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writes:Hi. i am male and 14 years old. my male cousin is 17 yaers old and i fancy the pants off of him. he slept round my house looking after me one night and we both decided to get naked even though we could'nt see each others privates we knew it was there. we later on showed each other them.as he was lying oon his stomach i sat on his back still naked and started massgaging his back he did'nt mind it. we both had erections. mine was over him but i denied it and said it was over the naked woman we saw on the computer. he said the same but i knew it was over me. we then both masturbated together, but not touchng each other. we hung around naked casualy.i now wanna take the next step, i want to kiss and later on give a hand job plz reply i need you're help on how to be cnfident. thx xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): i for one think it is ok. if your feelings are strong then you should follow your heart. if he has the same intentions im suer your story will play out with a happy ending
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): you are a young lad and have feelings, when teenagers are going through the whole puberty process our hormones fly around alot and therefore we have crushs on people we never thought we would. your still young and still growin physically and learning more about your body.also you mention that this boy you have sexual feelins for is your cousins which is against the law, its called incest.Why don't you go be young and have fun with your m8s.Don't bother with sex rite now wait a year or 2 then find someone your own age and one you can have a proper relationship with. If you are gonna do something then use a condom.
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reader, xmollyx +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Im sorry but i find this quite wrong hes older then you and knows what he is doing. You on the other hand are at a vulnerable stage in your life and i think you should think about whats really going on if your family found out this could cause alot of trouble if i was you i would talk to some one maybe at connextions this may help how your feeling. But please i dont think its right with your cousin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): I'd just like to contradict the fact that it is illegal to have sexual relations with one's cousin. It isn't, here in the UK.That said, you are very young, so before you make any decisions regarding this situation, you need to realise that other people will not take this very well, so if you do happen to go any further, you need to be sure that this is a secret that can be kept between the two of you.Is it worth it? This is something you need to ask yourself, ad is not something that can be decided upon lightly. It might be a better idea to avoid him and find boys or girls of your own age that you find attractive.If you do decide to go further, please always be safe ie) use a condom. Bear in mind also that he is over the age of consent and you are not, so to avoid serious repercussions, you MUST wait until you are sixteen.To address the confidence issue, the best thing to do in any situation is to relax and perhaps pretend to be more confident than you really are! This doesn't change any of the above issues, though, and do make sure you are certain about anything you do do, and most especially, that you aren't being pushed into anything you are not ready for. As a rule of thumb, if it feels wrong, then it usually is wrong, so listen to your instincts.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (24 July 2007):
 your very young and sex at your age is illegal so you shouldnt be doing it-its ok for you to think about sex but you really shouldnt act on it unil you are at least the age of consent, but really when you are ready to do it!in regards to your feelings for your cousin--this is wrong, this could cause great upset for your family and do you think that you could maintain a relationship with him, realistically? if you want to do it then nothing we can say will stop you so just make sure you are safe and use protection! however, it is wrong and i would strongly advise you not to take it any further!xxx
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reader, candy00s +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Okay...
I think you are rather young to be thinking about a sexual relationship with anyone. Are you sure you are ready to go that far?
He is older than you and would be in the eyes of the law having sex with a minor - therefore it is very risky that anything happens between you.
Make sure that you are sensible if you take things further and use a condom.
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reader, Danny07 +, writes (24 July 2007):
 this is not the way you want to go. firstly it is illigal to have relationships with your first cousin. and secondly, if any1 in your family found out that you were touching each other they would be sickend. im not saying been gay is a bad thing, its your choice. but dont be gay with family members!
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