I think I'm falling for my teacher!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i am falling for my teacher! We have some really deep convosations! and he makes me feel really good! I know this sounds silly like i am a 12 year old but i am 18 and at college and its legal he doesnt actually teach me! he teaches at my college and we met whilst having ... (76 words)

Should I tell her I like her or stay silent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, it's such a breathtaking relationship that I can no longer take. It's a somewhat unulitral love. I guess this is the hardest thing I've ever been through. As a matter of fact, Once you live in an isolated island alone, ya only think about a way out. Although you've nobody ... (191 words)

Survey: who initiates sex more: men or women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just curiousity! Who initiates sex more? the man or the woman?... (11 words)

Our sex life is in tatters due to his affair. How can We move on!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) age - Hi people, My husband had an affair last year. We have made enourmous progress in trying to get back on track, but it is tough. Through the recovery process, our sex life obviously has come into discussion and debate. Our sex life prior to his affair had been in a w... (657 words)

Can you get pregnant while being on top during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can you get pregnant while being on top during sex?... (10 words)

Can I still get preganant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right my problem is if you have been keeping up todate that me and my new partner were deciding whether to have a baby well we decided we are going to but my question is i have been taking the contraceptive pill and i stopped taking it three days before my period and then wen i ... (123 words)

He isn't working. Am I being selfish wondering is there any future for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all just wanted your advice see ive been dating this guy for 4 months and since we started to go out he hasnt had a job , i mean hes tried going to job center and trying all sorts of places but its because he didnt get any qualifications in school and the places near us s... (166 words)

I'm 13 and a boy in class touched me innapropriately!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 13 years old and I'm really scared. A boy in my class touched my private:( he just, you know pushed me against my locker and rubbed himself against my body and also touche my private. what do i do? ... (42 words)

What could be causing me to lose my erection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy I have being going out with my gf for ages, we have sex sometimes but recently during sex my erection goes down and its being taking me ages to cum its only after about 5-10 mins tht my erection goes down can someone help please :)... (47 words)

We're getting married but he's interested in someone else. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I of over 5 yrs have been having some problems lately. We are engaged and are planning on getting married. But something has changed because he has met this girl who lives and hour or more away from us. He is all of the sudden rethinking this marriage because ... (282 words)

A question on younger men and older women..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im curious, how many young men (30's mid 40's) stay with the woman they are dating down the road? I have three g/f's now dating men ten yrs younger than them, although attractive women now (very), at 55 (when their boyfriends will just be 45) will the men stay??... (49 words)

What can I do about erection problems?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) age - I have erectal and low libido problems, more than two years ago, and my wife is very upset about it, as she thinks, its because I don't love her anymore. I don't know what is wrong with me,I went t the doctors and they say there is no indication medically to the problem. I ... (229 words)

My best mate is behaving strange towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Ive got a best mate and we were so close, went out sumwer everynite, likes the same stuff, talked for hours on end about the randomest shit in the world, on the phone everynight ect. But scince two weeks ago when some lad who dosent like me became friends with my best ... (120 words)

Am I doing the right thing letting him chase me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone... i asked a question about my relationship with my ex yesterday...and i got responds but now i have another.. we were suppose to hangout yesterday but i told him i had things to do just for the mere fact that im still vulnerable towards him.well yest... (300 words)

They wont listen to me about my options at school. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I Am Close To Choosing my options in school - 3 lessons that are decided on what i want to do when i am older - but my mum keeps trying to change my options. she also said that i wont be able to do a game designer course at university - wich is what i want to do - when i know ... (131 words)

My friends gentle mockey has made me miserable...what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A friend of mine received a Nintendo Wii for his birthday last year and since then 3 other friends have also purchased the console. One of the features of the console is the ability to create a virtual persona or Mii. You can design this Mii to look like yourself but in a ... (199 words)

He doesn't meet my sexual needs but masturbates to porn...does this mean he wants more sex but just not with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My sex drive is much bigger than my boyfriends. We've talked about it before, and he says that he likes to 'save it up' because it feels better when he cums if he doesn't have sex everyday. I would definitely prefer having sex more often than every other day, but I love him and ... (232 words)

A question for men...would you prefer a pro in bed or would you be prepared to be paitent??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A general question for men. What would be the general reaction of a man if the woman he is involved with doesn't have much experience with men?? Would he rather have someone who knows how to be a pro-in bed or would he have the patience to take it slowly and let her learn th... (114 words)

