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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know who to ask out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well im having a problem with choosing who i want to ask out and i was wondering what your thoughts were. There is GIRL 1 who liked me for a long time but she was kinda flirty so i decided to go out with my ex gf until we broke up a few months ago and now GIRL 1 is talkin... (258 words)

I think he is still in love with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my bf for about a year now and throughout the relationship he has always had contact with his ex, i know i shouldnt of but i read his emails and found some sexual input from both persons, even worse he got with her a few months back and i just found ... (122 words)

I can't stop thinking about her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi can anyone help me im sick of feeling alone and depressed most of the time i split up with my gf first week in december after she cheated on me shes had 2 bf since yet why carnt i stop thinking bout her plz help... (47 words)

My husband doesn't trust me! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - in the pass, i have done something unforgiven! i am very regretful of it! i wouldnt let him down again! never! we got back together, we had a baby and got married! he works away, and i rearly go out! occasionally when i do go out, he dont approve it! he says im disrespecting ... (83 words)

I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together for 6 years. She stood by me ... (372 words)

What do people think of the pill for contraception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seriously thinking about contraception lately and i'm not sure which way to go. I'm going to make a family planning appointment to talk things through with a professional but i'd like some opinions from other people too. I'd like to go on the pill, but i'm not sure... (175 words)

I want to move abroad with my daughter. Where do I stand legally in regards to her father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i want to take my daughter to live abroad.Iwas not married to the father however he is on the birth certificate,how do i stand legally?... (26 words)

Do Mum's appreciate honesty about the sexual behaviors of their teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know all about different types of contraception and the effects and side-effects and popularity of all different types of contraception. I'm trying to be very open with my mum about everything but obviously not too much detail and i was just wondering, for all the mums out... (107 words)

My gf shouts at her 10 year old daughter! How do I tell my gf to stay calm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend shouts at her daughter when she's been bad. As you'd expect her daughter ends up crying. I don't like it either. I'm not a parent but if I ever think she's not behaiving I turn her TV off or something like that and try my best to stay calm. I've told my g... (126 words)

Pregnant and worried..that I may be having a miscarriage! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just over 8 weeks pregnant. I've had alot of dischargey stuff since finding out I'm pregnant and read alot of women do. But today I noticed it's going a beige colour and I don't think this is normal and it's starting to worry me, could I be having a miscarriage? ... (182 words)

How can I get him interested again and spice things up for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for 7 years now.i love him so much and i still really find him attractive.he claims he hasnt went off me but the last time we made love was many months ago.we do get on apart from the odd tiff.i have stopped trying to seduce him as the knockbacks tho ... (91 words)

My old friend has a wife and child now, but I love him from 10 years ago and want him back now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been friends with this man since we were 15yrs old we are both now almost 40. I always knew he was attracted to me, i was also but was always involved with someone else and he was so painfully shy he never tried or said anything. The day before I was to marry he called ... (440 words)

Help me clarify this...Did I break up with him or did he break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I know it doesn't matter now, but I just want to know if in fact I was the one who broke up with my ex fiance. The day I left his house (broke up with him) I asked him if he could start paying for his own toiletries b/c I couldn't afford paying for that and all the food. He was ... (399 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

- I've started to see a guy I met about 3 weeks ago, it's still in the casual stages but i'm hoping that it might be more. We have been honest with eachother.. both saying that we are happy to stay single for nowand not push things too far. But i get the feeling I like h... (213 words)

I stopped chasing him and being nice. Now he's saying that I'm a mean person. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. basically, i like my flatmate at uni. He knows how i feel through a stupid mistake. however, since we came back after uni, i have kind of changed towards him - i am a lot meaner, don't do things for him anymore and don't chase after him generally. he has noticed this and ... (194 words)

How do I get over the stupid things I did when I was depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A year ago I sunk into depression and had to take 6 months off college to recover. I'm sure other people who have suffered from depression would be able to relate when I say 'I wasn't myself'. During this time I did some incredibly stupid things, the worst of which I'm still ... (234 words)

