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writes:Hiya,me and my guy have been together for a while, and the problem is when ever we trying to please each other i never have any problems pleasing him and making him cum, but when it comes down to me i always struggle, he seems to hit all the right spots but nothing ever seems to happen, and when it feels like ive orgasmed i still seems to be well, "dry" down there. Could this be problems with me?sorry about the graphicnes.thankyoux
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): what works for me is to move my hips in such a way that my clit rubs against his pubic area during missionary style. it takes a lot of work but if he turns you on enough it should happen eventually. What i also do is rub my clit while he's in me. Both require a lot of work but the orgasims are amazing... good luck!
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reader, Crazy-Candice +, writes (7 February 2008):
 This is really terrible advice, in fact, its not even advice. but I had the exact same problem as you once, until one day I took half a pill of viagra and I had the best sex of my life and I came 3 times. If i was you I'd research on medicine or herbal supplements to encourage orgasm I used to think it was my fault for being stiff or unrelaxed. A glass of wine could also help: but don't take the medication and wine together!!
also I heard about some drops called spanish fly or something they are supposed to be good :s
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): You might find the answer here:
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): there is nothing wrong with you! most women can't orgasam through penatration alone; they have to have clitoral stimulation as well. i usually have the most amazing orgasms when my boyfriend is either fingering me or just rubbing my clit (sorry this is probably way too much information lol!) but you have to remember to stay relaxed and comfortable, that's the most important thing!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (3 January 2008):
There's really nothing wrong with you,you both need to relax and stay abit longer on the foreplay.Fingering is also another way of overcoming this and if he's ok with it and you are.Let him go down you.Women are usually more tense than men when it comes to sex so relax your mind too.
Good luck.
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reader, adrsep4  +, writes (3 January 2008):
I hear its normal for most women to have difficulty to have an orgasm. wat u should do is know wat u like and just relax ur in No hurry. it'll be a lot easier once u forget about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): The information you provided is rather limited. What are you guys doing - just intercourse, oral or hand stimulation? But in any case, there may not be enough foreplay in your sexual activities to arouse you enough. Males can often attain sexual release with little or no foreplay (one of our shortcomings), but females need to be slowly and gradually stimulated in various ways that increase their arousal and bring them to eventual climax. Just possibly, due to inexperience or whatever, your boyfriend may not be spending the time needed to get you sexually aroused enough. It takes a lot of patience and understanding.
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reader, lady luck +, writes (3 January 2008):
sweetheart there is nothing wrong with you, try to relax when you are getting down to it enjoy the way he touches you. take your time using his hands get him to make you want him inside you. i don't condone unprotected sex in any way so make sure both yourself and your fella have STI checks he should agree to this if he cares about you and use alternatives to condoms such as the pill being able to feel him rather than a condom can heighten the pleasure. when shagging try laying on your stomach with him behind him taking control and bring his hand under your leg n on2 your clit gaurented 2 make u wet let him no what feels good by moaning. remember orgasms aren't the b all an end all just have fun.if this fails there is always the rampant rabbit gaurenteed orgasm get him 2 use it on ugood luck babes xx
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reader, 1006 +, writes (3 January 2008):
i don't want to get to weird,but get him to finger u while he does it,when i got with my bf thats the only way i was able to.so good luck
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reader, serenityjohnson +, writes (2 January 2008):
well i have has sex numerous of times with my ex mate and i was in the same situation you are...i never had an orgasm...and truth be told most women don't have orgams..there's nothing wrong with you....it could be that you have to relax and find out about your body and know how to please yourself first, before you can expect anyone else too....
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