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*ah mouw
writes: Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be intimate with someone and have your privacy, where can you go where you can't be paranoid about getting caught, or not having enough privacy..?:] Thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 July 2007):
This is great news and a very wise decision on your part.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (25 July 2007):
lah mouw is verified as being by the original poster of the question"The reason it's so hard for someone your age to find a private place to have sex is because our society doesn't condone it. Your parents don't, the law doesn't, the church doesn't, the school system doesn't, so anywhere you go there is the risk of being "caught". What does that indicate to you? Perhaps those barriers are there to protect you from doing something you will regret latter on in life? They were not accidentally placed."
I must agree actually. I today I told him I wasn't exactly comfortable doing it. So I think things have been worked out.
well it says you are aged 13-15. i dont really think at this age you should be having sex. I'd have to disagree, although I am only turning 16, I believe that sex is a thing between two people who love each other. Hm, and I find that it's only right if it's consentual, and if you're ready...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 July 2007):
The reason it's so hard for someone your age to find a private place to have sex is because our society doesn't condone it. Your parents don't, the law doesn't, the church doesn't, the school system doesn't, so anywhere you go there is the risk of being "caught". What does that indicate to you? Perhaps those barriers are there to protect you from doing something you will regret latter on in life? They were not accidentally placed.
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reader, finchy +, writes (24 July 2007):
well it says you are aged 13-15. i dont really think at this age you should be having sex.
But who am i to judge... i dont really think there would be anywhere as you are that young so you cnt rent a hotel room for the night or anythiing.. you could always go camping.
and please remember to use protection =D
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reader, blazee +, writes (24 July 2007):
im not exactly sure, do you both have your own apartments?
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