Girlfriend's past involved threesomes, 2x rape, or was this just 2 big mistakes? What am I to believe?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there!! I have this little problem with my girlfriend. Only recently after her many lies she told me that she had two times on two different ocassions sex with 2 guys. But it gets much more complicated than this. The first time it happened with a guy she dated but sh... (729 words)

Stressed out because my army guy hardly contacts me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

- Im getting really stressed about my boyfriend of two years. He is in the army and been real busy at work recently but have hardly had any contact with him for a week. Last sunday he said he couldn't wait to see me again and called me sexy but hardly heard anything since why not ... (76 words)

She asked me to the movies...can I kiss her in cinema?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - a girl asked me out to go watch a film. Were friends and I think she likes me becoz whenever I see her when I'm with friends I don't always say hi to her and she has a fit about it later on saying why I ignored her. She talks to me alot. Anyway I like her too and thinking can I ... (111 words)

Boy troubled, sex involved...:(

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going out with this boy for about a year... it was great but ended we never did get that close, sexually wise, only a bit of foreplay.. Since weve broken up ( about a year later ) we cant keep our hands of eachother.. We know theres something there for eachother we just ... (136 words)

What should I do for the best.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my partner Julie for seven years and we have a son aged five. We have been very happy for most of the times but the last 6 weeks have been hell. Julie started drinking heavily just before xmas. Her attitude towards her family and me has changed b... (324 words)

What are our chances to have a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am 38-39 years and desperately want a child with my new found love and husband to be shortly. He is 38 years, but I think he has a low sperm count since he keeps taking supplements like zinc and folic acid and even prepared to buy other medication to boost his sperm. I ... (89 words)

What wome love to hear during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Men love to hear women moaning, shouting and complimenting his tool and how good he is performing...what about women? What do they like to hear while making sex? What things turn her on more and make her cum faster? Need to read women's replies plz :-) ... (55 words)

My teacher said he wouldn't say no?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there are loads of questions about teachers n students but hey here goes! Well on friday nyt just gone i was out with my best friend and we was in this pub and all the teachers were out drunk! There was this one that i really liked and he wasnt there! But his best mat... (200 words)

Whats going on through his head?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey i have to talk to someone or im either going to cry or scream or do something stupid. Argh so here goes. First off Im going to tell u the story of how 4 and a half months of my life get flushed down the toilet in a single weekend, my bf lives near london, we have... (865 words)

I need help before ruining my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help before I ruin my relationship!My girlfriend has lived life to the fullest and I've done nothing.This makes me so jealous that I won't even let her tell me anymore about her past.I also get very jealous of the comments she gets on her blog even though the ones that ... (279 words)

Haven't spoken to my family in 10 years! Now my Aunt is trying to contact me...advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i haven't spoken to my family in over 10yrs and since new year an aunt of mine has been trying to get in touch with me through a private detective. When i was 17 i realised i was a lesbian and started a relationship with a girl at school, we got caught and my family being ... (186 words)

What should I do? I kept my part of the bragin but he never kept his...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, he was the best thing in my life i did everything for him. This year our relationshiop I feel is falling apart because what people say about us really hurts our feelings. On the first day of the second term he told me to follow him so th... (252 words)

Shocked and hurt that he suggested, I clear off my huge debt!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for a year and just recently we bought a home together. I came to the relationship with £7000 debt on my credit card and he agreed that this should go on our mortgage as the interest rate was cheaper. We were talking abou this recently and he ... (293 words)

I love her a lot but she won't have me back and is giving me mixed signals. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody.hope you can help .now were do i start? ok i recently broke up with my ex gf because we kept on arguing.the arguing for me was bcoz i felt rejected all the time.she on the other hand due to pof was very irritable,had zero sexual desire, very insecure about how she ... (408 words)

Am I talking too much to his parents about his affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of ten years had an affair with a woman for 10 months. She works 2 blocks from his office and they see each other daily. I caught him and he confessed and so did she. Both of them told me that it was over and that it was merely sexual -- not love. However, I have ... (387 words)

