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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): I believe it is possible to truely love and care for two people. You don't always fall out of love with one person, before falling in love with another. Our society has just decided that it is "morally" wrong to do so, that you are a bad person for feeling that way and that feeling that way is somehow directly disrespectful to your partner. If you take the "moral issue" out the way, most people are actually wired that way. Love is not always black and white.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (16 July 2007):
 yeah you could but it would be very diffcult. cheating is not right stick to one lover thats what i say.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I believe that it depends on the nature of their affair. Was it a one night stand? If they truely are sorry i believe they can.But if they went behind your back lied etc. They knew they would cause you hurt so i believe they truely dont love you.But love is never is black and white thing is it
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reader, kristinakutie  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 well they could still love you, but i dont think that they could stil be IN love with you.. becuase how you cheat on some1 you are still IN love with.. or idk maybe they are, but my guess is that 1) they arent ready to be commited to one person 2) they arent happy 3) they are insecure or 4) they just dont give a rats ass.. but my saying is, once a cheater, awlays a cheater (not always true, but for the most part i believe it is).. but i cant really say becausei dont know the whole story behind it.. so i hoep what i told you kind of helped.. in a sence.. good luck..
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Yes, they can; but obviusly something is very wrong in the relationship. Cheating is not right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): I'll be quick and simple here. This isn't the movies. If someone honestly loved and cared about you, they wouldn't betray you. Whether it was entirely willful or not. It shows how careless and thoughtless they are. Best to get that person out of your life as quick as possible before they pull some kind of manipulative card.
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