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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have some growing up to do...so how do you go from a spoiled child to acting like a responsible adult?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I seem to always get along and spend a lot of time with each other. Last night out of the blue he told me that he loved me and didn't want to break up with me, but lately he had something on his mind. He was worried because we hardly agree on anything. This ... (153 words)

He has a gf! But I love him and just cant let him go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this is Taylor well my question is ..... i have been talking to this guy for a while and we have been messin around for a long time and he just got a girlfriend not to long ago. he didnt tell me about it until later on but i tried to refuse to like mess with him or what ... (179 words)

Should I wait the 2 months for her to leave her current bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i been liking a girl for 2 months now she says she loves me back but she has a bf says she will leave him for me after 2 months if i wait for her i said i would but the problem is i cant wait because of past experiences she wont leave him now because of her past "sh... (90 words)

Having problems in our relationship due to his immaturity. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this is going to make me sound awful, but here goes. My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 5 years now, we got together when we were quite young and he never really seemed to mature and we're having a lot of problems because of this. ... (49 words)

I feel our relationship is based on lies and inconsistancies! How can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I am really confused. I got together with my boyfriend after he had just seperated from his wife. It was a very difficult and nasty seperation.(and contiues to be a nightmare) We have been together for over 3 years now and although initially he made me feel so special as if i ... (400 words)

Should I tell her I still love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - MY girlfriend and i broke up in november 07, our break up was due to the distance and it was getting a bit difficult.I was still in college and she was starting to work. Our break up was a very calm one, we broke up over the phone. I havent seen her since the break up, but we ... (178 words)

Is it legal for me to leave home?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

- Im wondering because my best friends mum and dad are planning to move to california and they have invited me to go with them. Is it legal for me to leave my house is my mum agrees to it? Please tell me anything you know on it thanks... (48 words)

Lovesick for an old flame! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice on what will help as I've tried everything I can think of. When I was 15, I fell in love with someone my age and we stayed/lived together for 5 years, even got engaged. He loved me alot, we did everything possible in bed and were inseperable.I am a beautifu... (160 words)

I'm calm one minute and then I snap at people! What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im always snapping at people and i dont no why and it upsets me but then i can suddaly be hyper then calm it really upsets me dose any1 no why this might be? thanks bye... (49 words)

Was I fooled by this man I met off a dating site?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am worried I may have been fooled by a man i met through a dating site. We went out five times, after every other date he mailed me and said thank you. He stated he wasnt looking for one night stands etc However after this last one I have heard nothing. We slep... (181 words)

Pregnancy concern!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hy i had sex on the 10th and 11th and ovulated on the 13th and i wanted to know seen as im 20. how likley it would be if i would be pregnant. thanks 4 reading and thanks 4 helping.... (41 words)

I don't get it?! does he like me or not?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 14....ever since i broke up with my boyfriend....some guy i really like starts to follow me around..like today at the end of the school day i went to my locker and i saw the guy i like coming so i was walkin to my ex's(hes my friend)locker, the guy i like followed me ... (216 words)

My friends say I am pretty but when I see myself-I see an ugly freak! Whatis wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 years old and i think there is somthing wrong with me. my friend said i am one of the prettiest girls in the year but when i look at my self i see a ugly baby faced freak i hate everything about my self my lips my nose my eyes everything!!!!!! when i talk to my frein... (156 words)

Confused here! Does my flatmate like me?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. I am so confused. Does my flatmate like me??? Basically we have been living together for about 4 months and I really like him. However, about a month ago he found a note under my bed saying that i liked him and so now he knows how i feel abou him. However, since then he ... (187 words)

Her allergies are getting to me and it's affecting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has recently been diagnosed as being allergic . . . to nearly everything. In fact, when she asked the doctor for a list of everything she is allergic too, his answer was it would be easier to give her a list of what she isnt allergic too. We have been togeth... (212 words)

I'm not in love with her and she just won't take no for an answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i hope someone can help. well, i've met this girl quite a while back, she's very attractive, but, there's a problem. I'm not in love with her. And I've told her this many times already. But she just won't take no for an answer. she always assumes i like her and its ... (160 words)

