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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he just being nice because he wants sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my boyfriend are together we get on so well, we`ve been together for 2 years and have been quiet strong up till now, but lately when we`re not together we`re always arguing by text or e-mail, has he gone off me and just being nice to me when we`re together because ... (57 words)

My boyfriend is calling himself "Big Daddy" at work..what would YOU do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

- Ladies: I have a quick question for you. If you found some receipts that your boyfriend had signed at work signed "Big Daddy" how would you react? I found a couple of them so far and I'm wondering if I should even say anything about them. Please give me your feedback. Keep... (81 words)

We only ever go out on dates with his friends, the spark has gone! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months. We were set up by a mutual friend of ours. But since the first 2 dates we now always go out with four of his other friends (2 couples). The only time me and him actually get to have a conversation together is the ... (568 words)

How can I overcome being hurt by my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a serious, 4 month long, long distance relationship with a girl across the country. We've never had a fight, and only minor relationship problems, nothing even close to causing an end to our relationship. We have had plans for a while now for me to go visit her ... (476 words)

Can a woman successfully date a codependent enabler man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age - hello, can a woman successfully date a codependent enabler man ? we have been dating 3 years and so far nothing but a promise ring. he all the time does everything everyone ask him to do. his son-in-law is a bully and talks to him with no respect and this man that i date ... (116 words)

I have a crush and my brother won't like it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old and in 8th grade and have a big problem. My brother who is a freshman in highschool had two of his friends over last night. I really like one of them but I don't know if he likes me back. I'm too shy to ask if he likes me, but the even bigger problem is that my ... (112 words)

He never came home last night. He cheated before... I'm lost. Can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do i'm with my partner 9 years we have two boys. two years ago when i was pregnant he had two affairs and used stay out all nyt i kicked his ass out when i found out and 6 months later i took him back but i told him never to treat me bad again, but this ... (334 words)

Any time I get a call from a number I don't reccognize, I don't answer. Does this make me paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Any time anyone calls me, if I don't know the number, I won't answer it, and I feel guilty too as if whoever's calling knows I am unintentionally anwering to avoid them. Is this normal, or am I paranoid? I feel bad a lot, like that everyone hates me and are talking badly about ... (58 words)

No loving at home has me looking elsewhere

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age - I have a strip club, porn addiction. Is it totally wrong or can it be worked into a marriage successfully? My wife has been very negative towards any real love for a long time. I have been married for 30 years, but I am very interested in sex and she is not. It's a catch 22 ... (57 words)

Why would she think that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think my close freind thinks i fancy her when i totally do not! on thursday we were sitting in the hall and i was looking at some girls who were saying things about me and she started to pull down her skirt and look at me weirdly.i said "why are you looking at me like tha... (115 words)

He seemed sincere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A week ago, I met a guy; we were both proctoring exams at our university. We talked a little before the exam, and exchanged a few whispers during the exam. Our areas of research seemed to overlap a little and he said he had some sources I should look at. After the exam... (293 words)

He has his cake and eats it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. I had an affair with a man I am in love with and he is in love with me. I got a divorce and he didn't. He told me he couldn't leave because of his small child. He does not want to lose his child or have his child growing up being shameful of his father because he left ... (258 words)

Overwhelmed by failed marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 and going through a divorce after 25 yrs of marraige and im scared as heck and dont really know what life has in store for me and my daughter ...The Divorce is just really starting but he ask me in April I thought there was Hope But have Found there is NONE . I ... (84 words)

Will our values keep us apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm 20 and met this wonderful guy at uni. We have been together for a couple of months. Anyway its transpired he is a virgin, weve discussed this and i have told him about my sexual history warts and all. The trouble is he says, not the fact that i'm not a virgin he's o.k... (138 words)

What is my problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know if this is normal and what i should do about it? Im 28 and live with my dad and up until about 6 months ago my pretty serious boyfriend of like 5+ years lived 1.5 miles away. I would spend the night there every night. Then he got a new job about 10 hours away ... (264 words)

Death is inevitable, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i am depressed. Or maybe i am just feeling sorry for myself. Only i don't know what to do. I haven't had a good few years. I know death is all part of life, they always say you are born to die, but the past few years have been ridiculous. In november 2002, my materna... (648 words)

I think I am bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im a male 24.. i recently broke up with my girlfriend , got drunk and gave my friend a blowjob.. so i think i must bi bisexual.... yes he came and yes i choked but i did swallow.. but the thing is now i have been confused since.... should i do it again but sober... and what ... (72 words)