What shall I do?? I can't have him because his family won't permit it but I can't be without him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. I'm a 22 years old Muslim Asian girl (i'm a Malays). I'm studying in one private college in my country and it is the same place that i have met my bf. My bf is a foreign student from Arabs. We have been together almost 3 years. He is from very cultural family.... (455 words)

My bf told me he likes my best friend...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf...told me he's getting into one of my bff's....i dunno what to do and i really need some help. So we were just walking and he said he has to tell me something and not to get too mad....and that he thinks he likes my bff as much or maybe more than he likes me.....a... (139 words)

I dream about him and think about him all the time...is this just a crush or something more??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, is this just a crush that will go away or is there something more? About 3 months ago i had this dream that me and this nice lad(nice as in sweet, kind etc not fit) were just in the hall of our school and even though we were only friends we were holding hands. Since ... (161 words)

The thought of her having sex with another man gets me depressed...can we ever have normal sex again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they had sex but when I asked he... (175 words)

Found out my gf had a threesome and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for almost 7 months now, and just yesterday i saw where she had been posting on here and saw that she had posted about having a threesome with another guy, and a girl. I was shocked when i saw this and when confronted about it she lied, lied, and lied... (305 words)

How do I overcome his hypocritical ways of trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My other half is currently in the Army. He's preparing to go to Iraq, he'll be leaving in June 2008 until September 2009. This will be his second time. We've conversated on a few things. One of the topic was my exes. What happened? Why this? Why that? With his past sit... (331 words)

He says he wants to please me but never does.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for two months now and we recently had sex for the first time...I didn't get any pleasure from it...nor do I ever get anything out of any sexual thing we do. I know there is nothing wrong with me, because I am very capable of having an orgasm, but he never ... (122 words)

How do I tell my strictly religious mother I am pregant??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm really stressing out. I'm pregnant. And I know for a fact that my mother will kill me for it. I'm not married, but I'm so in love with my boyfriend of 14 months, and we plan to get married one day. But the other night he ran out of condoms, so for a brief period we (stupi... (127 words)

Can you break a penis?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I know this sounds totally ridiculous, but can you break a penis? Is this possible? Just seen as you can break an arm or a leg, why shouldn't you be able to break a penis?... (35 words)

Should I be offended by what my friend said or just forget it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and these other girls at school were messing around and talking about abortions. We don't get along too well this was a one off. One of my best friends (that hangs around with me) said a really harsh and mean thing she said "you will never have an abortion because you wont... (128 words)

Why do I love the thought of a girl performing oral on me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend that I'm completely in love with, but I love the thought of a girl licking me out than a boy... I'm so worried because it seems to turn me on more. Sometimes when he performs oral on me, I imagine it's a girl... I'm not a lesbian, and the thought of a ... (77 words)

I masturbated to porn....now I feel dirty...was what I did just as good as cheating??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Recently, I masturbated properly for the first time. Before hand, I never really found it a turn on. But I put on some porn and masturbated and had quite a good time. The only thing is, now I feel like I've cheated. I wasn't looking at porn for the guys (or the girls for that ... (123 words)

When we meet it's great but it feels like he doesn't make the effort...should I say something??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks but we hardly see each other. I have 6th form and he has just dropped out of university and is looking for a job so it isn't that easy to. So i only really see him at weekends and sometimes not for long however when i d... (180 words)

How do I find a boyfriend who is not selfish or sexual??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want a boyfriend but most of the boys at school are selfish or sexual. How do i know the difference before it is to late??... (27 words)

What shall I do about the father of my son who is violent, drunk and on parole??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My baby's dad, who was in jail for 1 year and a half, came out already. He makes me mad because he tries to say that he has right over me and my son when i was the one taking care of me and my son and him and i still am. My baby's dad don't work; he tries to spank my son but ... (244 words)

When guys sleep around why is it him 'just being a bloke'??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that when a man does something, people say 'oh..he's just being a guy or bloke'? It's like when a guy does something, people don't take it as serious as when a girl does something. For example, when a female sleeps with multiple men, she's a slut. When a guy sleep... (67 words)

