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writes:I am 16 . I have liked a guy who I only shared 1 class with for 2 years. We are both extremely shy but I got the feeling that he like me e.g. His friends would let him know when I entered a room or he would show off in front of me and things like that. One day I made long eye contact with him in the corridor passing by. Later on that day as his and my friends walked past each other he smiled at me and I smiled back .So we knew we liked each other but were so shy we couldn't even speak o each other.As my crush grew so did his as he's always be looking at my and my friends were always commenting on how much he's look. And he'd kick a football over and I had to kick it back.I had never spoken to him before because we were both so nervous and shy. So bravely : ) I asked him a questiion about something and he answered seeming quite nervously.So the next time we had that class he asked me somthing. After the lesson I asked him out because I was so fed up about not knowing. It was 2 days before really inportant 2 months of exams so he said he didn't know but he' let me know. The next day, he said It's too near to the exams but maybe after thanx for asking though.He wouldn't stop looking at me for the rest of the day and whilst waiting to go to sit an exam his friends would have to stand by mine and he would glance over at me.At the prom my friends kept saying that he was looking at me and standing closely with his friends .I was dancing with a group of friends mostly guys ( my friends said once again that he was looking at me when I was dancing). I have 1 really ood guy friend that I did dance with alone though ( not a slow dance) and I would never consider him as a boyfriend anyway.So then he danced with a female friend. I went up with my guy friend I'd been dancing with to say hi but he only spoke to my friend and then right infront of me danced with the 'school slut'. So I danced with another guy friend to try to make him jealous.As we were all leaving, he was going to go out through one exit but as he saw me going out through the other one he decided to take that one and was right behind me. He got into his car and we were looking at each other for ages. He left then.As my friends and I got into our limo his friends were looking at me . I don't know what to do or even if he still likes me. We are just so extremely shy. Hope To get a reply soon
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reader, 88jane +, writes (24 July 2007):
 im sorry but i have to agree to a certain extent with "know it all". you plucked up the courage to ask this guy out and he turned you down. If his reasons were genuine about the exams then i would have thought he would have spoken to you after and started something--now that he knows you like him he wouldnt need to be shy anymore! when he made his excuses as to why he couldnt go out with you i think he was just trying to let you down gently! hes had plenty of opportunity since then to talk to you but it seems like hes avoiding you!he also may only be looking at you because he catches you looking at him! i could be wrong and i hope that i am but i dont know!he might just be incredibly shy and think that maybe you dont like him anymore and hes too shy to ask but i think its more likely that he doesnt feel the same way about you (unfortunately!!)i hope we are wrong, good luck hunni! xxxx
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reader, know_it_all  +, writes (24 July 2007):
Something is wrong here. This may hurt, but I could be wrong it does happen. If you asked him out and he put you off to later, ingnores you and talks to your friends it just sounds like he isn't interested, not shy. He probably knows that you like him, that is why he is looking at you and his friends are probably talking about you.
Just because he showed off in class doesn't mean it was for you, it could be for his friends, other girls or he is bored. By putting the date off, if he was interested exam time wouldn't have gotten in the way, he would no longer be nervous because at that point he knows you are interested.
There is a curse us women can carry and that is we are blind sometimes and make guys out to be what we want even though it isn't true. Don't let your feeling blind you to the truth.
Good luck I hope I am wrong for your sake.
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