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My girlfriend of almost 2 years has told me she can't date anyone right now and that we can maybe date again when she's ready. What is it she's feeling?

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Question - (24 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been dating a girl for about a year and eight months. One day she tells me she doesn't want a boyfriend right now in this time in her life. She says that she still loves me she just cant be with me right now. She also said that i just have to let her be single and she might date me again when shes ready. Its been a month and things are still the same way. What is she feeling and what should i do.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou should try to get on with your life. She may have just dumped you or she may just want some time for whatever reason. Either way there's no point to just sitting around waiting for her, get busy. Go out with friends and meet new people, try and have some fun.

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A male reader, blazee United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

blazee agony auntshes going through her thoughts and ideas.

you need to keep telling her how you feel, and that you still want to be with her.

if shes going through something hard, and shes reviewing her life clearing her thoughts your gonna be one if the things she will be thinking about, make sure you stay constant in her mind, if you dont tell her how you feel she will think that you never really cared for her, and your just letting her go.

also telling her once wont do, you need to have a long disscussion about it with her, get her emotions out and say yours.

if its been a month and nothings changed shes got something that she needs to say, go and ask her how she feels...all the best

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