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writes:hi i am having a little struggle not sure what to think i have been seeing a pharmacist at a drug store and he is showing me he always comes to me right away and always talks and stares in my eyes as we talk about meds that i need just recently he winked a weird wink as saying goodbye and im confused should i make a move im not sure if he is just being kind and concerned or is there something else i dont know im not sure if hes married he has talked personal to me about his kids and he always takes good care of me tell what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Hmm this is a tricky one and absolutely a mine field of obstacles and questions surround it.* He may be genuinely interested in you* He may just be an irresistable flirt * He may be married and looking for a bit on the side* He may be very shy (but the winking kinda knocks that one out)* He may be testing viagra (ok im joking on that one)I do believe though that men absolutely will, without a doubt, go all out to get what they want (its the hunter instinct in them)If he is really determined to ask you out on a date, he will find a way to communicate this to you. (check your drug cartons for hidden messages). If he continues to be flirtatious, he may be just enjoying the thrill and may have attachments elsewhere that he cannot break from. Either way, you can only be interested in a genuine friendship that may (if you both choose) lead to a relationship.* A little suggestion: go to another pharmacy for a while, avoid him for a few weeks and then return. He may (if he is able)make his move then, for fear you may dissapear again. Be strong and try it, but ultimately the decision is his to proceed. Don't chase him and if he loses interest, smile to yourself at how mysterious it all was...and move on.good luckAunty Em x
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