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Sex with my boyfriend is a bit awkward; where could we go for some proper privacy?

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Question - (24 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *ah mouw writes:

Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be intimate with someone and have your privacy, where can you go where you can't be paranoid about getting caught, or not having enough privacy..?

:] Thanks.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThis is great news and a very wise decision on your part.

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A female reader, lah mouw United States +, writes (25 July 2007):

lah mouw is verified as being by the original poster of the question

lah mouw agony aunt"The reason it's so hard for someone your age to find a private place to have sex is because our society doesn't condone it. Your parents don't, the law doesn't, the church doesn't, the school system doesn't, so anywhere you go there is the risk of being "caught". What does that indicate to you? Perhaps those barriers are there to protect you from doing something you will regret latter on in life? They were not accidentally placed."

I must agree actually. I today I told him I wasn't exactly comfortable doing it. So I think things have been worked out.

well it says you are aged 13-15. i dont really think at this age you should be having sex. I'd have to disagree, although I am only turning 16, I believe that sex is a thing between two people who love each other. Hm, and I find that it's only right if it's consentual, and if you're ready...

...ramble ramble

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThe reason it's so hard for someone your age to find a private place to have sex is because our society doesn't condone it. Your parents don't, the law doesn't, the church doesn't, the school system doesn't, so anywhere you go there is the risk of being "caught". What does that indicate to you? Perhaps those barriers are there to protect you from doing something you will regret latter on in life? They were not accidentally placed.

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A female reader, finchy United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

finchy agony auntwell it says you are aged 13-15. i dont really think at this age you should be having sex.

But who am i to judge... i dont really think there would be anywhere as you are that young so you cnt rent a hotel room for the night or anythiing.. you could always go camping.

and please remember to use protection =D

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A male reader, blazee United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

blazee agony auntim not exactly sure, do you both have your own apartments?

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