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*hucky
writes:Hi im 15 year old and i have a 16 year old girlfriend and we have had sex many times using protection.she recently went away on holiday for 10 day and then as soon as she got back went to a music festival during the holiday she was sending me text messages saying things like "can't wait to see you, i love you so much etc etc. but after she got back from the festival i called her and it was awful she wasn't speaking to me properly she was really blunt and not making convo properly. this went of for days in-till finally i managed to get to see her, we met up with her friends and messed around and played cards and so on.we didn't kiss once. didn't even hold hands down the street, it was so weird and when we were on r own, there was little convo. a few days after i got her attention on msn and she said this: "i told you im worrying about a big thing.. and its making me all screwed up.." im bloody scared..pregnant? please help!
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reader, Chucky +, writes (24 July 2007):
Chucky is verified as being by the original poster of the question im scared, i love this girl. she said to me she wouldn't cheat on me and i got her on the phone about 10 mins ago and asked what the problem was she said that the problem had gone and that there wasn't a problem any more, this is about 2 week after shes been back. im think she might have missed her period or something but maybe she was pregnant, because before she went away me and her we at a party and both alone in the kitchen when she started crying in my arms and she went on about how she was scared and she put my hands on her tummy. this was about a week before her holiday. anyways she still acting weird and told me she was ill. i haven't sleep in days and im going away on saturday, so i want to get to the bottom of it, as i might not be able to relax on my holiday. :( sorry about any spelling mistakes (im dyslexic) :)
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reader, xmollyx +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Ok so she may have cheated on you but dont jump to this strait away. Have you asked her what is wrong maybe this will help have a talk with her find some things out if she is pregnant make sure not to freak out at first and be sure to help her with what you and her want to do. Good luck hun... Be sure to give a update to what happend..X
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): Sounds more to me like she's cheated on you while she was away and the guilt is bothering her. It's a classic sign; she's stopped being affectionate and is being distant and avoiding much conversation. I don't think she'll be pregnant if you always use contraception, not saying it's impossible but it really sounds like she's had a holiday fling and the guilt is now eating her up.
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