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writes:hi,I'm about to go out with this guy and he is more experienced than me and i wanna kno how to give a blow job. and when you do is he hard or soft when u start?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): Either way is fine. I prefer soft. I love it when my c*ck enlarges and fills my lovers mouth. It is very sexy. I agree with all the other posts, he'll probably get hard just knowing what a special thing you're going to do. The hair is the worst part. Use your hands to mat it down. Squeeze his nuts after he is throbing hard. Spitting is recommended, too. Seriously. getting down on your man isn't a dainty thing. He's a stud, treat him like one.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 come on honey, pick it up when its still soft. Though its very rare for a guy to have his tool soft when he knows he's gonna eat the friut..But just in case he turns out flacid please be sure he's clean enough or use a condom to give him 'head' thats if he's got no zib with it. Then try as much as possible to roll your tongue round round its top. This will give him one hell of an experience to remember. Finally try to tease him with some soft gentle bites along the shaft Make sure he precums so that when u finally get him at 90 degrees again for the penetration, he can last as long as u will take to reach climax.. Go have some fun gal and make sure u play everything safely to avoid any regretts after
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reader, Beckto +, writes (24 July 2007):
 You're old enough to rent a couple of pornos. Watch how they do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): Well, that's the 'hard or soft' question answered. If you want to know about the 'how' I suggest you look at some porn sites for some pretty remarkable techniques in action. I suggest Uselessjunk.com - if you can't learn something from them I'll be very surprised. Oh, and by the way, coming on a girl's face is strictly for the porn sites - it just ain't normal.Enjoy!Phil
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Well, you can also "warm him up" with your hands... go down there and get to know him, so to speak. Have fun, explore, and see what kinds of movements get him to react more. Then, when you feel like he's getting hard, or is there, don't go straight to his penis. You can tease him by kissing around it, on it, licking up it, teasing his balls, etc... Then slowly go on to the full oral. It's not all just about the sex- foreplay is important, too! It's a great way to get to know his body, and sometimes, if he's ticklish, you can get a few laughs, too. ;)
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reader, Danny07  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 if he knows your about to do it. he should be hard before you even get to unzip his pants. but if he isnt dont worry. just start doing it weather it is soft or hard.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 July 2007):
 I agree with the previous poster you can start off when it's soft and let it grow in your mouth, or just wait till it's already hard.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): well u can either start sucking his d@#k when its soft and it'll get hard im sure...or if its already hard then thats always great. just watch ur teeth and have fun =)
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