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I have a mad crush on a customer

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Question - (24 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I work and I see frequent customers. There is this one main guy who comes in about every week, and when i see him, i get sooo red. Expecially when i communicate with him. And I'm sure he notices too!!

I've seen quite a few attractive guys, but this one really stands out. I don't know if its just me, but i get soo nervous around him. I'm trying to figure out if its because he's so frickin gorgeous..or just they way he comes into the store, really confident, relaxed..etc.

When he first came in to do business, I remember telling him the price list..when to pick up his stuff...and at the end of the convo, he asked for my name and i gave him a handshake. and it wasn't one of those wussy one's either. He's like, "you've got a nice handshake". I think its the little things that are getting to me..

He's probably in his mid 20's. His eyes are the purest blue ever, and he's just..WOW.

Why am I like this???? If i feel this way about him, does he feel the same? I mean, even when he leaves he looks back and smiles at me...

maybe its just me...but when I see him again, i'm probably gonna get it off my chest and say "i'm gonna boost your ego a bit, but i think you are insanely gorgeous". I'm not looking for a relationship or anything, but i feel i'm probably looking into this too much. its fun though!

thanks for the help!'

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

Don't throw yourself at him - you are worth far more than this and you obviously want him to see that you are too.

If you come over equally as confident and go out together for a couple of social drinks or a meal or something purely as friends.

I would go with other advice here and say get to know him a bit better, maybe get to know his friends after all it is a good well known saying:

"You become the books that you read and the people you hang around with."

Develop things gradually and see how it goes.

I hope it goes well.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntMid-twenties? Better find out if he's married or not before you go for it.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntYou're young i say go for it , you could even take it one step further and ask him out.

Take care.xx.

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