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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him to bits. But we've slipped into a bit of a routine and don't really communicate alot about anything unless something big happens. I've tried starting random conversations with him, I've even told him I think we should talk more about little things but he's not really taking it in. the only tim we seem "together" and not just friends is during sex. what can I do -short of dragging him into the bedroom- to break the monotony? Reply to this Question
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Well maybe dragging him into the bedroom is no such a bad idea? But not for sex.Take him in, sit him down and say that you want one conversation before you have sex. If you do this each time before sex he will start to see the routine. Then try talking to him outside the bedroom. Ask about his day, his family, just littlethings that he can cope with. Beacause of the length of time you have been together, converstaion seems to have run dry. Try spicing things up by trying new things. Go out as a couple to new places, try new foods, anything that might spark off a new converstaion.
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