How do I stop the abuse, I inflict on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has cheated on me a couple times in the past but has completely changed all that but ever since it happened i have become incredibly abusive towards him. any time i get upset i hit him til i feel better, how do i stop this? i love him so much so i dont understand ... (64 words)

Why would a condom hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age - i tried on a condom (i dont know why) i found in my brothers room it kind of hurt when it was stretching and ive never pulled my foreskin back fully before, please tell me if this is wrong... (41 words)

Valentine's gift ideas for a guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - What could I get my male valentine? I don't have a lot of money, but I want to get him something really nice. He likes bears and things (yes, even though he's a guy) but what else is there? I'm not sure what girls get guys for valentines day... Any ideas?... (53 words)

Want to give it a shot

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've known this guy all my life. Our parents were good friends but then when we started our different schools we never saw each other. Our parents sent each other christmas cards but we never met up as families. We didn't really know each other then so nothing really ... (182 words)

Never knew there was a problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so Confused! Nearly 2 years ago my ex of 8 years walked out on me and our son of then aged 5 with no warning. (My world just feel apart) We never argued and I thought we was really happy-even trying for our 2nd child. I just dont know what went wrong. He came home from... (258 words)

What not to wear

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

- Hi im going to a linkin park concert later on tonight what would you advise me to wear? Because I dress like a chav and thats not a good look for a concert of that genre. Any ideas?... (38 words)

Breaking on through to the other side

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like i have/going to miss out on so much in life because of my shyness. i find it hard to bring up conversations, and most of the time in social situations i just stand there, not talking. however, when im with my frends, i can be so talkative and silly. its like i... (93 words)

How does one fake being confident, when in reality s/he is shy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a quite shy person. expecially with new people, i never know what to talk about. people always say fake it till you make it well i dont know how how can i fake being confident/outgoing? xoxo... (59 words)

Mind games have me nuts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I started dating/talking to "Bob" although we never labeled it a relationship both of were extremely int... (528 words)

Have been engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. Would a relationship between us be legal/moral?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, here is my situation…I am a college student, with a loving family. Recently I have found myself engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. He is not married, and we have so much in common, we started out as close friends, but I feel a change in our ... (127 words)

Should I divorce to see what happens with my best friend, whom I have always loved? We're both unhappy in our present situations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) age - I am totally in love with my best friend. We have known each other since we were teenagers. We dated in our teens and were each others first loves. When we broke up, we remained best friends. He moved away in his early 20's and got on with his life. And I mine, but we ... (785 words)

Huckabee's all wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok.. This is kind of a touchy question, and I'm not even sure if I should be asking this or not. But I'm going to anyway.. just cuz I have very strong feelings about this. (as would anyone and their religion.) I'm LDS (a mormon) and there's a lot of publicity and r... (249 words)

He asks for the girl's number but does not call in the following week. What strategy is this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - if a guy asks u for ur phone number and you give it to him but he doesn't call you in over a week is there something wrong?... (28 words)

Ok, what do guys really prefer in the way of hair, down there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was just wondering do guys really care about how much hair we have down there? and if so what do u prefer? brazilian?trimmed?etc..... (25 words)

Wondering if I'm fantasizing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

- My bf and I had been together for about 4 years now. We've known each other for more than that, but only be seriously dating for that time. We've had some really bumps on the road, and I had always been the one trying to salvage our relationship. However, since the begining ... (190 words)

When we are close, my teacher gets physically hesitant and somewhat nervous. Is it a sign he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I go to a private coed boarding school. Teachers and students are encouraged to become close, and we will often visit each other at each other's homes to say hi and whatnot. I'm close with a lot of my teachers, but I find myself attracted to one in particular. He'... (311 words)

Am I being played?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating the same guy for almost a year now and slowly over the last 6 months or so i've been discovering many hurtfull signs of him being missleading and even plain out lying to me. Such as having hundreds of pictures of his ex gf and numerous other girls that he has ... (188 words)

Is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Write now I am having a problem with my girlfriend drinking while she is studying abroad in England.I don't understand why she is doing it. She did drink her before when her boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend, pressured her into drinking. She didn't like what happened or how she ... (192 words)