How do I put a condom on my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf wants me to put the condom on him when we sleep together, this sounds simple but i've never done it before and i don't want to hurt him. So people who have done this, is it easy?... (39 words)

He criticises any decision I make...should I just roll over??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a long-distance relationship with a man I have known for 8 years but have been dating for only 4 monthis. Lately I feel he criticizes/analyzes any sort of independence or decision I exert. If I watch a show about a relationship and I tell him the plot of the story, he ... (227 words)

Should I still trust my wife after she admitted emailing her ex behind my back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age - Hi, My wife received an email from an old boyfriend, she told me at that time and we agreed to that, she will reply and tell him that, my husband don't like us to exchange emails and for that this is my last email to you. The problem is my wife was emailing him few times us... (93 words)

Do you think she is someone he would like to have an affair with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age - I have recently found out that my long term partner of 10 years has been emailing another woman in a way I feel is wrong. here are some examples: Hi Nici just a quick e-mail so you are in my contacts folder, hope you're ok and not enjoying the warm weather too much. Did you ha... (373 words)

About stopping bulimia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i have become bulimic, and have told my best friend and my boyfriend. they tell me that i am skinny enough, wich i now am but it is addictive, how do i stop... (34 words)

Please help, I love her as she is.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and girlfriend who is 13 yesturday told me that she is bulimic. Only me and another friend no. We swore to secrecy that we wouldnt tell any 1, which is what we are going to do but how do i try and talk her out of this as she is very skinny and can feel her bones, ... (89 words)

Is it possible that the G spot is sensitive for only a certain percentage of women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very good sex life and I am able to orgasm by masturbation. But I have been wanted to have a G spot orgasm and even squirt for the longest while. I have seen vidoes and read books etc on how to do it. I know where my G spot is and often times try to stimulate but truly ... (210 words)

Confused-what is the state of my relationship? do I still love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I am currently at uni and have met a lovely young woman and we have been going out for just over 3 months, at the start everything was great, i though I loved her and she said she felt the same way. We live in the same house so the realtinship has moved fast and emot... (262 words)

He's ignoring me without explanation. Why, if he's always been so upfront with people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. So about 3 years ago, I met this amazing guy, and we went out for about 3 months. He broke it off and then 4 months later he wanted me back and we decided to see how things went. About a month later, I kissed a friend, and felt so bad about it I broke up with the guy, bu... (292 words)

I'm tired and have no time to relax.

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24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My head is all over the place in my relationship. I live with my girlfriend of 18 months. We also have her older brother living with us. He works shifts and generally keeps himself to himself. She works all kinds of shifts, all over the place, during the week and over ... (527 words)

Am I being paranoid and overprotective.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a guy for around 3 months now and I'm very happy within that relationship. Except, he lives in a different city, so we only are able to see eachother once a week. We've promised eachother to be faithful and say its worth it but I can't help bu... (155 words)

How to tell my new girlfriend I have two kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - HI evryone there! dated a lady for 7 years now and we have two lovely sons the problem is she is not respecting me and she talk to me the way she feel like. I lost my intresting on her and I dated other lady this one seems honest , responsible and respect me should I tell the ... (105 words)

I'm 9 weeks pregnant..and I'm so happy about it. But I'm booked for an abortion!! ! Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 9 weeks pregnant and to be honest im really happy about it. unfortunately my boyfriend is not so happy. this isnt because he doesnt want it but the cost of trying to support our baby. we are both in our 20's do not have a stable home to live in, stable jobs so im guessing... (83 words)

He just disappeared...am I being played?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age - The situation is this,the man i've been with for awhile now just disappeared on me. it's been a month since i've seen him and when i called him to see what the problem was why i haven't seen him in awhile all he could say was that he had been busy,things weren't going well for ... (74 words)

Split up with my ex-husband again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help about 3 years ago I had split up with my ex husband again (we keep trying) and had started seeing a beautiful man, who was also a friend, it was very calm, and pain free and also very deep. But there was no spoken commitment as such though it felt like soul connection. ... (273 words)

He propsed to me, at the top of the Eiffel Tower--but I'm just not sure if I love him because there is this other guy....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in love with two men. Hello i hope you can help as i am so emotional at the moment, i just dont know what to do anymore. I have recently got engaged to the most wonderful man in the world, i have been with my now fiancee for over 3 years and for my birthday he took me to ... (318 words)

