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writes:My boyfriend and I was living together for more that 6 years and we have a daughter together.We have known eachother since primary school.He left me for another girl and it's been 4 months now. Does he realise what he has done? What his he thinking? Doesn't he love me anymore? Were were like married. Is he still thinking of us? Why can't I get over him??Please answer my questions? Reply to this Question
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reader, blazee  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 hey:) noone can tell you if he is thinking about you, talk to him see how he replies, everythign from the words he uses to the way he says them will tell you.
but hes left a little girl and a mum on there own...its been four months. sorry b dont expect much:(
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reader, LauraE +, writes (24 July 2007):
Hi,
I am so sorry that you are going through this distress. I think that maybe you just grew apart. You were teenagers when you got together, which was very young to settle down permanently. Now that you are both 6 years older, you have changed enormously. Unfortunately, very few relationships which are formed in our teens last more than a few years. Of course the better they are, the longer they last, and the more painful it is when they do eventually end. No doubt he is sad to have left you and his child, and I hope that you are getting support from him and that he visits your daughter. The sad fact is that you can’t make him change his mind, however wrong you think he is. You must concentrate on looking forward for yourself and your daughter.
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