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writes:I really need help!I have been seeing a guy, with a girlfriend for the last year. It all started up about two yrs ago with just texting eachother then it got to other levels. The guy im seein is someone i work with and is 20years old. he says he wants to be with me and its just the fact that im goin to college then uni and he doesnt think it will work and doesnt want the heartache...i really wanna believe him, however i think he is messing with my head. hes always touchy with me at work and hes always tellin me he wants to be with me. a lot of people know about it but he says he doesnt care. please help me im fed up of feeling so low and like im a dissapointment. any advice will be appreciated.
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reader, kittycat_159 +, writes (3 January 2008):
 It is going to be really hard to keep on working where you work already if this boy is working there also. Five years is a long time, but friends are forever and you can still keep in contact with them. If i were you, i would probably find another job similar to the one you have already. You can still keep in contact with the people from your old job and also meet some new people.
You dont need this guy and trust me, you will get over him. I know it's really hard but you need to stop thinking about him and imagine yourself in the future, without him and picture what you want and what your goals are. There are so many guys out there. Guys that know what they want and treat you like a woman. Why would you want to be with this man when he messes you around like this?
Imagine what he would be like in a relationship!
Like they say, success is the best type of revenge!! x
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reader, Complicated*One +, writes (2 January 2008):
Complicated*One is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both, but what can i do to get over him??? i was gunna change jobs but i get on so well with the people their as i have worked there five years and their like a second family to me. i really do love him but i dont wanna keep waiting around for him. i wanna be with a decent guy but i cant be unless im over him. please help!
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reader, kittycat_159 +, writes (2 January 2008):
i totally agree with the above. if he really liked you he would have finished it with his girlfriend and he still wouldnt be making moves on you! this boy is a pig!! i think that it was really unfair of him to lead you on and to continue doing it really takes the piss. let his girlfriend have him. you dont need it!
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reader, steph.x +, writes (2 January 2008):
chuck him hes using you and makin you look like a fool, if he liked you he wouldnt still have his girlfriend a bit he feels like the cat that got the cream with a girlfriend and you
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