I am so angry--he 's married and I am tempted to tell his wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age - I broke up with my "boyfriend" three weeks ago after spending three months fighting with him about how he lied to me about being married. He told me after I told him that I loved him. I'm not stupid. He lied very well and I'm way too trusting and think the best of people. My ... (136 words)

He's divorcing me and with a new woman...so why is he calling me for phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would my soon to be ex be calling me for phone sex when he is supposedly into a new woman and relationship and has asked me for a divorce? He lives in the UK and we returned to the US and he continues to call me, even from her house! Help please= what does this mean?... (59 words)

I made out with my sister's boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my older sister has been going out with her boyfriend for 5 1/2 years already,so her boyfriend has grown on me ,hes the only one that i tell my secrets to. this past christmas when my sisters boyfriend and i were left alone together i could tell that he was trying to get closer ... (140 words)

He does oral on me but..he stops so quickly. What should I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i give my boyfriend oral all the time but when ever he starts to pleasure me he only does it for a few minutes then stops before i have time to orgasm any tips on hints i could give him? thanks =)... (44 words)

Too much to handle- boyfriend/kids/me.....jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so here goes! This is going to seem somewhat complicated: So I've had this boyfriend for a little over 5 months now. Over these past five months, I have fallen totally in love with him, without a doubt in my mind. So I was going to tell him this over New Years, which... (444 words)

Ladies problem's, Need some advice Girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Can someone help me please I have started getting hair growth on my chin area and marks that are going all black with the hair growing through them I use tweezers to get the hairs out but I feel I am doing this every day now. Any suggestions what will help? should I try a fa... (73 words)

We're just newly dating a month---so what do I do for valentines day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for a short while now, by valentines day we will have been seeing eachother for just a bit over a month. We get on really well and I can really see myself falling in love with him in the not too distant future. We spend our time just cuddling, talking to ... (272 words)

He admitted to cheating one time...how can I ever trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old with a 8 year old son not by my boyfriend and a 17 month old baby that is by my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years and 2 months. Everything was great in the beginning. He meet a girl in New Jersey through his work and they were partners for a week's ... (428 words)

Why did the pic of my ex and his gf...bother me soo much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend- we broke up (I did the breaking) THREE years ago. I was with another guy for two and a half years! Still hung up on him. So, why did the picture of my former boyfriend with his girlfriend upset me? It really got me down! WHY! I ... (100 words)

Not sure if I should marry him as he doesn't want kids and I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i stay with a guy that says we can get married, after years of saying he never would, as long as i never trick him into having children. He says that i do then he'll leave me and the child on our own, it's not like he hates children but he had a bad relationship with his ... (172 words)

I like him a lot! should I come clean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so here's the thing. I'm 20 and I'm in love with someone who is 26 and lives with someone already. I see him at my workplace so I can't really do anything about being in love with him, because I've never felt this strong attraction towards someone before. He has charisma, ... (216 words)

I always liked her sister...should I act on these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was in a relationship for 12 months and then we split, in that time i realised i had feelings for her sister, although i knew i could never act on these feelings. she ended our relationship and now its over i really want to act on the feelings i have for her sister, but ... (111 words)

If I take care of my divorce baggage and give her space...will my gf come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age - I have been with a women for 9 1/2 years and she just broke up with me and now I have some much hurt it is hard to deal with. I am no angel and have never finalized my divorce. She says that is not the reason. Her mom passed away 2 months ago and she is not happy and needs to ... (159 words)

Is it strange to not miss sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - when i make out i dont feel anything, even when im having sex.. i feel as if i could do with out it. I just broke up with my ex a couple of months ago, and all my friends keep asking me how im holding up with no sex. TO be honest i feel fine... i dont want sex and i dont miss ... (67 words)

I thought we were going to reunite, but she blocked me on messenger! Why would she do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age - i was in what i thought was a serious relationship for over a year, with a woman, that i had a relationship 10 years earlier, which lasted almost 2 years. as time when by after the break up, which came as shocking surprise, i moved on with my life, but about a year later i ran ... (231 words)

