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writes: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 1/2 months and things are starting to get a bit more physical. We haven't had sex, far from it probably, but each time we are together, we always seem to touch a little bit more. Go a little bit farther. It's just short increments but she says we have to be careful because if we keep doing this, we'll get closer and closer to not being able to say no. We are both virgins and think it's best to wait till marriage or at least till you are engaged. I guess my question is, what can we do to make it so we don't go to far but can still fool around have have fun? (it get's boring to keep doing the same things)I know I haven't really said what we have been doing. I guess what I'm asking for are things you can do that don't lead to orgasm but are still fun and tantalizing.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 ok so you want to have fun and not orgasm? there are things that you can do that will result in orgasm but arent considered sex, but if you dont wanna go this far than you can do things that are more on the romantic side - massage with aromatherapy oils, candlelit baths, etc. massaging can be very intimate and enjoyable and you can learn about eachother's bodies and wat feels good for the both of you. doing things like this can be very good for you as you get to explore eachother and prepare. i think its very admirable that you and your partner are saving eachother for your wedding night or engagement - it will be so much more special for the both of you. if you want more advice feel free to email xxx
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reader, kristinakutie  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 lol, ever heard of a hand job.. just as fun. and you could finger her, or just feel around her. kissing eachother everywhere is also funn. maybe you 2 could even go down on eachother.. but completely up to you. hope that helped you =] good luck
~kristina
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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 i agree with sweetie.you can massage each other you can find out what both of your bodies like by fondling each other.all i can say is try and get to know what your body and his body like s so when you do have sex it's very enjoyablex x x
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reader, sweeite +, writes (16 July 2007):
hey bbe,
ok so you both wanna wait ok thats fine, how ever you dont need to have sex to have a good time, have you ever heard of 4 play, y not try playing around with each others body and kissing each other all over, you could feel her and how wet she is with out pputting it in. good luck xxxx
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