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writes:SO im 15 and i have this friend who ill call Ash.She moved here in November, and since i was fairly new [moved here in june of last year] i took the time to get to know her and we became close friends. I let her see all of me [i mean, my real me, how i act] and she seemed to be ok with it. I even bought her an awesome present for her in APRIL when her birthday is in JULY! We hung out during school and such. When summer break came along, i thought we'd spend ALOT of time together cuz we were like best friends. But in the beginning of june she got to know her neightbor and of course, they became great friends too. I have no problem with her nieghbor at all and would hang out with her if it makes Ash happy. I called Ash on her birthday, left a cute little message. Told her to call me back. Nothing. I thought maybe she didnt recieve it. i called her on her cell and she answered! I said, hello! She hung up on me. I was devastated. Cuz i care about her alot.! she was my first real friend.I waited a couple of days and met her at the library...! face to face, she had to talk to me. but she was cold and mean-ish. i thought she just had a bad day, so i just talked the whole time and asked to hang out. She was like, SURE! i was to happy that the next day i called her at her HOUSE. she answered the phone. i mean, i know her voice...totally. but anyway, to be polite, i asked HER "is ash there? its my name" There was a pause and she answered, " Uh, no, ....actually she'd not here. " i was devasted and wanted to tel her i knew it was her....but i said, oh well, tell ash to call me back,k? She just said, fine and hung up. How rude!Its been 5 days, and still no answer from Ash. Im starting to wonder if she ditched me for her nieghbor, maybe im not good enuff? i mean, i feel really bad because i dont know what i did wrong...help me?
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reader, Cyg79 +, writes (17 July 2007):
 First off you did nothing wrong, you can’t control others feeling or actions. As hard as it may be you need to give her space and move on. True friends don’t act nice to you one minute and ditch you the next. If she wishes to hang out with you she’ll seek you out.
Try to find others that share the same interests as you, and make new friends.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
This does seem a bit cruel of her to do this to you, I think you need to get her on her own somewhere and have a little chat ask her why she has changed towards you, have you done something to up set her in any way???
Tell her you miss your friendship and you valued her so much as a friend.....
If she is any kind of friend she will either tell you what you have done or she is going to feel terrible for treating you this way....
If after this she is still the same towards you babes then sorry to say but she really wasn't a good friend in the first place was she ???
I really hope this can be resolved for you and hey you sound like a great friend to have so its her loss if she lets you slip by......
Chin up sweet
Good luck
Love Donna xx
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