A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been kinda seeing this lad for 3 years, we are not going out because of the distance! and when we are together we dont go on the pull and that...how ever the other night we went out, everything was fine, i came back fro the bar, and he was kissing some girl (that he meets up with sometimes)...he said he was so sorry and was drunk and made a big mistake and all this...how ever why did he do it? he cant care about me that much can he!?
View related questions:
drunk, kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): if he was kissing another girl he obviously doesnt care for you as much as he says he does,you should either dump him or kiss someone better looking than him and see what his reaction is.good luck!!!
A
male
reader, nologo  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Well you look for advice and for explanation.Lust is physical and it depends on sex drive.You see him 3 years and his feelings toward you are emotional.Moving from here: why you compare "physical" with "emotional". Another point is attitude: is kissing other than partner fair?
...............................
A
female
reader, kristinakutie  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 ok wow. you know maybe he does care for you, but 1) he isnt ready for just 1 girl 2) he doesnt care 3) maybe he was drunk and wasnt thinking (still not a good excuse, but you know sometimes you screw up)
but dont get yourself to attached to him, because if this happens again, my guess is that you will probably feel pretty hurt by it.. so just be careful..
or maybe it was just one of those one time things, but my guess is that because he did this, when you were with him, he's not worth getting close to.. maybe just friends with benefits or something, but if you start a relationship with him, you are most likely going to get hurt..
hope that helps you.. good luck =]
~kristina
...............................
|
