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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello there, I have been married 2 years back and my partner is not too much comfortable giving me oral sex. she does not even want to kiss my penis. Can someone guide me how shall i encourage her to do the same? She is really a very simple and cute girl and therefore, i dont think any forceful action would permit. She feels that because i urinate from the same part, it is disgusting. I would love her to give me an oral sex; however, i dont want her to do it forcefully or to just to keep me happy. she should enjoy giving the same and recognise that giving oral sex is the part of love making. For avoidance of doubt, I will mention that I do give her regular oral sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): Maybe she needs to be encouraged with words when you make love. You could stand near her if she is seated so that she can be comfortable with her face near to this area of your body? It can be daunting, especially if she is unsure of what to do or how to please you. She may have had a bad experience before or is perhaps frightened of how it might feel for her or even taste. Perhaps she should try just gently licking or kissing your penis rather than trying an all out BJ? Maybe using food or something tasty on her she would place the same thing on you? Telling her how much you love her and what you would love (small steps first) could help. Ultimately though it is incredibly important for her not to feel forced into anything. You don't sound like that kinda guy anyway so good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): If she doesn't want to do it, leave it at that and respect her wishes. Imagine the boot was on the other foot - would you like her to coerce you into giving her oral sex if you didn't want to?
Concentrate on activities that you BOTH enjoy!
Phil
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