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writes:ok, so i broke up with my ex 5 months ago. we met each other through church. now i find out he might be going out with another girl (one of my closest friends) from my church. i have no problem with him dating again (i already have a new boyfriend). but i think its going to be weird if i see them together. i always thought they had a chemistry more than me and my ex had. how should i act around them? becuase its going really awkward when im around them. i have no problem with the two of them together, but its just going to be really weird.also, do you think my relationship with either of them will change becuase of it?
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 We all have to live different experiences in life that will make us mature and grow. If they have a lot of chemistry together and you already moved on, give them a chance to do the same. It is always kinda weird to see an ex with a new love, however, that feeling eventually changes once you get used to the idea.
Let them be and feel happy... hopefully you have also found love in someone else's arms!
Good luck!
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Just Act Normal Around Them. If You Change The Way You Act Around Them They Might Feel You Don't Want Them To Be Together. Whenever You See Someone You Had A Relationship With It's Always Going To Be Awkward and Weird... You Just Have To Try and Act The Same. I Don't Think Your Relationship With Either Of Them Will Change...The Only Way It Could Really Change Is If You Say Something Against Them Being Together Or They Say Something Against You.xx
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