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female
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36-40,
*achakaRoni
writes:Theres this guy, Ive liked him and been seeing him casually for the last yr and a half. Ive been away for the last 2 months and we were keeping in contact up untill the last week I was there, which was last week. I kept calling him, texting and messaging him on myspace and he wud ignore me. I called him up yesterday to just ask why he was ignoring me and he said he didnt like the questions I kept asking. I said he was being rude by ignoring me and well long story short, we cud talk again now. I dont know why, I know he is bad for me, as Ive come back after being away for a few months different person and more confident. I do want him in my life- I know that much. but I dont think I can trust him completely because I think I know deep down he will never see me as more than that and he will keep having sex with other girls. He said he wudnt while I was away and in that last week I was away he slept with another girl.He says he wants to see me tonight, on sum level I do but on another I know its not a good idea. I dont know what to do, coz I do really like him and dont not want him in my life but vice versa, if he hurts me again- It'll hurt 2 much. Im stuck, sum1 help please. Thanks xx
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reader, blazee +, writes (24 July 2007):
 heya, um he ignored you for a long time. and now he wants to meet up?
it sounds as when he wants something he comes running to you, and when he didn't need you he ignored you.
if you get into a relationship again the feelings you will have are
1. unsecure, worrying about him going with other girls, he has cheated on you already.
2. it will be hot and cold. with him being positive sometimes when he wants something. and negative when he has eventually got it or found somethingelse to do.
please, before you make a decision decide how you view yourself.
do you deserve to be treated like this?
is this the kind of love you dreamed about when you were little?
think if you want to be in a relationship wondering every night if he has cheated...then make your decision.
all the best xx
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