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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey,my ex-girlfriend and i are still friends (she dumped me) and i think i have finally gotten over her. the only problem is that it doesnt seem like shes even interested in being friends anymore...she never wants to meet up or never makes an effort to talk to me and it hurts really badly. how do i get her to notice me again?thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): It's easier to get over a broken relationship if you don't spend time together. Let her move on and try to do the same yourself.
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reader, jessicajay  +, writes (3 January 2008):
From my perspective, I think the girl is trying just as hard as you to get over one another. There must be a reason she broke up with you, and she's trying to hold on to that reason. Although it may be meaningless to you, she probably knows that you both need to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): well when i end my relashionships i gerneraly take space from them subconsciously, and on purpuse cus that spaces gives me time to salvage anything and gives me time to get over them.some times takes me a month others it takes a year but then after that i'm perfectly fine with hanging out all the time again and still not have any feelings for them as well. just give her space..it's for the better if you want to salvage a friendship.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (3 January 2008):
 She's probably ready to move on to new relationships and sees you as an obstacle to that. You're probably better off giving her all the space she needs and move on to new relationships yourself.
Good luck.
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reader, vickix3 +, writes (3 January 2008):
 My advice to for you is to move on and forget her. If shes not making an effort to stay friends, don't waste your time on her.
Best wishes
xxx
vickx3
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): Hey budd, just ring her up, talk to her, ask her to go out for a drink, then from there, just let every thing fall into place
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