Any polite way to tell a friend she should not post semi-nude photos in the Internet?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age - Is there any polite way to tell a friend that she shouldn't be posting pictures of herself, 53, in Lingerie on her facebook page?... (24 words)

How can I back out of this Mess I caused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently meet a friend of the family and we became close and he is 18 years older than me, we slept together last week and he has a girl friend and a baby but there been rumours going around about us but we have denied it and stopped it happening any advice what i can do to ... (64 words)

How can I break it off with my very 'dependant' girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to leave my girlfriend but she's too dependant on me. I don't think she'll be able to cope. She says her life has never been as happy as it is with me and I've turned her life around. She says I've helped her get off drugs, move to a nice area, looked after her son, b... (172 words)

We split up and he wouldn't talk to me when I saw him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i saw my ex bf earlier and he didnt even look at me or talk, stayed a few mins then left. even his mate was looking at me like he was going to talk. it did kind of upset me that he didnt even say hi, he did say lets me mates when he called it off. am i just being stupid or does ... (82 words)

Should my friend get involved in broidering a date/call, since she acquainted us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - On Saturday night I went to my friends birthday party. Her friend Jordan was there and we hit it off. He is flirty, fun and pretty cute. I went home that night and couldn't sleep...I was thinking of him. I haven't liked someone like that in a really long time. He goes to my ... (115 words)

Husband has deadly secret! who can I turn to?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband is into child porn , he has these storage things not sure what they are called. you can save pictures and videos on them. went through them when he was at work found images and videos of child porn . what should i do i have 5 children... (50 words)

We've grown apart a bit. Is it normal to feel like this or is it a sign that something's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is probably going to sound ridiculous but I'll give it a shot. I'm really confused about my feelings for the man in my life. i know that infatuation and wild romances are temporary things and that being in love with someone is something that lasts even when all that ... (360 words)

Coughing up Blood! I am scared and not sure what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i know this is nothing to do with relationships but im worried about some health issues i have at the moment. Firstly i have spells where i keep coughing but its not a consistant cough its just now and again, the other day i started coughing and could taste blood at the back... (192 words)

Is it possible to be pregnant, after just fooling around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that i could be pregnant. At the weekend i stayed over my boyfriends and were messing around during the night and some sperm went onto my vaginal area. I asked a close friend weather you could get pregnant this way and she said no it had to enter the body, after he... (160 words)

Valentine's Day, Present Ideas, Help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, well as you know Valentines Day is coming up and i have NO idea what to get my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for a while and he said hes gonna get me something wonderful... but its so hard for me to figure out what to get a guy. Please Help. Thanks so m... (58 words)

Husband can't make his mind up! where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I split 4 months ago after 17 years of marriage. He had a lot of jealous insecurities none of which had any basis, and he left me after accusing me of wanting to attract men online, which was a complete fantasy just going on inside his own head. I subseque... (150 words)

Are there signs that she might be interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being nice? I’m sure she’s interested?... (1581 words)

Missing period! is my Health at risk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

- Im starting to get worried. Last month (dec) I never got my period and I havent gotten one this month yet either and its nearly over! Why could this be? I dont think I could be pregnant because the last time I had sex was a long time ago- 7 months and I have had all my perio... (117 words)

Am I spreading myself to thin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, im 20 nd hav had an on off gf for nearly 3 yr's now! My best frnd is extremly gud looking and 6 months ago asked me 2 participate in a 3-sum wit her bf...! He didnt see much action but myself and this friend had amazin sex. Ever sinc then we'v met up twice a week for ... (123 words)

Marriage has broken down! Hubby wont leave! advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my marriage has broken down but my husband says he wont leave the house he wont talk to me about what we should do . what can i do ?... (30 words)

My family is in a mess! I really need some advice.

