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*mma_Australila_1983
writes:HOUSEMATE FROM HELL!! I have recently taken over lease and my housemate has moved out two days ago. She's lived there for a year and a half longer than me. I refused to sign the lease until she finishes a few things off such as returning the keys, removing all the rubbish in the backyard, and retaining my bond that I've paid with the landlord. She has since been sending me abusing messages saying that everyone close to me turns their back on me and I should wake up and see how I treat people. I really can't see what I've done wrong. She's moved out with her boyfriend, she needs to do these things as it's only fair, she would have to clean up rubbish if we were both moving out. I don't want to be stuck with all these things and get taken advantage of. We share mutual group of friends and I want to go out and tell everyone how nasty she is behaving towards me. I want everyone to see how ugly her personality is. She has blamed so many things on me and I've always taken it because I don't want to cause fights but this is the first time I've actually stood up to her and she is a real piece of work. I'm pretty down about it all because we did live together for a year. I don't know what to do...she's asked me not to contact her but she keeps messaging me :( Does anyone have any good advice I could put into practice??
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reader, Emma_Australila_1983 +, writes (17 July 2007):
Emma_Australila_1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your answers, that advice did really help. I know I just have to forget about her and I feel better hearing these things from other peoples. I appreciate all your advice thanks x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): keep your friends out of it. this is between you and her and you shouldn't spread it any further. you may be angry but that would be very unfair and cruel. having said that you don't have to continue to be her friend because she's acting like an idiot. she should have to do the things you mentioned but its pretty obvious she isn't going to, so i say do them yourself, move on from your friendship and if anyone asks just say you have "irreconcilable differences". dont' hold on to bitterness because it will eat you up inside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): HI DARLING,
Leave her to her bitterness sweetheart, to my idea she should really have offered to help anyway thats what friends do I thought.
Dont reply to any texts as things can get out of hand and if she is really as immature as you are saying then she would probably be the one to show your friends what you had sent, so dont rise to the occation love....
Just ignore her for the time being and go about your life as normal, dont let this sap you of your possitive energy, its not nice when friendships turn out this way..
Just you carry on being you and im sure in the end true colours will come out TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Leave her to be the nasty person she is don't allow yourself to bad mouth her it will only make it look like she is right about you, if they are your friends your true friends know who you really are....
As for her texting you just ignore her she is not worth it hun, she is obviously not going to come back so your going to have to swallow hunble pie and sort the rubbish out yourself, but once its done she is gone for good and you can carry on.....
Its a shame friendships end like this and if you have tried talking to her then there really isn't much more you can do....
You be strong but don't allow this to up set you babes, your true friends will always be there for you thats for sure
Love Donna x
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