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anonymous
writes:i like a guy 9 years older and i thought he liked me ( me 10, and him 19). it was good when no one knew i liked him, but then some one found out. she told him and now he wont talk to me. what do i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): Trust me it's for the best!! Think of the mistakes that you could have made at such a young age if he had shown interest in you and taken advantage of you. Be smart!! You are a strong young woman and you should never forget it. Don't let boys or men rule your life ever!
I promise that in a few days it won't hurt so badly and there will be someone else more worth your time.
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (17 July 2007):
Simple. He doesent like you back. He avoiding you because he doesent want to lead you on. Time to move on.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hey bbe sorry 2 say this but honestly he is doin the best thing by stayin away.. you r 10.. and he is 19.. you will understand this later on in life.. He is staying out of trouble, as i am sure your parents etc will not be impressed with this..
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): He's doing the right thing by avoiding you. If anything was to happen between you two then he would be in a lot of trouble and end up being labelled for the rest of his life. Be careful who you tell your secrets to next time honey.
xxx
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reader, LauraE +, writes (16 July 2007):
Hi there,
He has absolutely no choice but to avoid you, because if he has any involvement with you at all he could get in very serious trouble. It's a pity that you can't carry on enjoying your crush on him, but now that some interfering person has told him, you will have to back off. Just smile and say hello, but don't try to do any more than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): This is such a huge age gap when you are this young. The thought of you having feelings for him probably scared him. After all imagine if you went out together and held hands in a public place. I'm certain that everybody would think there's something wrong. If you got sexually involved with each other too (a lot of 19 guys are after 1 thing) then he could get in huge trouble with the police for having sex with a minor. I think that whilst he's probably interested in girls his age i think that you should do the same. Have crushes on boys your own age, not guys almost double your age.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
There is nothing wrong with having a crush on an older man, I am sure he is flattered but at the same time you are so so much younger than him, it has probably scared him a little as he probably saw you more as a younger sister....
Next time you see him apologise for the person who told him, show him you can be grown up and say you only think he is a good looking guy I am sure he will be fine but don't push for anything else babes, your too young he won't appreciate it.....
Hope this has helped you darling,
Take care
Love Donna xx
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