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writes:My relationship of two years ended only about a week ago, and my ex is already dating someone else. As if the pain wasn't enough to bear already, he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and just pretend like he never loved me or that I even existed. We made plans for the future, and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with this guy. How do I get over this asshole?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): the same thing happened to me too...but the worst part is that right after we broke up he got his new girlfriend pregnet and now they are living together..its been 8 months and i still cant belive it..the best advice i can give you is try to hang out with your friends and go out as much as possible...avoid being alone beacuse all you would do is think of him..i cant promise you anything though because its been 8 months for me and i still cant forget him
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reader, Danny07  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 this exact same thing happend to me. i was with her for 2 years also. we made plans to live with each other as soon as we could afford it. then she left me, after that i tried talking to her and she was just so mean to me like i had done something wrong. which i didnt i was really kind to her. and she started dating somebody 2 weeks later and claimd "she loved him", after we broke up she acted like she didnt ever care for me and didnt even no me and made me out to be the biggest asshole in the world! anyway it took me around 8 month to get over her. i still think of her sometimes now. you may get over it faster then me :) just hang around with friends try not to do stuff that you 2 used to do together. get a new hobby? hope this helps.
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reader, simpleput +, writes (25 July 2007):
Join the gym, join a club, or something to occupy your mind. Do something for yourself and for your career in your life. Keep yourself busy doing things for yourself. It works. The Single life is great. Enjoy it. Date others and move on. Celebrate. Live and Learn. He wasn't the one for you. There is someone else out there for you that's why he is out of your life to make room for someone else. It was a good thing u guys had but now it is over. Don't dwell on the past. This was just bump in your life that you can overcome. The first thing you should do is not write about him anymore on this site. I want to hear what your doing for yourself. There are good men out there but the one u pick was only good for 2yrs and that sucks. Obvouisly he wasn't a good enough men for you and he probably was a cheater. Keep ur head up and look forward. No regrets Good Luck
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reader, tadala +, writes (25 July 2007):
 I can't believe that your guy has already moved on. This tells me that he was already seeing this girl before you two broke up. It's better that you don't talk to him, that way you'll get over him faster. The first two weeks are the hardest, once you "get over the hump," so to speak you won't give him a second thought! I would just stay as busy as possible and hang out with family and friends, people that would never let you down like that. Just be glad that you found out his true colors early, rather than later!!!
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