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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hope i can get help...ok so this guy who is a friend of a friend,told me he likes me and he didnt know but i have had a crush on him for awhile now.so we began talking on the phone and he invited me and my friends to a barbeque at his house.the night of the barbeque he kissed me and i thought it meant something but apparently he told his female bestfriend(who likes him as well)that i'm a bad kisser and i found out.he doesn't know i know but he still calls me and last night he asked me why i was so quiet on the phone.he asked me if i had a problem with him and i told him yes but i would tell him another time and he said when i was ready to give him a call and he hung-up.my friend who is friends with his female bestfriend is who told me what he said and i know for a fact that it's true but i don't want to tell him because then he'll know where i got it from.so what should i do...?please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): how can you like a guy who talks sh*t about you?! thats silly, move on and find a nice guy
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (17 July 2007):
Your friend will be telling you the truth as she heard it, but how do you know that his female best friend was telling her the truth? You said yourself that she likes him. You could hardly call her unbiased could you? If you are such a bad kisser, why is he still interested? I think you have to tell him what your problem is. You need have no guilt about him finding out where you heard it. Either he did say those things, in which case he should be ashamed of himself because he told tales about you that he shouldn’t - and he might have said it to her to keep her interested in him. I’m sure that if she fancies him, he knows about it. Or he didn’t say it at all and she is lying. In that case he should have the chance to convince you that he didn’t say it. How can he do this if he doesn’t even know? Hopefully you will be able to tell if he is telling the truth when you ask him. By the way, if he is angry with you for asking him, then I would say that proves he did say those things.
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