She's a two timing gal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, we had a arugement about a month ago and from what i thought we resolved it. Later i found out she was cheating on me with her ex boyfriend, through this whole ordeal i agreed to stay with her even though she was dating the ... (206 words)

My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcohole and sex. How can I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcahole, and sex. I;m verry worried about him. I love him like a brother and he used to be a good kid. I want to interfere but I don't know how to without ruining our freindship. Please someone help me help him.... (55 words)

I go down on her but she won't repay the favour. Contemplating break up!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 n want my gf to give me head but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer. and shes done it b4 with her ex and sum random guy when she was drunk and blacked out just that the fact that shes done it b4 and she suppo... (140 words)

Turned on secretly seeing wife with another man

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i saw my wife having sex with another man. they didn't see me and i watched until they finished. i didn't get angry, i got turned on. i want to tell my wife, but will she be disgusted with me? i really wanted to join in when i was watching, what would be the chance that ... (96 words)

Confusion regarding anal sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dose anal sex hurt? i kno people that say it dose! and that say it dosent? i wanna try it but in scared.... someone help plz... (34 words)

Arranged marriage ruining my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am very sad crying all the tears in my body, didnt realise i could cry that much.. they just keep flooding my cheeks.. i am in love with my boyfriend, in 6months i am leaving him and going back to my own country to get married, arranged... i cannot do it. i am on a stud... (237 words)

Is liking a 13 year old girl wrong, since I am 16?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her ... (47 words)

Is it okay to date around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - .. Im in a long-term friendship/relationship with a girl from West Africa. Is okay to have a couple more female friends from my local area also for adult fun/companionship?... (29 words)

Is she causing trouble?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a new attractive guy. My one friend who currently has a boyfriend said she was making it her mission to find me a guy. After a night of hanging out with the new cute guy, she asks me if I like him, and if I would ever date him. I tell her yes. The next day she tells me ... (116 words)

Love as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Who ever sed guys were simple was soooo wrong. On messenger he says he loves me, then after says as a friend. What is up with that??? Are guys just afraid to show their true feelings???... (38 words)

Changes in our Long Distance Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - .. Me and my gf from Ghana, West Africa have been in communication with each other for fifteen months now. I tried to go over to Ghana, West Africa in November last year. Anyway, when I got there, the Ghanian Government refused me entry and sent me back to the UK. I did meet ... (183 words)

Your points on the happiness spectrum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) age 51-59 - What were the most happy moments in your life so far? And what were the most unhappy ones? ... (21 words)

Life's Great Mysteries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - If we are so Smart and Great why there is Pain Hunger and wars on Earth ?AND WHERE IS THE GREAT LOVE THAT WE ALLWAS TALK ABOUT ?THANK YOU... (29 words)

I feel like I don't belong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I wnt to run away im always getting the blame and feel like i dont belong where can i go and who can i talk im only 13 help me x... (31 words)

Drug addicted, tying to have a life and still caring.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age - I have a very bad situation in my life. More than one drug addict children, but they are adults, but still my kids. Is there anybody who had been there. They might die, its terrible to say that but they were very close many times. Both of them over 20. It was very painful to ... (128 words)

I'd like to gain knowledge from women and be able to help give advice to guys

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm Jamie Williams.. (yes that's only a stage name on here so I can gain some credibility.. it is not my real name.) I'm a 17-yr-old male and I live in the states. My biggest pet-peeve is the typical alpha-male. They think they're all hot, and all they do... (151 words)

I've fallen for him all over again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i liked him for ages. we spent the whole summer together. at the end of summer he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said yes. but he ended it mere days later saying he wanted to make me happy. he didnt speak to me for ages saying i ruined his chances with another girl. recently ... (102 words)

What exactly is my ex doing? Playing with my head, being friendly or maybe wanting me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

27 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well cut a long story short, me and my serious boyfriend split up just under 5months ago (his choice i was heartbroken). He did some bad things to me since we split e.g got with (snogged) one of my ex best mates and sent me a photo of it, posted a video on youtube of him and ... (493 words)