How to be more masculine and be myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi whats masculinity, my girl friends dumped me because she says i'm not masculine enough. Now I resent talking about my feelings to her, I wasn't comfortable with it at the time and now I know why. How can you increase your masculinity.... (44 words)

What is rape

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm only 13 years old and I posted a question about a boy in my class rubbing against me while i was pinned against my locker. do you think he was trying to rape me?... (35 words)

Career advice needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello,friends. i need help about my career,i m from india now i m 23 years old qualificaton 8th class only, beuse of my family problems, i cant able to stady , now i m faceing lot's of problem in life , i m trying for job but i didnt get and last year i found same of online m... (147 words)

I'm not Asian so could we be compatible

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question about a guy I am interested in that I may be starting to date (assuming he moves things forward with me). He has been separated for three years and his divorce paperwork is with the lawyers. His ex-wife is not contesting the divorce. I think he was hung up ... (441 words)

He's confusing me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

- I am looking for some opinions on my situation. I am 18 and work part time at a store with a guy who is 19, turning 20. Ive been working with him for about 8 months now. I really like him a lot, hes such a happy and positive person to be around, hes funny and really nice and ... (256 words)

Can birth control pills impede breast development

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya i'm 16. Kind of an embarrassing question but would the pill have stopped my breats from growing. I'm not very big, a 32A and although they aren't totally flat theres nothing on top so they r moe pointy. Thing is i was on the pill at the age of 11 or 12 because i got ... (150 words)

How to say it's over

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age - he wont even hug me anymore - i know i am a beautiful and desireable woman, this is over and i must tell him... (24 words)

Is this even a real relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am having a hard time trying to make this long distance relashionship work. We got together in june and she broke up with me in september. we text each other on and off till we got back togerther in novermber. Anyway over christmas and newyear we didnt speak very much she was ... (300 words)

Lack confidence and need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya.a bit of advice please,this may sound very sad but im new to this dating thing and have always wanted a boyfriend,but can someone please give me- 10 or even more signs or less, that a guy may like me, ive heard about eye contact but are there other things? as i cant really ... (63 words)

Husband's interest is wandering

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband is taking intrust in other girl i am worried about this situation help me what can do ... (19 words)

NI number criteria

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

- Can I apply for an NI number before Im 16? Im 15 next month can I apply for one because my auntie is trying to get me a job at hers... (31 words)

I'm 16 and need to get on birth control. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...im 16 and i have hade sex!and i dont wanna tell my mom. but i really don't wanna get pregnant eather. i use a condom every time but i would like 2 get on birth control! what should i do?... (40 words)

Is it a lost cause falling for my co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I work with a co-worker and i have fallen for her. Were becoming good friends and she's mention a few times that she would not date anybody that she works with. At this point i have not expressed how i feel about her. In someways i understand her point and the risk involved ... (86 words)

I have an attraction to large and older women. Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a huge attraction to Large women and Older Women. I masturbate 5-6 times daily and its always to Big or Older women. Why is this? ... (37 words)

Any ideas on where I can get a vibrator from?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 16 and i like to masturbate but when i do it's always just with my fingers. i really want a vibrator but it's not like i can just go buy one and there's no way my mom would ever buy me one. what should i do? any ideas on things i can use that i can find at home or get easi... (64 words)

Should my cousin and I stop getting physical everytime we stop together now we are older? We are both females..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - once a year i go to visit my family in mexico and i have a girl cousin there who i always share a room with. the thing is that for many years already we have started to make out and touch each other at night...we never talk about it and we just lay there and pretend we're ... (133 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me anymore. What can I do?

This question has 54 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 21 with a boyfriend who just doesn't seem to care about me anymore. Of course he says he loves me I do believe he does. However, I am always the one who has to plan to go out for dates. I have a toddler with him and the babysitting organisation always gets left for me to ... (328 words)

Pregnant, homeless and confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was 5 months pregnant when my Husband asked me to leave our home because he said he was miserable due to our fighting and bickering. We used to fight about fidelity issues on my behalf. Prior to me getting pregnant, he said he was over those issues. Now that Im pregnant, ... (166 words)

Is 20 a position

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - A woman told me about a sexual position that she loves... she said its 20. Can you help me with this one? What is it???... (26 words)

I've scared him off by not wanting to get married so quick after meeting. Did he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age - I met my boyfriend on 27 Oct 2007. He was very loving and proposed to me 2 weeks later. I agreed but then stalled and asked for more time, suggesting we get engaged in a few months. We spent 10 days together at Christmas but I felt it was too much too soon. I played devil's ... (138 words)

