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writes:Why do guys always want to see two chicks get it on? That is so gross to me! But the other night my b/f and I were out partying with a female friend of mine, who is well-endowed and beautiful. He kept wanting us to kiss so he could take a picture. Well we were all drinking quite a bit and having fun, so we did a near-kiss (meaning we got our faces close, and acting silly with our tongues out, but not touching each other). Now he says he wants the real thing - a full on kiss. Is this going to lead to other things?....Like the request for a three-some?...I know my b/f is a bit hot over my friend, though I know she'd never give him the time of day (she's happily married anyhow) and I honestly don't think he'd do anything behind my back so I don't mind indulging in a small part of his male fantasy but I hope I'm not opening a can of worms here. Why is this such a turn on to men? My women friends and I don't get turned on at the sight of two men kissing, in fact it's a big "yuck" in our books, so what's the deal here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): A man's Perspective.Fantasy is okay, no matter what that fantasy is. As long as it stays in the mind or is played out in some healthy fashion. Many of us have fantasies or fetishes that could be dangerous in many respects. Whether it be dangerous to your relationship or dangerous to your health, you should keep a fantasy as is; in the mind.How important is a kiss? Is it worth the possibility that it may cause problems in the relationship? I would think not. I would suggest you pull out of the situation. If it's just a kiss/fantasy than move forward, it's not worth the potential problem that it could cause. As for the previous post, I don't mean to be sensitive but you sound like a man-eater. Not all men "give them an inch and they take a mile", were not all dumb oaks! What a silly assumption. Stating "woman are more beautiful creatures than men" is like saying "red is better than blue". Are you kidding? Why do *some* men like threesomes is fundamental psychology. Nearly all animals display a universal sexual behavior. Female judges male and then allows the male to mate with her. Male tries to impregnate as many females as he possibly can. This is all for procreation and furthering the survival of the species. No one role is "better" than the other, they just work together like a round peg in a round hole. It's nature, period. It's my belief that threesomes trigger this male sexual instinct to mate with as many partners as possible. The visual of two female sex partners is than one sexual partner. I hope I'm being clear enough. Regardless, we aren't just animals who are at the mercy of our instincts. We have something called self-awareness and that little right/wrong voice in our heads.Anyway, it boils down to this question:Is this worth the risk of ending my relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): Don't think that all guys want a threesome. I maybe thought about it before I had a girlfriend, but now that I have one, I wouldn't want it to be anyone then just the two of us. She does enough all by herself to get me going and I really wouldn't want to share.
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reader, mamas627  +, writes (25 July 2007):
i think that men will always want multiple women in a sexual situation. it feeds their ego....and it's one of thos ever unattainable things...if men could have a harem without receiving judgement or a backlash from the women involved they definitely would.i think that by kissing ur friend for him you could be opening the door to further requests...it's always ur right to draw the line at whatever comfort level you have. but what u need to realize is that once u give an inch...he'll always ask and pressure for more. maybe not disrespectfully but it's just natural. and if ur willing to put up w/being bugged further about it...by all means....kiss the girl. but know that from that point on...a lot of his fantasies may center on that single act. and i know us as women, we don't necessarilly like our men's fantasies to involve anyone but us and them.i have a theory on the reason 2 girls kissing is hot and NOT 2 guys kissing. women r actually more prone to bisexuality than men and the answer for this, in my opinion, is simple. women r the more beautiful of the species...HANDS DOWN. so what is more beautiful and sensual than seeing 2 beautiful creatures together u know? 2 men....not so much. but if u think of the most beautfiul men in the world....maybe brad pitt and that underwear model marcus whoever in an embrace and a sensual kiss....they're BEAUTIFUL...so it's not quite as disgusting as you'd think. am i right? well that's my theory anyway. hope some of this helped answer ur questions.... =). and good luck!
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