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writes:hey um i like this girl and am kind of sure that she likes me. i wanna ask her out (as in "please be my girlfriend?" or "are you interested in going to a movie with me?" at school on Jan. 7 so i'd need the advice by then. Anyway, this question is a follow-up of one if posted so here is a recap I've know who she was for a while ( being in the same middle school chorus for 2 years and going to her mom and dad's holiday parties) she's Quiet/Spacey a lot but when she talks shes either intense in a sarcastic way or funny. i know she likes anime a little but not much else about her. i think one reason she's quiet is because we're really acward around each other and is another reason why i'm pretty sure she likes me. I have no idea how to ask so please respond by Jan 7th Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Ok you can either ask her out face to face,email,text ring her, but dont ask our right "hey wanna be my girlfriend" be subtle as her out to a movie or round to yours to watch a movie do something she likes, its always best to build up a frienship before asking someone out right.
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reader, solviva +, writes (2 January 2008):
lol yer it does sound like she likes you. I think the best way to ask her out for you and her is to be casual about askin her to the cinema like get talkin to her some how then just bring it up in a conversation that way most of the tensions gone from you and her and if she says no or im busy (she wont do but if she does) you can just carry on talking then at least youve got to no her more and you can try another time. When you do take her to the cinema make shure you dont go home strait after you need to get to know her some more and mabe even get a kiss. Remember that especially at your age first dates can be quite arquard so dont feel bad if thers any silence she is feeling the same as you are. I still sometimes take girls on first dates to the cinema and i generally go for the kiss when waching the film it eases the tension.
Good luck mate
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): I think you should ask her out face-to-face. I know that you said that she was quiet but you need to show her that you mean it - and its more difficult to show your feelings through a computer!!!
Perhaps talk to her on the phone if you don't see her that often because even then she can hear YOUR voice... Or perhaps ask her on the phone if you'd like to meet up before then, ask her out, and then you can go to the movies at that time??...
...But don't expect an answer immediatly. She might not expect it at all and might need time to think about it. Let her have that time, be understanding and nice to her and hopefully things will work well between you.
Best of luck x x x
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