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21 January 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Help!!!!! Me and my ex (father of my three children) are going to be participating in a mediation session. DIY style!! where two mutual friends will be the mediators. I want it to run as smoothly as possible but dont know what to discuss. I think that I should try to ju... (135 words)

55 Year old boyfriend that's married! Should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am seening this man of the age 55 im am 20yr old male i love him he treats me so right that is when he isnt with his second wife and kids all his kids are older than me i know it sounds weird but wat can i do should i just walk away or stick it out ... (59 words)

We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I wish for nothing more but to ... (112 words)

Problems with my Dad, I really need some advice please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My issue is the love-hate relationship I have with my dad. As good a man as he is and as much as he helps me and I love him, there is a side of me that doesn't trust him and that makes me "hate" him. My dad has a major chip on his shoulder about his life. He married a latin ... (614 words)

I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how.... (23 words)

Trouble having sex the first time! I need help please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have problems with my boyfriend because he wants to have sex with me but im a virgin, and when we try ito, it hurt's a lot, so i dont know what to do. And i dont know what to say on the phone with him coz he says that his the only one that has conversations and i dont. so ... (64 words)

Marriage problem - midlife crisis or age difference?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M)

age - Hi I have been with the same (only) woman for nearly 30 years - she is older than me and has children from her first marriage. I love her very dearly, but aargh! I'm experiencing a real sense of restlessness - looking at other women, wanting to have children, wanting to be mo... (289 words)

Is my friend being minipulated, or do I have this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

- Hi all, I have a question that I would like some veiws on. Yesterday afternoon, I met a friend and her husband in the pub and was invited to go back to dinner. This couple are our close friends,(he was left by his wife for another man) and we often socialise with them. The g... (470 words)

Which one of them do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a relationship for about 3 years.the last few months another man came to my life.the problem is that i don't want to lose neither of the two.both men are in love with me and so am i.What am i supposed to do?... (44 words)

I feel unloved and unfancied. What can I do to get him to take more interest in me emotionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Im 7 months pregnant and obviously a little hormonal occasionally! I have a very emotionally retarded husband anyway but now im pregnant i find it even harder to deal with. He's a very successful, business minded kind of guy so i guess he's very single minded to mak... (314 words)

Dating this guy could create problems with my ex...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

- My partner left me, after a four year relationship, nearly 7 months ago when our baby was less than a month old. My dilemma is that one of his best friends and I have feelings for each other and we don't know whether or not to act on them. We have known each other for four yea... (164 words)

Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but could be lots better And he do... (645 words)

Do I give myself time to get over this, or should I end it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 and my boyfriend of the past year and a half is 36. We have a really goof relationship. My problem is this, we have a very good friend. He has known her longer than I have. They have had sex in the past. The other evening, after inviting me for a drink, my boyfrien... (206 words)

I'm so moody even my family cant stand me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello well ya see this i really need help its for any doctors out there please help me im so moody even my family cant stand me i dont want to make anymore problems i just wanna get on with my life is there any medication out there that i can take to halp me just stop being ... (66 words)

Should I worry about not being able to orgasm during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm getting quite worried, because I just can't orgasm during sex. I can when he licks me out, or rubs my clitoris, but during actual intercourse it doesn't really turn me on to a point where I can orgasm... Is there a problem? I know there's a disease or something where yo... (84 words)

He doesn't tease me like the others...does that mean he likes me back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - there is a guy at school named Alex I really like him but he doesn't know he has 2 friends that make fun of me but he doesn't join in 95% of the time and sometimes in class i realize hes looking at me is that because his desk is right across the room faced towards my desk (main ... (209 words)

Do I delete her email before he sees it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

- I need your advice. My problem is and had always been my bf's ex. When my bf and I started dating they were still seeing each other, then he promise me that he had no feeling for her and that everything was over between him and her. That was at the begining of 2005. Then, ... (349 words)

I made a terrible mistake! how can I prove I didn't mean this?, I am only 12

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my problem is my older sister will not talk to me at all because me and her 11 year old girl did some touching (you know) the thing is my older sister ha something similar to her happen when she was my age (11) she wont talk to me or my mom at all and told every one in my ... (89 words)

Why should I be any different??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, guys. Yet again, another student-teacher situation. So, I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've had this massive crush on my chemistry teacher for a while. It freaked me out a great deal at first because I've never noticed any of my teachers this way--especially not ones... (606 words)

How do I cope with a workaholic boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and what first attracted me to him was the fact he is a determined person.However, I have came to realize that his determination is more like money hungery. He works 7 days a week. It seems like he is gone all the time. ... (148 words)

