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writes:Heya againI posted a question yesterday about my girlfriend being distant from me i think the title was any ideas as to why my gf seems to be ignoring me?? (i got some helpfull answers thanks).Anyway i decided to talk to her and find out what her problem was but she just replied by saying she thort i was goin to break up with her thats why shes being funny. For some reason i just didnt believe her so i asked her again later and she said she was scarred of getting close to me because she didnt want to get hurt again. The trouble is i still dont believe her and i dont no why because that is what i was thinking it could have been. Im meeting her tonight still dont no what to do yet any ideas for the date lol. But i need to know how i can get her to open up to me and have her feal that she can trust me.Idont want to break up over something that mite just be in my or her head. I like her to much. Thanks for reading x Reply to this Question
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reader, WHY WONT SHESHOW SHELOVESME12  +, writes (5 August 2008):
I have the same problem, my girlfriend loves me i know everybody says im too young for love but im not and neither is my girlfriend she loves me and I know it but it hard for her to express it I don't want to pressure her but I don't want to hold on if there nothing to hold on too it hurts to see everybody else happy but not us and I just want her and I to be happy but how is it going to work it if there nothing to plow the love back in are relationship texting and i.m.ing isn't enough to keep a relationship strong we need more communication and i dont know how to spark the conversation up to were she is comfortable with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): Hi, listen I have this same exact problem with my girlfriend. It's hard for her to open up to me. But I do believe she really did have some bad experiences, she wrote me a letter telling me that she doesn't want to get hurt. I am very inexperienced with relationships. She doesn't talk to me much, i try and talk to her, but it never takes. When I am with her and her friends she hardly acknowledges me. I tell people this and they say dump her she doesn't care about you. But if your in the same boat I am then you know that thats not true, she cares for me very very much, shes told me, this one of the only time shes opened up to me. She just has issues getting close to people. I have yet to bring this up. I think you are the only other person I have found when looking for help that will understand what I'm talking about and visa versa.
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reader, Sparkly_Stars +, writes (3 January 2008):
 You sound like such a lovely guy, and I really think that if you just give her a bit of space, she will come to you when shes ready. Good luck and try and relax x x
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Hi,
I agree with the last poster, dont keep asking her. If its meant to be and all that stuff. But you trying to force the issue is making you sound a bit desperate, even though your not.
How about Bowling, then it will be to lively and to loud to have any meaningfull conversations.
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reader, solviva +, writes (2 January 2008):
solviva is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks x
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Don't Force Her To Say Something She Doesn't Want To. That Could Cause You & Your Girlfriend To Break Up If You Carry On Bringing Up The Same Subject When She Feels Uncomfortable Talking To You About It. Just Give Her Time & If She Wants To Talk To You About It She Will. Until Then You'll Have To Go Along With What She's Saying & Hopefully It Will Sort Itself Out =]
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