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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I met a man abroad in 2004 whilst I was living there. We lived together for 2 years. I had to come back to London, and instead of being here for 3 months I have been back for nearly 2 years. In that time we have seen each other twice. I told him that he needs to put his divorce in and get things sorted out, ie. put his children in boarding school as he said he was going to do tht.This Christmas he was supposed to come and see me and could not due to problems around his business. This has had a real affect on me, and I have lost a lot of faith and trust in the whole relationship.He told me that he did not want to worry me by telling me he has court cases coming up.I do not feel like calling him nor communicating with him as I feel very hurt. Ihave waited for him for the last 1 year and he has not been able to put his divorce in nor can I see progress in this relationship. He has promised me that he will prove me wrong and get everything done. I have not called him since 27th December 07 and he has called me a couple of times..I just do not feel I have anything to say to him..I sent him a text for his birthday and that was it...I want to know what advive can be offered...when we were together the relationship was really good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): You are at the point where you are seeing things in practical terms, which is good. If you have only seen him twice in two years and he is doing nothing about getting divorced, this speaks for itself.
You have made moves to cut off from him. Very brave. Keep it up and find someone who will give you more commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): No I can't see any future in this relationship and it seems that the situtation is very one sided. He sees you as and when it suits him and at this point he has made no solid commitment to you whatsoever. It's a New Year, why spend another year worrying about where this relationship is going? I would definately end things for your own peace of mind and find a man who wants the same things as you. Please don't waste any more of your time/life on a guy who will never be what you would like/want him to be.
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