My mate is driving me Nut's, how can I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My friend is a nutter, and bugs the hell out of me! She never stops talking about herself, and lives in a complete fantasy world. She imagines herself married to a guy after ten minutes. I don't mean the normal 'I wonder what color eyes our children would have' thought or one ... (240 words)

I need to change my life, and stop hurting the people I love, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I dwell on everything...little, medium, large issues, I dwell on all of them. Things I have done, people I have hurt, everything. I have shamed myself so deeply many times, I have hurt people I loved. I am ashamed of myself and can't seem to get over everything. No one knows I ... (146 words)

How can I stop it from going wrong? Please help! I'm desperate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for 9 months and we have had our ups and downs but now it just seems like we are always fighting and I dont know what to do cause i do not want to lose him but I feel it coming please someone help me with some advice!! I dont kow what 2 do ... (62 words)

I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

21 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that up just to be with him ... (136 words)

Baby's names! who gets the last word?

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21 January 2008 (?) age 36-40 - A while ago, I wrote in about wanting to be preggie all the time, even though a baby is still out of the question for some particular reasons which I will not discuss at this time because, well, they're irrelevant to the question, and the question being about names. What if, ... (80 words)

He treats me like dirt, should I trust him again?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i have been dateing this guy for a little over 3 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter. We constantly argue because i feel the need to complain about some things and he feels i shouldnt complain at all. In the past he has cheated on me with friends and random girls ... (162 words)

Girlfriend blows hot then cold! Why?

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21 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have just broken up becuase we weren't talking much to each other. I was trying to talk to her but other times she just left before I had the chance to. Her friends says she liked me for a while but it doesn't seem like it because she wont really talk, ... (71 words)

Not trusted yet! How do I handle this?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend says I am the love of his life but he doesn't trust me. And wants to know eveything I did when we were not together. What do I do? ... (32 words)

B.J's What else can we do, besides full sex?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend loves b/j. and i want to do other things along with that. so what can we do other than have sex? ... (23 words)

Why did he cheat on me so soon after our break up? Should I end our relationship?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - where do i begin. i had been dating my boyfriend for 5 years when we decided to move across the country together. the situation got really tense and we broke up and he moved back home. shortly after he left we began talking on the phone again and decided to get back together. i ... (174 words)

My boyfriend is ready for sex, and encourages me to accept it! I'm scared however, what do I tell him?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is ready for sex! And i told him that im kinda scared becuz idk anything bout sex just yet! he told me that i wont hurt thant much! heres what he told me about it, it all depends on how big the guy's penis is compared to the depth of your vaginal canal, if the guy ... (163 words)

How can we get enough time to be alone so we can start on oral sex??

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21 January 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hey aunts, So I've got a boyfriend of just over 9 months, and we reeeally want to start moving forward with hanjobs and blowjobs, maybe but we cant find the chance to be alone for very long. We went to a movie to try it, but i was nervous about all the people there. Can you ... (62 words)

Why do men engage in extramarital affairs? Love? Pure escapade?

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21 January 2008 (F)

age - Is a man who engages in an extramarital affair usually in "love" with the person with whom he is having the affair, or does he "just want to have an affair", meaning there is no emotions or love at all?... (40 words)

No matter how pleasant my dates, I get bored of them very easily. I call it "carnal apathy." The only different relationship has ended and I'm back to the "old self." Ideas?

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21 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I Feel rather ridiculous having to come to a forum for the answers to my problems, but without spending hundreds of dollars this is the best help i can get. Around half a year ago, I came out of my first real relationship. It lasted just over a year(when past r... (406 words)

I feel really guilty after my affair!

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21 January 2008 (?) age - I met a married man online after a month I felt very close to him thought we could meet and the next thing I know I was sleeping with him anyway he told me how he was depressed with wife and kids hated his job I felt sorry for him he told me it had been 2 years since he slept ... (224 words)

Halfway through the act, my natural lubrication declined. What could have happened??

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21 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were having sex today and everything was good until about halfway through when I ended up going from very wet to dry, out of nowhere. Any ideas what could've happened?... (34 words)