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writes:is it wrong for me to pick my husbands mobile phone call and to go thru his phone? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): If there is no reason for you not trust him then yes, it's wrong and it shows a complete lack of trust and respect for another person's privacy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): When you ask this question, switch "me" and "my husband". In other words, how would you feel for your husband to pick up your cell phone and to snoop through it? If I were your husband, I would feel like you did not trust me, which would be something that hurts a great deal.
I don't condone snooping, but if you have to, just open the phone bill at the end of the month and review all the numbers called. This is still somewhat invasive, but not so much as snooping through his phone.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (24 July 2007):
 I dont see why not, if hes got nothing to hide then there should be no problem. if you have reason to go snooping through his phone then go for it, or else you will just keep torturing yourself over whatever it is your worried about.
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reader, know_it_all  +, writes (24 July 2007):
would it be wierd for me to look at my sex buddy's phone to see if he has been talking to other girls or about me? It feels like stalking, I tried to do it last night but his phone makes noise everytime you hit a button.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Wrong?....Not if you have a reason to believe there's something going on. But it is a slippery slope and you know what they say - curiosity killed the cat. The danger of snooping, is how you handle it if you find something you don't like. Say, an old girlfriend's number, or a text message from another woman. Now what do you do?....You have to either tell him you snooped and run the risk of it blowing your whole relationship, or sit on the information, which will inevitably torture you. I'd say, if the guy hasn't given you any cause for suspicion, then let sleeping dogs lie and resist the urge to pilfer through his mobile phone.
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reader, shooting-star90 +, writes (24 July 2007):
 it is if you've got a stable relationsip and trust him
but if things are not good yes go through find out as much as you can so you don't get hurt..
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