How can I convince him we can make this work long distance??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just informed yesterday that he was supposed to be moving to New Brunswick today, and I live in Toronto. He told me that he's moving to New Brunswick and that he's ending what we have because he believes it's not easy to keep a long distance relationship. We both ... (164 words)

How is it possible I'm not doing it with him but have been so successful before??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kinda embarrassing but the head of my boyfriend's penis is not sensitive.. ie. he gets no pleasure from it. He has a small node of nerve endings on the shaft (close to the head)which he says feels really good. Is this normal? How do i go down on him? We haven't ... (146 words)

Shall I make a move or do I have to wait for him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am very shy. I am in a relationship for 2 and a half years now, and he hasn't kissed me yet. Every time I am with him something stops me from touching or kissing him... I have never been kissed. I know it is weird ok! Anyway, when I am not with him, I always think of ... (116 words)

I'm so happy with my married guy...but love my bf and am not sure he would leave his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having a casual sex relationship with someone I work with; he is married and I have a bf. He had been cheated on in the past by his wife, and there are still problems. He just isn't happy with her. He and I started messing around over the summer and had said we ... (390 words)

I'm falling for my friend and can see myself spending the rest of my life with her...but she has a bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who I want to be more than friends with. The problem is, she already has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is going to school overseas, so she spends a lot more time with me than with her boyfriend. I have told myself that I will tell her how I feel. I am not ... (193 words)

Fallen for my bfs friend...but I want to stay with my bf and just get his friend out of my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. Hi everyone. I know my story is a little long and complicated but if someone could give me a little clue on what to do to help me I would be realllly happy. I apologize for me mistakes because english is not my first language) Now here goes: Its been 4 years tha... (846 words)

I feel like I am always walking on eggshells with my gf and it is wearing me down...what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - It seems like my girlfriend always is upset. It feels like anything I do. She is an emotional and sensitive girl - this she does admit. She will cry at any sad part of a movie, cry when she is happy; just generally emotional. However, her constant being upset is wearing ... (224 words)

Am I wrong or is it the thought that counts??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of over2years didn't buy me a birthday card last week. She wanted to but didnt - for lack of money. Next week she went and spent her money on socialising. I would have apreciated a hand written bit of paper. It's 'the thought that counts' - no? Am I wrong? ... (63 words)

Are my fears based on something possible??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just moved to Dallas a few months ago. We text each other every single day. I respect him by telling him where I'm going and with who I'm going with. However, there have been times when he fails to mention that he's going somewhere until he's already out. And he ... (255 words)

A question for girls...have any of you ever masturbated like this??

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always wondered if anybody else has ever masturbated this way or if it was just me. What I used to do a lot (I rarely do it this way anymore) was to prop myself completely off the floor by holding myself up with my hands and leaning over the edge of the footboard at the ... (422 words)

I am thinking about going on anti-depressants...any advice??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been depressed off and on for some years and am thinking about going on an anti-depressant. What have you heard? Any suggestions? I know that most of them have the same side-effects. I was on Prozac before and it didn't work out. I know this is not a relationship ... (65 words)

How long does the average orgasm last?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is an unusual question but ok.. How long does an average orgasm last????? Because mine seem to finish within seconds, is that normal?? thanks for answering.... (52 words)

Can anyone give me tips on making my guy scream with pleasure in bed!?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, another question... since I'm new in this thing called "SEX", I'm so curious, I've give my boyfriend blow jobs, normal thing I know, but the thing is that I don't feel like I'm giving him enough pleasure, when he is doing it to me I'm desperately screaming and when I g... (105 words)

Should I move onto a new relationship with this girl even though we have both recently split from others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl at my school, but i dont know if i should move on already. I think im over my ex but i dont want to start something with someone else and find out afterward that im not and hurt her, and i dont want to do that to her or anyone else, but i dont know if im being ... (217 words)

Should I accept his use of pornography whilst we are in this long distance relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is in Australia, I am returning within the month to move in with him. About 5 months ago we discussed pornography, he said that he'd delete anything from his computer that he had from when he was s... (207 words)

He hurt me so badly and he's still being really cruel, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had been together for three years. We were a perfect fit. For years we were inseperable and I felt like no one in the world understood me like he did. It even went as far as us having our own language. I trusted him, and I have to say I was soooo good to him. He was ... (421 words)

Do his reasons for masturbating to his exes picture sound valid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

24 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in a relationship with a 29 year old man (i am 41). we've had a very good relationship in and out of the bedroom thus far. however i found out recently that he has been masturbating to old nude photos of a very recent ex-girlfriend. what the kicker part is that he "says" ... (117 words)

Help needed for long distance relationship and religion issues?