We were going to stay mates after splitting but she doesn't seem interested. Should I let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, To begin with, I had dated this girl during summer and the fallin year. She goes to a different school than me.[private].Well when we broke up, we promise that we contact with one another.But suddenly weeks later, we both didnt call each other or bare to see each... (172 words)

How do you do the rebound thing? I think it might help me get over my ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - About a month ago my bf and I broke up. We were very serious and the break up was very bad. I've been an emotional wreck for weeks, and cry literally every night. Recently I called to try to get him back, and he told me he's been going to bars, picking up random girls "to ... (326 words)

Are my pubic hairs normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have this question. I've always wondered why but now i want to find out why. My situation is i have different coloured pubic hairs around my penis. Literally there are some hairs that are black on the top half and white on the bottom half. Is this normal? I thin... (92 words)

We had to split because he moved away but I miss him. I cant eat or sleep. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A significent other that I love has moved away. I love him dearly and miss him more and more everyday. A long distance relationship will not work and the move was for their own good. Since the depart I've been depressed and crying everyday. I cannot eat or sleep or even keep a ... (56 words)

Whats the best way to handle pain? How can you deal with more than one serious painful subject?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) age - What is the best way to handle pain? How can yu deal,with more than one serious painful subject ,if your life seems to go that way?What should You say to yourself if all doors seem to close and you feel so alone with your pain. I feel ,i want to escape, not die, just escape. ... (96 words)

Should I take the plunge with this guy and have sex even though I don't really know if he is only after that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have know this guy for around 2 years, and for the last year and a half of knowing eachother we have been flirting. during this past summer we were talking on AIM and he asked if i liked him, which seemed weird because i made i obvious that i was flirting. Anyways i told him ... (332 words)

Need help! Should I tell her I like or just forget her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really really liked this girl who i would hang out with in the summer. I know for a fact that my friend liked her too... i didn't really say anything to her and now wont see her anymore but i could get her e-mail. I first tried to forget about her but i just couldn't for some ... (119 words)

Do you think she could be Bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I think I'm bi.. actually pretty sure just I always tried to ignore that side of me up till now. I've had emotional attachments to close friends before, but never a more physical interest in a girl who is currently my closest friend right now. But I'm extremely confused if ... (893 words)

Is it weird for a guy to be scared of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i am a 19 years old and i am a virgin. i have had chances to have sex a couple of times but i chickened out. i know i am ready for sex but i am afriad of it, i am afraid of getting her pregnant or catching something, is it wierd for a guy to be afraid of sex even though ... (179 words)

I'm in love with my english teacher. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im inlove with my english teacher.he's married and everytime he's in the room i blush what should i do.i even have dreams about him.... (24 words)

I don't want the abortion...But they're all pressuring me!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and 8-9 weeks pregnant. I have my first midwife appointment on the 25th February. My boyfriend and parents are basically forcing me into an abortion that I don't want because I KNOW that after it I will be a wreck. Sure abortion is for some people but not for me ... (563 words)

Secretly in love with my wife's sister. I realise my marriage was a mistake. What next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - what if you can't stand being married to the person you've married. what if after years of being married you realize that you've made a mistake. what if your marriage has turned out to be that you thought you could change the person you married, what if don't sleep together ... (222 words)

How often does the average guy get 'lucky'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering: How often do single guys "get lucky"? I know it sounds silly, but I haven't had anything physical with a girl for a VERY long time now, so it's got me wondering how often your average single guy gets laid. Also, how might your average guy try and make ... (74 words)

How do I make a move on the guy I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Im 15 Years Young, And Im Going To A Party This Weekend.. Well At My Friend's House and Her Mom Wont Be Home And My Crush Is Going To Be There With His Friends And I Wanna Dance With Him..But I Dont Know How To Make The First Move...And I Dont Know How To Ju... (73 words)

What should I be doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (M)

- I am in university, I am doing a good degree and have good friends and can socialise easily. Yet the only part of me that I'm not happy about is my relationship with women. OK I have friends that are girls but I'm not as close to them as I am with the guys. Even once when I am ... (176 words)

Is this guy I like just fooling me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (F)

- Help me please I feel REALLY bad.. Right. A person who ive loved for 3 years.. Today when drunk(him not really that much at this time) Ive been speeking 2 him about how I feel and to my friend whos a girl aswell and she was there and stuff when I told him and we spoke about ... (300 words)