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writes:Hi allI would really appreciate your opinion.I have been with my guy for nearly 6 years.About 2 months ago we split after a huge row. (we started to talk not long after)I went on holiday for 2 weeks. We love eachother very much.We text everyday (mainly dirty messages ect)and some on how much we missed e.other ect.Anyway, the day i got back i checked my email and myspace(which he knows i had and had even seen my page. i dont have friends on there i dont know just mainly old school friends and work mates).Anyway, i had a message from his neice, i didnt know she was on there, and messaged back. When i visited her profile i was shocked to see my guy with a page!! he cant even use the net very well, its new to him. Anyway, the status was single, and there was no mention of me (you could tell the page was new, it was unfinished). I cried, and was shocked, he never told me ect and iwasnt mentioned.Hes mentiond on mine.Is it ok for him not to mention me? as we had split?(obv we made up and were together now) but i cant help but feelloss of trust and why i wasnt on there,he said he was gonna add me later once he knew where he stood!And there was a very pretty big busted blonde as 1 of his 2 friends. i was gutted. she was stunning.He said his neice created the account and must of added her. And said he hadnt got anything to hide as he told his neice to mailme, and obv he would be in her friends.Im confused. hurt. about the woman, and all of the above ect. its stillon my mind. this happened about a month ago.Can i have some advise ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): Im guessing you have everything all set by now but i thought i would say what i think...
Being together for so long is always a plus if you both missed each other you still love each other and need each other. If he got rid of his myspace because it upset you he cares for you very much, You say his not that good with the net/computers maybe he did not know about the status.... maybe he handt added anything about you... Maybe a friend made it for him.
Anyway i hope everything is all sorted out
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): hi
thank you for the answers.
Just a little more info i forgot to mention.
He deleted the page and isnt on there anymore, he deleted the same day i found it cause he knew it upset me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): I tell you something these myspace and facebook type of websites are just becoming social menaces and relationship wreckers! It used to be texting that was the furtive underhand opportunity for cheats - now its these sites! He is asking to be flirted with and isn't ready for a respectful loving relationship in my opinion - you are not wrong to be cross. Give him an ultimatum. The site goes or you will. Watch his reaction carefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): Oh, yes, I can definitely comment on this one! The same thing happened to me a few months ago when my boyfriend, who I lived with, left his myspace page on the computer when I went to use it. I saw he was listed as single with the purpose of friends and dating, and was sending messages to hotties saying sweet things like I never heard him say to me, all "honey" and "dear". I was livid. He never cared about being sweet like that to me and here he was doing it with strangers! He even left his mail up, and yeah, I looked. So what. So, he eventually took off the "dating" part from his profile. However, we had been together for a year when he created the account, so it didn't really make me feel more confident. By the way, regarding hotties sending their adds, it is true that some people just mass mail and they really don't know the people they are linked with, but when they start sending "you're so hot" messages, watch out. End of story, he moved out last month and he came over drunk tonight wanting to get some and I sent him home with none.:) Ouch! "This is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you."
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