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writes:I need some advice please me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half and theres always been this guy that wont leave and get out of our relationship he was my gfs bestfriend over a year ago and since then has never left us alone he will try and get things into my head like saying that he had done stuff with her before we met and stuff he wont get out!!I just wanna break his nose what can i do can someone help me before I hurt him... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Just tell him you want him to leave you and your girlfriend alone; and tell him not to call or bother you two anymore...or you will charge him with harrassment. Then ignore him.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 DONT break his nose. This is what this guy wants!
Next time he says your girl and him did stuff before you met turn round and go "So?" Seen as if it happened before you met then it shouldn't matter to you.
Is your girl annoyed with him too or does she not know? I would suggest talking to her about it rather then go and hit this guy.
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reader, eddie +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I think you need someone to talk to who can offer you some professional advice, in person. You posted three times last week saying you're jealous of your girlfriend having a social life while you're in Portugal. Now you talk about breaking someone's nose. Are these posts real? Is this your attempt at patching up your insecurities?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hiya,
Do you know what will make him stop more than anything, if you ignore him.
How childish is he if he persists in trying to distroy your relationship, he is clearly just very jealous so don't rise to it.
All the time he knows what he is doing is winding you up he will carry on, don't let him have the control.
Don't hit him just walk away from him you are a better man than that.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): Tell your girlfriend what he has been saying to you. Then confront him together. Whatever you do don't physically harm him! Doing so would only serve to make you to bad guy. You and your girlfriend avoid him. Go out without telling him where you two are heading. Ignore him to the best of your ability. If he persists in following you everywhere like a stalker look into legal protection against him. Again do not hit him!
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