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writes:Well, I found out that he cheated on me and it continued over a long period of time. I confrunted him, and he said that he stopped. I then cought him out several times after that. It has been about six months since he swore that it has ended, but I cant forgive him. I cant leave, but I dont want to feel like this every time I look at him. I want a family and I dont know whether he will take the leap and start one with me, hes all about the money. Full time working mum, and I dissagree. Should I wait and see, or follow my instinck and leave him???
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reader, penta  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 I'm with Beckto, for her reasons and also for this one: if he HAS changed (which I'm not sure is possible, but let's assume so for the sake of argument). If he has changed, and you can't forgive him, then it's going to be miserable for both of you. You can't live like this, and neither can he.
So for Beckto's very good reason, and for this one, I think you should leave this guy and start afresh. Good luck.
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reader, Beckto +, writes (24 July 2007):
 GO WITH YOUR GUT. LEAVE.
The past is the best indicator of FUTURE actions.
Your instinct is something that's in you to protect you. Go with your instinct.
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