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writes:I asked for some advice some time ago regarding the fact that after two years my boyfriend hadnt introduced me to his family or friends despite me bringing up the subject frequently. I also caught him out on his phone planning to meet an old girlfriend for a weekend of sex. We discussed things and he assured me that there was nothing in it and he couldnt get hold of her as her phone number had changed and with regards to me meeting his family he has more or less told me that it wont happen, with no good reason why. I forgave him about the text but have been vigilant. This week his phone alarm went off a 4.30 in the morning and he said that he had got up in the week to do a report for work but I am now finding it hard to believe him. It is my gut feeling that he may have got up to catch a plane somewhere (he travels a lot and he often gets up at this time to get early flights) as he said that on the Friday he was away at the cricket and going into work on the Saturday morning so would be hard to get hold of him until late Saturday afternoon. Should I take these signs that he has a hidden agenda and perhaps time for me to move on.
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Hi, the best thing for you to do is leave him because you have no trust in him and all you are going to do is be upset all the time and wondering if he is cheating on you, and if he wont let you meet his family then it sounds like he is hidden you from everyone and that has to hurt alot. You already cought him in a trap with him text mess. xgirlfriends and trying to have a sex weekend. And he says he couldnt get ahold of her, well if he is doing that he can be doing it while he is on a bussi. trip i would leave him him that is your call and you make the right dession. Good luck and i hope it all works out for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): Hi sweety,
This time it may all be above board but because the trust has gone you are always going to feel this way, You canot rest after what happened and I bet it is always on your mind or in the back somewere, hunny he planned a weekend of sex with an old girlfriend I would have got rid there and then. Is it really worth all this pain, plus the fact that he told you that he couldnt get hold of her as her number had changed. Thats why he didnt go, Or maybe she just didnt want to no as she knows of his ways... Who really knows, You can do better in life.... I hope you find peace and happiness with lots of love MANDY XXXXXXXXX
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