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24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There are two main conflicts in my love life. 1.) My man in the moment does humantarian work all over the world; so we try to cumminicate as much as possible, but this has been going on for 5 months already and I am just aching from being away from him, being the hopeless rom... (285 words)

Is this girl jealous of me?

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24 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Is She Jealous? This girl at my school in high school keeps calling me a slut i am a virgin and all but she conitues to call me a slut now like in jr.high and i am really sick and tired of it. I know I'm not a slut but what do i do about this girl thinking i am. Should I bea... (82 words)

I want out of this relationship but I don't know how to break it too her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, i have posted for help 2 times so far and both i have not added ALL the information, and iwant to be 100% sure about my next moves. AND I AM SORRY THAT THIS MAY BE VERY LONG!, but please read it all and help. ive been with my fiancee for 3yrs now and been engaged for... (441 words)

My estranged wife wants me back now I have met someone new. Help!

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24 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been seperated for a year. I made it clear to her that I had no choice but to move on. I tried for 9mos to get her back and she said no at every turn. I recently met someone. My wife started looking into the divorce papers and also found out about the ... (123 words)

Is there a happy romance after splitting from the only girl I've ever loved?

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24 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - 20, is there a happy romance after the only girl I've ever loved? Hi. I've dated who I thought was the love of my life since I was 16. She's the only girl I've ever been out with, and the only girl I have wanted to be with. She has broken up with me, deciding she wants to "li... (193 words)

She wrote love notes to her ex and I found them! How do I forget this and move on with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I need a little advice... My partner and I have been living together for 5mths now. When we first met we were both fresh out of previous relationships - I had been dating someone for 2mths and she had been in a relationship for 2yrs. I have 3 children to my pr... (590 words)

Will he cheat on me?

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24 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 5 years now and part of me truly beleaves that he loves me and part does not. I was in a very bad marriage. He says that he does not watch porn or looks at other woman on the computer but i have seen where he has been ... (99 words)

He wants me when he is not with me and I don't know what to do because he is my best friend.

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24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have been friends since we were in the 4th grade; from 4th grade to 8th we had a little thing for each other but never really did anything about it. Now in 12th grade we are closer than ever. We are a group of best friends and him and I are the closest.... (420 words)

What are the most valid reasons for divorce?? Or should you never give up??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) age 51-59 - What are the biggest ,valid reason for divorce? -Living in a miserable marriage -cheating -lying -constant arguing -too absorbed in work -abuse -no fun -not initiating -not very passionate about their kids life -lack of sex -not feel loved So I wonder how many of this suppose... (146 words)

13 and havent had my period...is this normal??

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24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 13 and i haven't had my period yet. Is this bad? also even if i haven't had my period masturbation is still ok right?... (26 words)

She swears undying love for me but I have seen her have cybersex. Am I being unreasonable??

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24 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Can anyone tell me why people go to dating sites as single if they don't want to meet anyone? Over almost 2 years me and my partner have had several upsets due to her going on date and flirt sites. No matter what is said the truth is i am always coming across traces of thing... (242 words)

Does it mean he doesn't like me if he doesn't call??

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24 January 2008 (F) - I met a great guy at a party on Saturday. He goes to my school but I really don't know much about him except that he's cute, funny, plays guitar and is flirty. I thought we hit it off and when I went home I couldn't sleep, because of him. I called him on Monday and then t... (160 words)

He slept with someone else and hurt me...is this a sign I need to run faraway??

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24 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there, I was madly in love with my ex bf. We called it quits last month because he told me cheated and also because the long distance was too hard for him. So I let him go as he wanted. We continued to keep in touch via phone, talking almost every other day. We flirted,... (329 words)

I am scared to lose him!

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24 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy really like each other but were not going out at the moment because he is under massive stress having to do with a very, very bad childhood and now he is having to deal with some issues. but he has assurred me that he does like me very much and he wants to be ... (275 words)