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I'm 12 and ready for sex but I don't know if my partner is

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Question - (2 January 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2008)
A male Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i am 12 and are ready for sex but i don't know if my partner is what should i do? Should i just go up to her and ask her

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A female reader, doger fast United States +, writes (21 June 2008):

all right if you think your ready for sex your kiding your self...what I'm saying is its not the best choice. use your brain and do the right thing and if you already have had sex make sure your partener is not pregnet

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

WAY TOO YOUNG KID!!!!

I think that's just the male genitalia talking. All I'm saying is don't think with your dick.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

i agree, have you ever felt like. last year you thought you knew a lot then this year you knew a lot more!.well it's going to continue to feel like that for the next SEVERAL years. seriously i can't tell you what it is that clicks in your brain later on around 16 when people gerneral start doing it. either you do it or dont. but you'll find out that you DON"T need it, and won't desier it as much.i'm not kidding! okay just think of when our 20 or so. and your going to get married. wouldn't you think she would be disapointed that you didnt' wait for her?. and if you think that your going to marry this girl at 12!!! your saddly mistaken! you have SOOO MUCH growing up to do. as do I.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntYour 12? And you want sex but are unsure that your partner wants it? At 12? You have to be joking you need to WAIT your way to young to be having sex or be thinking about trying to get someone else to have sex with you hang on to your virginity theres no way you or your body are ready for sex, imagine getting someone pregnant or getting an STI or HIV at 12 bye bye life theres no way you could deal with that at such a young age.Just stick to dong it yourself its a lot safer and a lot less responsibility

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A female reader, Wordsmith Ireland +, writes (2 January 2008):

Hey mate,

I know you're not a child, and you're capable of knowing what you want in life. But sex is serious business; it's about more than just the physical act. Wanting to have sex doesn't mean you're ready for it. If anything were to happen, as accidents often do, like your condom broke and she became pregnant, would you be ready to become a father, get married and look after the baby? I take it the answer to that is no. If you're not ready to handle the consequences of accidents like that, then you're definitely not ready for sex. No matter how careful you ate, pregnancy can still happen. I hope you make the right decision mate.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

Your PARTNER? At the age of 10-12? Boy, you've got some growing up to do yet.

I refuse to give advice of this kind to babies.

Phil

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A female reader, loops United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2008):

Ill state the obvious but you are way under the legal age for sex, you can have sexual activity without having sex and I think considering how young you are having sex is a very bad idea. You need more time to realise if you are with the right person, thats minus the fact its illegal.

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